COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD SATuRDAY, SEpTEmBER 3, 2022 Husband and father tired of being ignored at home attention once in a while. We will be in the middle of a conversa- tion, and if one of them walks into the room, texts or calls, she stops midsentence and totally ignores me. Sometimes I talk to her, and she doesn’t even hear me if they are in the room. She and the kids laugh and joke about it, but I don’t think it’s funny. I have worked hard to support them, 60-hour weeks and week- ends to make ends meet, and I feel like I’m an afterthought to all of them. I spoil them on birthdays, Mother’s Day and Christmas. One year not one of them remem- bered my birthday. Am I overre- acting? — INVISIBLE MAN IN PENNSYLVANIA DEAR INVISIBLE: What DEAR ABBY: I have been with my wife for 25 years, married for 22 of them. I love her very much, but sometimes I feel it isn’t mutual. We have three children, all girls, ranging in age from early teens to mid-20s. My wife also has an older son from a previous marriage. My complaint for years has been that I am the least important person in the world to her. The kids, work and friends always come first. I understand that kids have needs, but I should get some POLE CREEK tination despite the verte- brae-rattling access roads. The ridge juts from the Elkhorns rather like a flying buttress on a Gothic cathe- dral. This spine of high ground separates its name- sake creek to the east, and Wind Creek, another trib- utary to Cracker Creek, to the west. Although I’ve prob- ably plied the trail a dozen times or so, I either hadn’t noticed before, or had since forgotten, that the ridge boasts an unusual wealth of conifer species in a rela- tively small area. We noted grand firs, Douglas-firs, lodgepole pines, whitebark pines, sub- alpine firs, tamaracks and, on a particularly exposed spot, a lone ponderosa pine. The ponderosa in partic- ular surprised me, since the species doesn’t often range above 6,500 feet in North- eastern Oregon, and this one, according to the altim- eter app on my phone, was at about 7,200. I’m no ecologist (or any other sort of ologist) but I have been fortunate to share a trail with several scien- tists who can deduce much from the lay of the land and its flora, notably the late Charles Johnson, a Forest Service ecologist for whom the Blue Mountains was a vast laboratory. I suspect that ponderosa was taking advantage of its southern exposure. The longer period of daily sun- light creates a microclimate that is, in effect, hundreds of feet lower. And ponder- osas thrive in sunny places. I noticed too, even higher on the ridge, that a few Douglas-firs were inter- spersed among the sub- alpine firs and whitebark pines, the latter two typ- ically the dominant, and often only, trees at these rel- Continued from Page B1 How far you go before abandoning internal com- bustion for leg and lung power depends on your own, and your rig’s, toler- ance for steep, narrow and boulder-strewn roads. There are, it scarcely needs to be said, no guardrails. The 5536 and 150 roads aren’t terrible. I wouldn’t drive a low-slung sedan on either, but anything with decent clearance should go unscathed. The 160 and 170 roads are notably bumpier. The final “road” — there’s a sign with a number, at any rate — is the 200 road, and it begins with a pitch so steep I was seeing mainly the Cruiser’s hood through the windshield. If you park at the 170/200 junction it’s about 2.6 miles to the point where the Pole Creek Ridge trail ends at an intersection with the Elkhorn Crest National Recreation Trail. That modest distance belies the physical chal- lenge, though. Pole Creek Ridge trail climbs relentlessly, and often steeply (albeit perhaps not quite as steeply as that aforementioned section of the 200 road.) The route gains about 1,200 feet of elevation, reaching about 8,100 feet at the Crest trail junction. As Lisa and I started the hike it occurred to me that we hadn’t been here for 14 years. I didn’t feel quite so cha- grined at taking the wrong turn down the ridge when I realized how much time had elapsed. Too much time, I thought, because Pole Creek Ridge is a tempting des- Lisa Britton/Baker City Herald atively lofty elevations. The Douglas-firs, like that lone ponderosa, were growing on south-facing slopes, and I imagine they were taking advan- tage of the same beneficent conditions. Besides being a hos- pitable place for certain conifers, Pole Creek Ridge marks the general boundary of a Forest Service grazing allotment. A recently recon- structed fence meanders along the ridge, and you’ll have to go through three gates (one along the 170 Road). Remember to close any gates you have to open. As the trail ascends, the forest thins until, over the final half mile or so, only the whitebarks and the sub- alpine firs persist, all but oblivious to deep snow and polar temperatures. About 0.7 of a mile from the Crest trail, the route narrows and becomes a proper footpath (albeit one that is open to motorcycles, the tracks of which we saw.) The trail, Lisa and I mut- tered to each other as we plodded ever upward, has the torturous design typical of trails in the Elkhorns. Which is to say, it takes a direct route in defiance of the topography. The difference between the type of trail represented by Pole Creek Ridge, and the many paths in the Wal- lowas, is so dramatic that I find it ever fascinating. Most trails in the Wallowas were built to accommodate horses, and as such they attack the terrain obliquely, with ample use of switch- Astoria Longview 56/70 Kennewick 55/81 St. Helens 57/84 57/87 Portland Condon 58/91 MON TUE WED Mainly clear Sunshine and very warm Sunny and very warm Sunny and hot Sunshine 89 47 95 48 89 45 Eugene 6 5 7 52/88 86 49 94 54 83 45 7 5 7 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 8 7 49 87 47 Comfort Index™ 6 85 46 8 4 6 TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Thursday Low Thursday High: 124° Low: 30° Wettest: 2.10” 91° 44° 95° 48° 100° 49° 0.00 0.00 0.01 4.73 6.43 0.00 0.00 0.02 9.22 11.35 0.00 0.00 0.03 18.21 15.94 PRECIPITATION (inches) Thursday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date HAY INFORMATION SUNDAY 20% NW at 6 to 12 mph 8.0 0.24 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Friday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 4% of capacity 37% of capacity 16% of capacity 67% of capacity 3% of capacity 9% of capacity Medford Lakeview Brookings Denver’s earliest snow on record occurred Sept. 3, 1961. City accumulations reached 4 inches. The foothills west of town were buried by wind-whipped snow more than 2 feet deep. SUN & MOON SAT. Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset 6:16 a.m. 7:26 p.m. 2:38 p.m. 11:09 p.m. SUN. 6:17 a.m. 7:25 p.m. 3:51 p.m. none MOON PHASES STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Thursday) Grande Ronde at Troy Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder Burnt River near Unity Umatilla River near Gibbon Minam River at Minam Powder River near Richland OREGON WEATHER HISTORY AGRICULTURAL INFO. Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration Death Valley, Calif. Bodie State Park, Calif. 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Monument 52/84 Newport Enterprise 49/87 49/89 51/82 54/85 53/83 91 55 6 Corvallis 54/65 85 50 49/89 La Grande 54/84 54/90 Idanha Salem SUN 49 89 51 Elgin Pendleton The Dalles 59/85 54/84 TONIGHT La Grande 62/90 59/90 Newberg Lewiston 60/91 Hood River Maupin 5 Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2022 Walla Walla 59/91 Vancouver 55/83 TIllamook 8 Mountain and Castle Rock, Strawberry Mountain and Dixie Butte and Vinegar Hill and, close to the west, Windy Creek Peak and Mount Ireland. To the north, the Crest trail was visible cutting through patches of alpine fleeceflower turning rusty red in the waning days of this torrid late summer (we were there on Sunday, Aug. 28.) We could also see how dramatically the geologic character of the Elkhorns changes, the generally brown sedimentary stone of the southern part of the range — primarily argillite, a type of compacted mud- stone, and chert — giving way to the white granitic rocks that dominate the northern half of the range. I haven’t found any- thing of the history of the Pole Creek Ridge trail, but I suspect it predates the Crest trail by some decades, starting as a route pioneered by miners, perhaps with an assist from sheepherders who once drove their flocks along the Elkhorns. The Crest trail was extended to Pole Creek Ridge in the 1970s, and in 1981 the 7 miles from there to Marble Creek Pass were blasted and gouged from slopes that range from merely steep to vertical. Lisa and I lamented that we hadn’t time to indulge in the Crest trail’s pleasant flatness. We started the steep, muscle-straining descent, pausing only to chuckle at the single, half-hearted switchback just below the Crest trail junction, a sort of desultory dirty trick played by a trail builder who’s probably long in the grave but whose joke, if that’s how it was intended, lives on. AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION 54/74 Comfort Index™ Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069. backs to make the ascent of even a steep slope a gentle, albeit much longer, undertaking. Lisa and I mused that the final 0.7 of a mile, had the trail been constructed to the standards of the Wal- lowas, would have been at least half again as long, but accomplished with much fewer gasps in the thin alpine air. Eventually we got to the Crest trail. It’s not much like other trails in the Elkhorns, nor does it resemble most routes in the Wallowas. The Crest trail is com- paratively flat but it achieves this not by incor- porating switchbacks but by staying stubbornly, as befits its name, near the top of the ridge. The trail, which spans 24 miles from its southern terminus at Marble Creek Pass to the northern trail- head near Anthony Lake, is one of the grand paths in Oregon. The views from almost every one of those miles is expansive. But I find the vantage point of the Pole Creek Ridge trail among the more fetching. As we sat on the trail (me clumsily coming down on a patch of sand- wort, a particularly prickly variety of groundcover that left spines scattered in my shorts), we could see, arrayed as in a diorama, peaks spanning left to right (or, rather, from south to west) that included Ironside A whitebark pine snag along the Elkhorn Crest trail on Pole Creek Ridge. weather 43 90 48 █ Pole Creek Ridge is a tempting destination despite the vertebrae- rattling access roads. | Go to AccuWeather.com Baker City DEAR BAFFLED: I don’t think anyone intended to give your daughter short shrift. The rules of etiquette state that wed- ding gifts are required if someone is attending a wedding. While it would have been nice of these rel- atives to have sent a gift or at least a card, they were not required to. I see no reason why you shouldn’t inform these relatives that your daughter was deeply hurt that no one was inclined to send her and her husband so much as a con- gratulatory card. wedding, he was showered with gifts from the family. My daughter, in contrast, had a private cere- mony because of COVID concerns and sent a wedding announcement to the family. To the shock and amazement of my husband, my daughter and myself, not a single person in the family thought to send her a gift or even a card. There’s no bad blood in the family. Everyone appears to love her. She is disappointed and dev- astated. Should I just get over this, or should I say something to the family? She and her hus- band live 2,000 miles away, and at this point, I can’t envision them making the effort to fly home and see the family ever again. — BAFFLED IN TEXAS has been going on under your roof is no laughing matter. But your passivity may be partly respon- sible for it. You should have told your wife years ago how you felt, but it isn’t too late to do it now. Tell her you feel ignored and unappreciated by her and the chil- dren. Tell her you are unhappy, and if she wants the marriage to last, she will join you in marital counseling because you are tired of being low man on the totem pole. I don’t think doing that would be overreacting. In fact, I think it’s overdue. DEAR ABBY: Our daughter and her cousin are the same age. Both are medical school gradu- ates. Eight months ago, when this cousin got married at an in-person City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla SUN. 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