COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 1, 2022 ‘Family failure’ refuses to enable sibling’s behavior house soon, which I cannot allow because of the drinking and drug use. I know they will be upset that they can’t stay with me. How do I protect my peace without feeling like I’m making my sibling homeless? — BAD SISTER IN CALIFORNIA DEAR BAD SISTER: Your reason for not wanting to host your substance-using sibling is sensible. State it kindly and clearly and do NOT feel guilty about it. You won’t be making your sibling homeless. Unless your sibling is friendless, which I doubt, they will fi nd another place to crash, I assure you. DEAR ABBY: My father recently passed from cancer. He was divorced from Mom, but she helped take care of him and made him happy in his last year DEAR ABBY: I am the oldest of three. We grew up in an abu- sive alcoholic family. I’m consid- ered the “failure” of the family because I don’t drink. I grad- uated from college, work full time, got married and have a pretty stable life. Both of my younger siblings drink and use drugs, and their lives are in constant turmoil. The youngest sibling has men- tioned they will need to move by the end of this month and their current job has not paid them for several weeks. I dread that they will ask to stay at my of life. I’m having the baby blues (a 2- month-old) and grieving at the same time. My mother has now announced that she plans to take a vacation with her best friend. I think it’s too soon and I told her that. Am I wrong for feeling this way and trying to stop her from going? But at the same time, I know she deserves this vacation. I’m so confused. Please help. — RIGHT OR WRONG IN ARIZONA DEAR RIGHT OR WRONG: Allow me to off er my sympathy for the loss of your dad. Considering the recent changes in your life, that you “need” your mother is under- standable. However, your mother needing a break at this point is also understandable, so please let her go. As you should know, your baby blues may be happening because of the abrupt hormonal changes your body is experi- encing after the birth of your child. Discuss your emotions with your doctor, because there may be a medical solution for your situation. Please don’t wait. DEAR ABBY: Please don’t think I’m misogynistic, but whenever I see females, they’re constantly talking or scrolling on their cellphones. It seems like it is all they do. They don’t seem to be interested in anything except their damned phones. They have no personalities. They have no sex drive. They’re not even inter- ested in men. Some even seem to lose their interest in shop- ping, which we know is a female WALRUS LUMBER Continued from Page B1 Continued from Page B1 also begun experimenting with herbs like basil and italian parsley, and is even foraging on their prop- erty, for stinging nettle and mushrooms. Under their offi cial mon- iker of Happy Walrus Farms, the group began selling pro- duce in La Grande at the Saturday Market. It was Koehn’s father Toby who broached the idea for a farm stand in Imbler. According to Koehn, he wanted to pro- vide a beacon for the com- munity, and a space to get fresh food without having to drive into La Grande. Koehn said she and her mother Susan collaborated to decide the color of the stand’s eye-catching olive green facade — complete with a terracotta roof, citrine trim and bright white doors. “As we moved and lived in diff erent houses when I was a kid, my mom liked all colors,” Koehn said of her mother’s creative paint pref- erences. “She’d paint every room a diff erent color.” One of the farm stand’s unique features is its “self- serve” purchasing system. The stand is not staff ed, so when visitors arrive, they choose what they want to take home, log it and pay for it with cash, a check or through the Venmo app. Although they can’t always be there, Koehn noted that she, Howell and her parents will check on the stand and restock wherever they can. “The four of us are quite busy, so it would be a little bit challenging to keep the stand staff ed at all times,” Koehn noted. “It’s just a little bit more sustainable for our business.” Cascade shares are up more than 40% over the past two years, climbing twice as fast as the broader stock market. And higher prices have been good for the Oregon Department of Forestry and the counties that receive state timber rev- enue, according to Jason Cox, a spokesperson for the state agency. He said stumpage prices — the price timber companies pay for the right to harvest trees — remain up about 25% from last year. specifi c location in Imbler,” she said. Merrigan aims to check on her fl ower corner of the farm stand approximately twice a week, putting in fresh bouquets as needed. She also wants to hold monthly in-person events at the farm stand for her fl ower business. “I think it’s a great off ering for Imbler,” Mer- rigan said. “I think they have great plans to grow that site in the future so it’s a great starting point.” Koehn noted that they will continue adding to the space’s welcoming facade and hope to build a court- yard next spring where patrons can sit and enjoy a cup of coff ee. Koehn empha- sized that — more than more important than the business prospects of the space — she, Howell, Susan and Toby want the farm stand to make buying local produce easier for those in Union County. “The goal for us, for growing food, is not to make a million dollars,” Koehn said. “It’s to make sure folks have local food to eat.” The farm stand was also recently certifi ed to accept Oregon Farm Direct Nutri- tion Program checks — $4 vouchers that Oregon WIC program participants can spend on fresh, local- ly-grown fruits, vegetables and cut edible herbs. Koehn noted that “We trust the community to treat us with respect and we hope to treat the commu- nity with respect as well.” The farm stand’s next- door neighbor, Jerry Weis- sert at Valley Fabrication & Machine helps keep the bright green shed cool — and provides the electricity for the produce fridge. Stacey Merrigan, owner of Merrigan’s Fresh Cut Flowers, also sells her locally grown blooms in the farm stand. She fi rst met Toby Koehn at an Imbler city council meeting, where the two discussed the farm stand — and the possibility of Merrigan pitching in. She said it’s been a great way to off er her fl owers in a more permanent way. “That gives me a way to showcase the fl owers at the SATURDAY - FREE Cowboy Breakfast 7 - 10 AM Cook Shack DAILY Mule Race Kids Pig Scramble Exhibits All Weekend Livestock Show SATURDAY & SUNDAY 9 PM Youth Dance at PV Grange - After the Rodeo - Cowboy Dinners Live Music Adult Dance SATURDAY 7PM SUNDAY 7PM MONDAY 2:30PM Monday - Veterans FREE admission Reserved Seating $15 General Admission $12 Kids 6 to 12 $6 www.HalfwayFairAndRodeo.com Kids 0 to 5 Free Astoria Longview 56/69 Kennewick 57/78 St. Helens 59/85 64/93 Condon 62/98 62/86 57/84 Mostly sunny; very warm 42 99 52 90 49 98 51 90 47 Eugene 6 3 8 54/85 89 52 95 56 86 52 6 4 8 Enterprise 3 50 97 54 Comfort Index™ 4 MON 94 55 87 50 6 4 6 3 TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Tuesday Low Tuesday High: 121° Low: 31° Wettest: 3.75” 98° 45° 98° 48° 106° 47° 0.00 0.26 0.42 4.73 6.41 0.00 0.24 0.65 9.22 11.31 0.00 0.45 0.65 18.21 15.88 PRECIPITATION (inches) Tuesday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date HAY INFORMATION FRIDAY 10% SSE at 7 to 14 mph 12.3 0.29 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Wednesday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 4% of capacity 38% of capacity 16% of capacity 68% of capacity 3% of capacity 12% of capacity The Dalles Crescent Brookings On Sept. 1, 1950, Yuma, Ariz., had its hot- test day ever, with a high of 123 degrees. On the same day, the mercury in Mecca, Calif., soared to 126 degrees -- the highest U.S. reading ever in September. SUN & MOON THU. Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset 561 cfs 72 cfs 94 cfs 45 cfs 95 cfs 17 cfs First FRI. 6:14 a.m. 6:15 a.m. 7:30 p.m. 7:28 p.m. 12:04 p.m. 1:21 p.m. 9:58 p.m. 10:29 p.m. Sep 3 Full Sep 10 Last Sep 17 Brothers 54/85 Coos Bay 54/98 Beaver Marsh 46/92 Roseburg 57/86 New Sep 25 Jordan Valley 57/99 Paisley 51/98 Frenchglen 59/102 City Astoria Bend Boise Brookings Burns Coos Bay Corvallis Council Elgin Eugene Hermiston Hood River Imnaha John Day Joseph Kennewick Klamath Falls Lakeview Hi/Lo/W 69/58/c 99/52/s 102/68/s 62/54/c 102/55/s 68/55/c 82/55/s 100/58/s 99/55/s 85/57/s 103/63/s 93/63/s 103/68/s 101/55/s 96/52/s 102/63/s 95/47/s 97/46/s Hi/Lo/W 74/57/pc 88/56/s 99/69/pc 69/53/s 96/53/s 73/57/s 85/55/s 97/58/pc 89/53/pc 85/56/s 89/55/s 89/61/s 92/62/pc 92/55/s 87/55/pc 90/57/pc 92/49/s 96/50/s Diamond Grand View Arock 58/102 53/102 55/102 55/101 Klamath Falls 49/95 Lakeview 47/97 McDermitt Shown is Friday’s weather. Temperatures are Thursday night’s lows and Friday’s highs. SAT. Boise 63/102 Fields 63/97 FRI. 57/102 Silver Lake 49/94 Medford Brookings Juntura 52/102 60/94 51/62 Ontario 57/102 Burns 45/98 Chiloquin Grants Pass Huntington 55/99 56/99 Oakridge 54/100 61/101 Seneca 54/102 RECREATION FORECAST FRIDAY REGIONAL CITIES MOON PHASES STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Tuesday) Grande Ronde at Troy Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder Burnt River near Unity Umatilla River near Gibbon Minam River at Minam Powder River near Richland OREGON WEATHER HISTORY AGRICULTURAL INFO. Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration Death Valley, Calif. Yellowstone N.P., Wyo. Del Rio, Texas High: 104° Low: 40° Wettest: Trace 56/100 Council 42/99 56/101 Bend 56/74 52/100 49/94 John Day 51/101 Sisters Elkton Powers Halfway Granite Baker City Florence 55/64 TUESDAY EXTREMES ALMANAC 58/104 Redmond 54/63 56/68 Comfort Index takes into account how the weather will feel based on a combination of factors. A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. Monument 52/82 Newport Enterprise 50/97 49/101 58/88 56/86 Corvallis 56/77 86 52 Elgin 50/99 La Grande 61/94 61/97 Idanha Salem Sunshine and very hot 5 64/103 Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg Lewiston 62/102 Hood River 60/105 Clear Comfort Index™ Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2022 Walla Walla 56/102 Vancouver 58/84 SAT 49 101 54 OREGON ICA Sponsored Rodeo FRI 3 HALFWAY MONDAY 9 AM Youth Livestock Auction 12:30 PM Parade on Main Street TONIGHT Hot with blazing Sunny and very sunshine warm 2022 SUNDAY 10 AM Jackpot Team Roping 2 PM Queen's Court Tryouts 4 PM Pie Auction Maupin SUN SEPTEMBER 3, 4 & 5 Sponsored by Safeway AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION TIllamook La Grande “There’s a real public benefi t there when those timber prices are higher. Because that translates to higher revenue to counties on the same (amount) of timber,” Cox said. “We’re in a better position to take on proactive projects on things like forest health, conservation.” Shannon Golden/The Observer 54/70 6 Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069. The fridge in the Happy Walrus Farm Stand in Imbler is fi lled with zucchini, squash, beets and more on Friday, Aug. 26, 2022. weather Comfort Index™ █ 101 st ANNUAL | Go to AccuWeather.com Baker City addiction. It’s not cute. It’s not normal, and it’s not sociable. In fact, it’s bizarre and weird. Is there one “halfway” normal female left on this earth, or should I move to another planet? — READY TO BAIL IN NEW JERSEY DEAR READY: Have you heard that men are from Mars? Your space shuttle departs in 20 minutes. It’s a one-way trip. Safe travels ... P.S. I am not calling you misogynistic, but it will be inter- esting to see what my readers call you. Stay tuned. City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla FRI. SAT. Hi/Lo/W 102/65/s 78/59/s 99/50/s 97/59/s 63/55/c 80/56/s 102/66/s 102/65/s 105/63/s 86/63/s 74/55/pc 101/51/s 86/59/s 86/56/s 96/62/s 98/65/s 100/50/s 103/67/s Hi/Lo/W 91/63/pc 81/58/pc 85/49/pc 96/60/s 68/54/pc 81/54/pc 99/61/pc 93/56/pc 87/60/s 83/61/pc 79/58/s 90/53/s 89/58/s 83/56/pc 86/58/pc 93/62/s 85/50/s 88/61/s Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE Sunny and warm Sunny and hot 79 49 93 52 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Sunny; very warm Sunshine; very hot 90 52 102 60 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK Sunny and warm Hot with sunshine 84 46 96 47 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Hot with sunshine Sunshine; very hot 96 52 104 61 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK Very hot Sunshine; very hot 99 52 101 54