4 ▼ a u g u st 18. 18®5 ▼ just out PORTLAND’S letters SDtLmtf Don’t diminish the memory BED AND BREAKFAST To the Editor: The upcoming annual Right To Privacy fund­ raising dinner affords the opportunity to bestow upon one of our heroes one of the greatest gifts our community has to offer its own: respect. For the past 13 years this fund-raising event has been named in memory of, and to honor the memory of, the individual who chose to call himself Alan Hart. Likewise, those who attend this function partake in the celebration of Hart’s memory, and to mark the courage of those willing to be true to themselves despite societal opprobrium. There can be no doubt Hart was selected to reflect the respect due this individual, who is one of the earliest role models for the entire queer com­ munity in the state of Oregon. It matters little whether Hart would, if alive today, define himself as a butch lesbian, a transsexual, a transgender or a passing woman. What is beyond question is that Hart chose to be known by the name of Alan and referred to himself with male pronouns. Accord­ ingly, all of us who would honor this individual’s memory, and in doing so honor the struggle which all of us share as members of the sexual minority community, can give no greater honor than to respect Alan Hart’s wishes, by referring to him by the name he chose to be known by. Therefore, I request that Right To Privacy reflect Hart’s own choice by titling its fund-raising event the Alan Hart Dinner—commencing this year and for the years to come. To do anything else diminishes the memory of an individual who ex­ hibited the courage to live as he saw fit. 1744 NE CLAŒA1ÎAS STREET, PORTLAND OR (503) 331-1104 For Your Next Visit to Ashland C o u n try W ^ llo w s B I D A B R E A K F A S T I N N "Ashland’s Country Inn" i' « Private Baths K Heated Pool if Jacuzzi i ’ Hiking Trails i ’ Bicycles i Gourmet Country Breakfasts i ‘if (503) 488-1590 (800) WILLOWS (503) 488-1611 (PAX) 1313 CLAY ST. ASIII-AN1), OR 97520 Margaret Deirdre O ’Hartigan Portland Run out of Washington Park Chinese Style Bungalow To the Editor: I was stopped by the Portland Police on July 17 at 6:25 pm. Moments before, I had taken a walk through the northwest upper section of Washing­ ton Park, a section that I know is frequented by gay men. I entered my car, [which was] parked on Raleigh Hills Condo Strong leader $ 9 5 ,0 0 0 Rich in craftsman detail 235 SE 20th • $119,900 ¥ B ’Zillion Dollar Club 0 Windermere C m m à Captai Kcaliv Oraap. lac. 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I told him I just entered my car and that 1 normally wear [a belt] but on this afternoon I did not because I had a bad sunburn on my shoulders and that the very tight belt of my 1982 car would cause pain. He said he observed me entering my carearly and that I had plenty of time to put on my safety belt. He said that I did not look like I had a sunburn. He then said that walking in the park in the sun was the last place I should be with a sunburn. I told him I was merely walking in the park, not sunbathing. He then asked me, “What are you doing here?” I said just driving around, having a fun time. I apologized for not putting on the belt. He took my license, returned with a citation and said, “Even though there is hardly a danger of traffic up there I am going to cite you anyway.” I agreed with him on the lack of traffic and told him that I would show him my sunburn if he did not believe me. He declined. He then proceeded to tell me “You don’t belong here,” and “You shouldn’t be in the park,” while looking in the direction of the park I [had been] walking in. I quickly asked him why I shouldn’t be in the park. He paused for a moment and said, “This park isn’t for you. You should be doing something else.” He then hands me the citation and says, “Have a good day.” I immedi­ ately felt I was being singled out, harassed and discriminated against for walking in a gay section of Washington Park. I was clearly being run out, so Ileft. J John O ’Rourke was bom Nov. 15, 1950, at Women’s Hospital in Manhattan. He began his new journey on July 20,1995. John loved life and lived it to its fullest. He loved to laugh, and his laughter was contagious. He was quick-witted and had a wonderful sense of humor. At Stonehill College in Brockton, Mass., John was an honor student. While living in Los Angeles, John owned his own real estate company and belonged to a local Dignity chapter. John worked at the Bureau of Land Manage­ ment in Portland, where he developed and taught classes for project management. His knowledge of computers was unlimited. John made many friends during his six years at BLM; he will be greatly missed by his co-workers. John was the co-chair for the Portland Area HIV Title I Services Planning Council, which covered six counties. He provided strong leader­ ship and helped people work together to meet the needs of the HIV community. The commitment he brought to his work will be felt for many years to come. Another of John’s passions was gourmet cook­ ing. and he was happiest when cooking for his friends. John also loved to work in his yard. John is survived by his father. Tom. and his mother. Mildred, both of New York; his brothers Joe. of Brick. N.J., Rob. of Salt Lake City, and Tom. of New York; and his loving dog. Lady Dawn. John is also survived by three nieces and two nephews. He was preceded in death by his partner. Skip Slack. John left behind many wonderful friends whom he loved dearly. John, we all miss your warm and caring heart. In lieu of flowers, please send donations in memory of John to the Cascade AIDS Project, 620 SW Fifth Ave., Suite 300, Portland. OR 97204, or the Immune Enhancement Project, 2017 SE Hawthorne Blvd.. Portland. OR 97214.