Jmmt o u t V mmy 1 letters A life-threatening illness To the Editor: I’m really sick of the hypocritical, anti-white, man-hating dribble gushing forth from editor Ariel Waterman (sic) and Just Out in general. Your April 1, 1993 piece, “Sometimes It’s Hard to Tell Who the Enemy Is” really hits below the belt—subtly implying white men are “racist, geno- cidal, and murderous.” The same can be said in all races! Your statement is racist! You say that you support a diversity agenda for the gay community. Why is it that you are quick to cut anyone down who disagrees with you? You’ve got ‘PC’ dogma written all over your magazine. In your quest to promote diver­ sity you consistently go overboard— parading out the “Politically Correct Minority of the Month,” bashing gay white men frequently, and whiles in general, slashing all Christians without thinking of how you’re alienating our religious allies, and overpromoting minorities, when in fact the bulk of the gay population is white. Your very tactics promote racism, not mitigate it! W hy do you c o n sta n tly em brace the “transgendered” community? Gays have little in common with them. Prove how a man wanting to become a woman has anything to do with gay civil rights! It does not! Also, I ’m fed up with your frequent foul- m outhing o f the gay com m unity by using “queer”— that word is vulgar, painful, hurtful, and hateful. Why do you ‘PC’ types continue to use a word our enemies use against us?! You’re promoting internalized self-hatred. I doubt you’ll publish this piece, since it would be “politically incorrect” to print anything that opposes your racist, fascist agenda. I, as a good number of quiet gays and lesbians who feel as I do, have a right to speak my mind. That’s what this country was founded upon. If you were a true American, you’d realize t h a t . . Kyle Martin Portland Editor’s note: It's in my jo b description to m ake Just Out a m ore re p re se n ta tiv e newsmagazine. It’s in my heart to work toward ending oppression o f all peoples. I really ju st want people to get along and play fa ir with one another, and that means working to create a level playing field. There is no hidden agenda about my, or Just O ut’s, position on human rights. As a Waterwoman o f the Tsalagi (Cherokee) Nation, in the Beaver Clan, I do tend to think o fm yself as a "true Am erican.” A s a lesbian o f color, I don’t have the luxury to play "PC” games. Racism and genocide impact my life in the United States every day. Exchanging words, concepts and ideas is one way to examine the construct o f these oppres­ sions. We are a ll conditioned in certain behaviors and ways o f thinking that deny our inherent hu­ manity. One tool that I'v e found helpful over the years is to really stop and examine where strong negative feelings may be coming from within myself, especially when I start directing them at categories o f people. 1 share this, not to sound condescending, but to offer another way o f ap­ proaching strong reactive feelings. We do have real enemies that need to be fought. We have also been conditioned to perceive people o f color, queers, women, children, and the physically chal­ lenged as "wrong” andlessthan "human." When people from these categories stand up and fig h t this oppression, we have been conditioned to perceive them as the real threat (pretty good system fo r the oppressor). The oppressed are then the "enemy” to be stopped, and the real enemy remains in power and unchallenged. These be­ haviors are programmed into us from infancy. I am not your enemy. I am naming the oppres­ sion, not creating it. Naming it is a "threatening” thing to do, but it doesn't threaten your well­ being, it threatens the status quo o f an oppressive society. The process o f eliminating oppression 1. We Give You A 12 Month Written Lowest Price Guarantee Cost-effective activism Even though some chain stores buy by the carload and truckload, just as we do, the savings don't always get passed on to customers. We don't believe in that way of doing business. At Vancouver Furniture you get a written lowest price guarantee. If the identical item is offered for less in the next 12 months somewhere else or even at our own store, we refund the difference or credit it to your account. 2. You Get Free Delivery, Portland to Longview If you purchase anything at $499 or more, we'l 1 deliver it to your home free o f charge. Vancouver Furniture has six large delivery trucks and a service van on the road every week. 3. We Are The Only Union Furniture Store Of Any Size From Seattle to Medford Vancouver Furniture has employed union sales people and ware- house/drivers for over 45 years. We arc proud of our professional, dedicated staff. 4. Vancouver Furniture Is Community Active Our company has always believed in community service. Some time ago we decided to focus more on problems o f hunger and poverty. In the past few years we have given over 3,000 new and used mattresses to needy families. Our annual Peanut Butter & Johnny Limbo street dance has generated over 32,000 cans of food the last five concerts. This past year we donated 28 new twin mattress sets to the YWCA Safe Choice shelter for women and children who arc victims of domestic violence. Lorn Folsom Salem Living peacefully To the Editor: Recently I was a victim of harassment when three teen-aged boys began yelling “faggot” at me while I was working in my yard. Instead of letting this continue, I decided to conhont the boys and told them that I did not appreciate their remarks. Things got worse until I had no choice but to go to the manager of where I live. We talked, and the three “gentlemen” were found and brought over to my home with their mother so that we could have a nice discussion about the situation. Luck­ ily, this particular incident ended peacefully, maturely, and without any damaging scars. I guess what I’m trying to say is that we all need to live peacefully together on this planet. We must stand up for ourselves and prevent others from hurting us. There are so many violent acts, both physical and verbal, and we must help end this stupidity. The Oregon Citizens Alliance is one form of abuse to all gay people. Together we can over come the obstacle and become the strongest and most respected community ever! Let’s all be there for each other! We deserve equality and respect. Harassment will not be tolerated. 1993 W 3 Some things you might want to know about 47 year old Vancouver Furniture can reveal a multitude o f passionate feelings: terror, guilt, anger, rage, grief, isolation, and many more equally disturbing emotions. It's not fu n or easy; that's why it's called "work.” Trying to make me the enemy is keeping you from doing this important work. In the long run, naming oppression and working to eliminate it w ill ben­ efit all humanity, and the planet. To the Editor: In your coverage (March 1 issue) of President Clinton’s efforts to lift the ban on gays in the military, it is suggested by a Republican gay activist from Texas that we send Western Union “cablegrams” to politicians, urging them to dem­ onstrate support for the president’s plan. These messages cost $8.75 each. The Human Rights Campaign Fund (HRCF) in Washington, D.C. has a better idea. Their “Speak Out” program will accomplish the same thing for $3.50 per mailgram. “Speak Out” sends messages about 10 times each year to our legislators on critical federal legislation, always reaching them within 24 hours. Signing up for four messages costs $14 and guar­ antees us instant political impact in Washington. W hat’s more, you will receive a reply concerning each message. For further information and to enroll, call “Speak Out” at 800-777-HRCF or write to 1012 14th S l NW, Wash., D.C. 20005 . 5. We Keep Our Promises Expect courtesy, respect and service from us. We participate in the Portland Better Business Bureau Care Program. 6. Brands You Can Depend On Expect to find Simmons, Simmons Beautyrest, Scaly and Posturepedic mattresses, every size, luxury level and firmness. We also carry Lane, La-Z-Boy, Douglas, Stratolounger, Kincaid, GuildCraft, Pulaski, Hippopotamus, Amana, Maytag, Frigidaire, Toshiba, Mitsubishi, Magic Chef and more. m i Bob tor? Jake TiV m i 'V- f. Rod Johnson Cornelius 7. What About Oregon? People from more than 85 differ­ ent communities in Oregon cross the river to buy from us...from Cascade Locks to Astoria. Reason? Good taste need not be expensive. At Vancouver Furniture we simply sell for less. "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere." Martin Ijither King, Jr. TRANSITION Rod W. Smith, one-time resident of Portland, died Friday, February 12,1993 with the help and support of his loving family in the Chicago area. Ron was bom October 3, 1959 and lived in Portland in the 1970s and early ‘80s. He attended Beau Monde College and was employed by the Fred Meyer Corporation. After moving back to Illinois in 1983, he worked as a stylist, eventually owning his own shop. Ron’s life touched many people. He will be missed by his entire family, including his parents, Mike and Mae Smith; those he worked with both in Portland and Illinois; and his friends, including Ron Huxhold and Jon Murray. Not actors. 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