A valentine to us all Through successes and failures and periods of depression, they share a friendship and a love that defines what is special about gay love between men B Y E R I C R O F E S Rat and the Devil: Journal Letters o f F.O. Matthiessen and Russell Cheney, edited by Louis Hyde (Alyson Publications, $9.95). s our contemporary gay and lesbian com­ munity becomes interested in the inner workings of couples, a book is published that provides us with an illuminating and moving account of the relationship between two remark­ able homosexual men who found each other in A the 1920s. Rat and the Devil: Journal Letters of F.O. Matthiessen and Russell Cheney provides us with an intimate look into the lives of a Harvard professor and a Maine painter who began a twenty-year love affair in 1924. Their story — told through a collection of letters between them — is a rare and wonderful look at gay identity, substance abuse and love between men during a time when we have few firsthand accounts. Thank goodness these letters were rescued from an archive and published! Quite separately, as individuals, these men made their mark on American culture. M atthiessen, well known as a champion of American literature through his groundbreaking book American Renaissance, which is still used in college classes, was a popular teacher, writer and political activist in Cambridge until his death by suicide in 1950. Cheney, the darling son o f an old New England family and the “ older m an” in this relationship, traveled throughout America and Europe making a name for him self with painting. Their union — and I've seen that word applied to many couples less worthy o f the term — provided each man with the foundation to live a life with some degree of integrity and openness during very repressive years. They met by chance aboard the ocean liner Paris on a trans-Atlantic journey in 1924. Their meeting is recounted in a letter written by M atthiessen to his Yale classmate Russell W. Davenport, and is fascinating both because of M atthiessen’s joy at finding a gentleman of like mind and because of its clear connection to the long line o f gossip, storytelling and dishing that constitutes the history o f queens: Came two o ’clock, and we went down to our cabins. Now, I said, steeled by desperation, now, now. I’ll never get up courage enough if I don’t do it now. So I sat Rat down in a chair in my cabin on the pretense of giving him some fruit before we went to bed. And while his mouth was stuffed with a pear, I said in a voice that attempted to maintain its usual pass the bread, please conver­ sational tone, but which sounded queer and remote for all that: “ I know it won’t make any difference to our friendship, but there’s one thing I’ve got to tell you: before (my extraordinary senior year at Yale) I was sexually inverted. Of course I’ve controlled it since. . . ” The munching of the pear died away. There followed perhaps half a minute of the most heavily freighted silence I have ever felt. Then, in a far away voice I had never heard came the answer: “ My God, feller, you’ve turned me upside down. I’m that way too.” Coming out to each other — 1920s style — and from this point on through 20 years of time together and time apart traveling, through suc­ cesses and failures and periods of depression, they share a friendship and a love that defines — to me at least — what is special about gay love between men. The issues are all there: talking about cruising other men in dark alleys, monogamy and sexual issues, how a couple articulates itself and its values to straight friends. The letters take the reader on a journey down a special path of love. The twists and turns are there, but so are many golden sunsets and warm hugs. Two aspects o f the relationship and the book demand special attention. The first is the manner in which their identity as “ inverts” undergoes a period o f transition during the 20 years. Matthiessen and Cheney discuss Whit­ man, Carpenter, Havelock Ellis, and one can note specific changes in their conceptualizations o f themselves and their love as new concepts of sexual identity are popularized. While a subtext throughout the letters reveals a deep and ominous homophobia and sex-negative attitude on both m en’s part (Matthiessen appears to have quite deliberately avoided other homo­ sexual men at Harvard; both fall into tradi­ tionally moralistic attitudes about their sexual urges and guilt drips from some of the finer passages o f the book), at other times they seem brazenly open about being gay. Some have argued that Matthiessen’s suicide, a few short years after Cheney’s death. was due less to his political feelings about the state ot the world during the Cold War — the traditional view o f his death — than to the fact that he could only survive as a homosexual within the trappings o f a relationship that appeared, on many levels, to be a standard marriage. The other fascinating aspect of this book involves Cheney’s obvious problem with con­ trolling his alcoholism, and Matthiessen’s con­ sistently co-alcoholic response. It was not until the ’70s that gay men as a community began to address issues of addiction and co-addiction, but these men appear as textbook examples — much like Auden and his Chester. Matthiessen’s attempts to keep Cheney sober — through any means possible — add a dimension to the rela­ tionship that is both comic and tragic. For any­ one interested in a portrait o f a couple tangled in a web o f addiction-related issues, this book will have special meaning. Louis Hyde is to be commended for editing his friends’ letters — controversial when first published in hardcover in the ’70s — and Alyson is to be commended for making the book accessible in paperback. These men with their lovey-dovey nicknames are fertile ground for more scholarship and for treatment in theatrical settings. These letters are a valentine to all o f us. • Eric Rofes is a former teacher, a writer and the executive director of the Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Community Services Center. 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