COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 6, 2022 Man bites off more than he can chew with comments night, not for two days. She got very angry and said I was ruining her birthday. She then said she’d pay for her own meal. I declined her off er and paid, but now I’m wondering if I was wrong. She did pay for half the appetizer, which I didn’t want or eat, and she left the tip. Should have told her before we went out to dinner that I was on a tighter budget? Can our relationship be saved? — LOSING IN LAS VEGAS DEAR LOSING: Strong relationships thrive when there is honest communication. You and the Birthday Girl have been seeing each other for an extended period of time. If money is tight, you should have mentioned it long DEAR ABBY: Every year my girlfriend and I take each other out for dinner on our birth- days and bring a gift. This year, even though I am currently expe- riencing fi nancial hardship, I bought her a gift and off ered her dinner. At the restaurant, she ordered the largest portion of what she wanted. She stated it’s what she always orders in that restaurant. I responded that she always takes half of it home, and that I had off ered to buy her dinner for that before her birthday rolled around. Yes, she should have been aware of it before you invited her to dinner. Because she wasn’t, I can understand why she might have been put off by what she may have interpreted as a snide comment rather than a cry for help. Can your relationship be saved? Yes, as long as you two REALLY start talking to each other. DEAR ABBY: I am in my early 40s. I have reconnected with a girl I dated in high school. Things are wonderful. I have come to understand that she was “wronged” by other men more than once in the years in between. But I have also learned it was hap- pening during our relationship as teens. I cannot stop ripping ceed with this romance, the two of you should get at least six months of couples counseling from a licensed professional. A lot has happened to you both in the intervening years since high school. There was nothing you could do to stop anything that happened. She was a willing par- ticipant in those failed relation- ships. Your future with her will be brighter once you know each other better as adults, which will involve frank communication on both of your parts. myself in half for not realizing it was happening and doing nothing to stop it. I wasn’t damaged; she was. I am hesitant to do anything that makes her revisit her pain, but it is something I can’t let go of. I am not sure how I should proceed in the present, so that I don’t let the past damage a future that seems so bright. Could you please give me a woman’s point of view? — CAUTIOUS IN MICHIGAN DEAR CAUTIOUS: Under- stand that you and this woman were very diff erent people when you dated more than 20 years ago. I suspect my point of view is similar to what you would get from a man: If you plan to pro- Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069. █ NEWS OF THE WEIRD Leak ruins NASA moon rocket launch bid The Associated Press CAPE CANAVERAL, Fla. — NASA’s new moon rocket sprang another dangerous fuel leak Saturday, Sept. 3, forcing launch controllers to call off their second attempt this week to send a crew capsule into lunar orbit with test dummies. The inaugural fl ight is now off for weeks, if not months. The previous try on Aug. 29 at launching the 322-foot Space Launch System rocket, the most powerful ever built by NASA, was also trou- bled by hydrogen leaks, though they were smaller. That was on top of leaks detected during countdown drills ear- Chris O’Meara/The Associated Press An American fl ag fl ies in the breeze as NASA’s new moon rocket sits on Launch Pad 39-B after being scrubbed at the Kennedy Space Center Saturday, Sept. 3, 2022, in Cape Canaveral, Fla. This is scheduled to be the fi rst fl ight of NASA’s 21st-century moon-exploration program, named Artemis. especially on a test fl ight like this where everyone wants to verify the rocket’s systems “before we put four humans up on the top of it.” NASA already has been waiting years to send the crew capsule atop the rocket around the moon. If the six-week demo succeeds, astronauts could fl y around the moon in 2024 and land on it in 2025. People last walked on the moon 50 years ago. Launch director Charlie Black- well-Thompson and her team had barely started loading nearly 1 million gallons of fuel into the Space Launch System rocket at daybreak when the large leak cropped up in the engine section at the bottom. lier in the year. After the latest setback, mission managers decided to haul the rocket off the pad and into the hangar for further repairs and system updates. Some of the work and testing may be performed at the pad before the rocket is moved. Either way, several weeks of work will be needed, according to offi cials. With a two-week launch blackout period looming in just a few days, the rocket is now grounded until late Sep- tember or October. NASA will work around a high-priority SpaceX astronaut fl ight to the International Space Station scheduled for early October. 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