Continued from page 3 The healing process was a long one for each of us; m y parents had to pick up their pieces, and I was thrust into the adult world. There were som e awkward m om ents — especially when Dad first started dating other men. The first tim e I saw him kiss another man, I was speechless for half an hour; but I was able to be honest with Dad, and once we’d talked openly about his preference and his new life style, I was able to accept him as a human being. I guess that’s a problem most young people face as they become adults; they tend to put their parents on a pedestal when they’re kids, and when their parents can’t live up to such contrived standards, the kids get dis illusioned. My parents’ divorce and my Dad's com in g out taught me to accept my parents as people, nothing more or less. And it’s a lot easier to talk to human beings than to gods. / hope that other straight people read this paper (sometimes I think we're the ones who need to) and realize that when some one you loue comes out. he's still the person you know and loue - only more so. He can be himself more fully, because he can be true to himself. I have read your publication before - I 'm impressed with the quality, honesty and freshness in the writing and graphics. I hope you can publish this letter so others can know that gay parents aren t weird - they re just people, and are worthy of the same considerations, in fact they ue earned a great deal o f respect - they must Hue in two worlds. —Beth Hamon Get involved in Lesbian and Gay Pride '85 Pride 8^ is being created and we are uniting in our efforts to make this year’s celebration m ore festive than ever before. However, we cannot be united w ithout your input and par ticipation. Lesbian and Gay Pride 85 will occur in Portland the week o f June 15- 19th. In cele bration o f the 16th Anniversary of the Stone wall Uprising and the rebirth of the modern Lesbian and Gay Rights Movement, the week will provide the opportunty to bring together the diversity within our com m unity in a visible expression of solidarity. The week’s events will include a parade and rally, workshops, music, dances, recrea tional activities, open houses, educational forum s, a candlelight vigil, and m uch more. This week is a tim e for us to meet people, becom e fam iliar with the resources available to us, and to celebrate the spirit and courage that is uniquely our own. Come join us! There is m uch that you can contribute to a m ajor event such as this and you will find it rewarding to become involved. There are several work com m ittees that need your as sistance in the preparation of Lesbian and Gay Pride 85. We are eager to listen to your ideas, accept what you are able to contribute, and to welcom e you into this very special celebration. For more inform ation call: 233-1169 or write to Box 6611, Portland 97228. — Community Outreach work committee Lesbian and Gay Pride 85 No Business as Usual lauded NAME CHANGE — no attorneys — no hassles plus court costs SEE VUE MOTEL $45 fireplaces kitchens Bankruptcy $95 Divorce $75 consumer complaints Reservations-547 Seven miles south of Yachats Have a unique experience-build a fire-enjoy the sea in the style of Hemingway. Antiques, plants, and always some of Jacqueline's Sourdough Bread. To the Editor: Really glad to see the article on “No Business as Usual.” Like many of your read ers, I am 'concerned about the war prepara tions that are being made for WWIII and am glad to hear people speaking out against it, and supporting NBAU. Towards a real positive ste p . . . ! - Rye Martin To the people: Greetings! 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