COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD SATURDAY, AUGUST 27, 2022 Friend gets confl icting info about his inclusion in will his late sister’s estate), but it hurts knowing I’ve been eliminated from his will with no explana- tion. I earn a six-fi gure income and don’t need his money, but it bothers me. If I ask about it, I will appear grasping. If I say nothing, it will gnaw away at me. What do I do? — PROMISE WITH- DRAWN IN TEXAS DEAR PROMISE: Quit wor- rying about appearances and ask him the question you should have asked when he told you he had changed his will and eliminated you. Do it now. He’s 90 and in failing health, and you may not have long to get the answer to the question. DEAR ABBY: I have a close friend, “Renee,” whom I’ve DEAR ABBY: For 15 years I’ve maintained a close friendship with a wealthy older man who has become a kind of mentor. He’s 90 years old now and in failing health. He told me on several occasions that I was named in his will, but when we met for lunch the other day, he informed me his entire estate will go to his live-in caregivers. I was never in this friendship for the money (he only recently became wealthy after inheriting known for several years. She often comes to my home in the evenings for an hour or so to get away from her house. She’s a single parent who lives at home with her mom and two children, so she considers it an escape. While I don’t mind her coming over most days, a somewhat sen- sitive issue has come up. Renee often wears tennis shoes without socks, or shoes for a very long time without washing them. When she takes them off , they stink. She then tries to hide her smelly feet underneath the blankets I keep on my couch. It doesn’t help. I can still smell them, and my blankets stink when she leaves. This issue is embarrassing, and MEMORIAL you have an overview of much of the 85,000-acre unit of the wilderness, which in all covers about 121,000 acres. (The three other units are Tower Mountain to the north, Baldy Creek to the east, and Greenhorn to the south.) We parked a couple miles short of Silver Butte, since we were there to hike. Continued from Page B1 The last documents the year Congress passed a bill that created or expanded more than 10 wilderness areas in Oregon, including the new North Fork John Day. I have found a few other memorials in similarly unexpected places, and in each case I felt a powerful emotion as I read the words. The setting aff ected me, I think, as much as the sentiment. Reading the epitaphs among the rows of a cem- etery, such as Baker City’s fi ne Mount Hope, can be a memorable experience, too. But a decidedly diff erent one, it seems to me. When I stroll among the gravestones I feel the accu- mulated weight of so many lives, the great sorrow when they were concluded, and the comfort that we feel when we visit those we will always mourn. But placing a memo- rial in a spot such as Silver Butte, where comparatively few people will ever see it, strikes me as a particularly meaningful expression of love. It’s as though the survi- vors, in addition to a tra- ditional remembrance, felt compelled to also pay homage in a place far more personal than the compa- rably crowded confi nes of a cemetery. This is a more perma- nent and tangible version, I suppose, of spreading someone’s ashes in a favorite site. As I stood on the summit with my wife, Lisa, and our kids, Olivia and Max, I pondered the setting. I thought of the many hundreds of days that have Lisa Britton/Baker City Herald The Elkhorn Mountains seen from the summit of Silver Butte. passed since the memorial was set in its bed of mortar, how many times the sun has risen over the Elkhorns, how many times it has dropped below the horizon, and almost always with no one to see the fi ery spectacle, no sound save for the wind. I imagined the fl akes of snow from the fi rst great autumn storm, whisking across the words and then beginning to stick, fi lling in the tiny valleys left by the engraver’s tools and then, inevitably, covering the slab itself. I wondered whether any elk hunters have ever come here, in the snowy chill of November, and not known the memorial was there. It was a strange sen- sation, somber but also inspiring. I felt a twinge of sad- ness, that such a beautiful tribute is so little known, so infrequently seen and appreciated. Yet I recognized too that it is a wonderful thing, that the memory of two people, long-lived and well-loved, lingers on this lonely knoll. It seemed to me that their presence, these two who I never met, is palpable. A traveler who makes it to this remote spot is not truly alone. It was hot there on Silver Butte, on a sunny August afternoon. But of course a place is no good for a fi re lookout if it is cloaked by a dense forest. We didn’t stay long. I was glad we had come. The North Fork John Day is nothing like its fellow wilderness, the Eagle Cap. They are in many ways opposites. The Eagle Cap is mostly an alpine wil- derness, boasting a larger share of Oregon’s 9,000- foot peaks than any other range, richly endowed with deep cold lakes and can- yons excised by glacial ice and high passes where the views take in three states. The North Fork John Day, and in particular the largest of its four units, which includes Silver Butte, is much lower, mainly below 6,000 feet, and dis- tinguished not by limpid lakes and sculpted peaks of granite and limestone but by forests and its namesake river. Although the wilderness doesn’t quite include Silver Butte. The dirt road that leads almost all the way to the summit — you have to hike a few hundred yards — fol- lows a narrow corridor, less than a quarter-mile wide, that pierces for several miles into the wilderness. At Silver Butte the nonwil- derness section expands to a roughly rectangular chunk, rather like the lol- lipop at the end of its stick. From the lookout site weather | Go to AccuWeather.com The access road — Umatilla National Forest Road 5225 — passes sev- eral trails between its start at Road 52, the paved Blue Mountain Scenic Byway, and its end near Silver Butte. One of those paths, which starts near the lookout site, drops more than 2,000 feet to the North Fork John Day River at the SATURDAY - FREE Cowboy Breakfast 7 - 10 AM Cook Shack SUN MON Sunny and warmer Baker City 43 79 40 Comfort Index™ 10 La Grande DAILY Mule Race Kids Pig Scramble Exhibits All Weekend Livestock Show SATURDAY & SUNDAY 9 PM Youth Dance at PV Grange - After the Rodeo - Cowboy Dinners Live Music Adult Dance Comfort Index™ 10 Enterprise 44 77 44 Monday - Veterans FREE admission Reserved Seating $15 General Admission $12 Kids 6 to 12 $6 www.HalfwayFairAndRodeo.com Kids 0 to 5 Free Longview Kennewick 57/75 St. Helens 56/77 Hood River 56/79 Comfort Index™ 10 Condon 59/84 58/78 52/79 99 56 6 4 2 TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Thursday Low Thursday High: 114° Low: 30° Wettest: 4.50” 91° 54° 92° 52° PRECIPITATION (inches) Thursday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date 0.00 0.26 0.34 4.73 6.33 0.00 0.24 0.55 9.22 11.21 0.07 0.45 0.52 18.21 15.75 HAY INFORMATION SUNDAY 25% NW at 6 to 12 mph 9.3 0.21 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Friday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 5% of capacity 42% of capacity 18% of capacity 71% of capacity 3% of capacity 19% of capacity High: 102° Low: 43° Wettest: 0.13” The Dalles Sunriver Baker City Over 1,000 people drowned when a storm surge accompanying a hurricane inundated Charleston, S.C., on Aug. 27, 1893. Such events led to the adoption of hurricane safety plans by emergency offi cials. SUN & MOON SAT. Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset 6:08 a.m. 7:39 p.m. 6:14 a.m. 8:17 p.m. SUN. 6:09 a.m. 7:37 p.m. 7:22 a.m. 8:36 p.m. MOON PHASES STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Thursday) Grande Ronde at Troy Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder Burnt River near Unity Umatilla River near Gibbon Minam River at Minam Powder River near Richland OREGON WEATHER HISTORY AGRICULTURAL INFO. Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration Death Valley, Calif. Bodie State Park, Calif. Lafayette, La. 576 cfs 68 cfs 106 cfs 45 cfs 108 cfs 45 cfs New Aug 27 First Sep 3 Full Sep 10 Last Sep 17 41/83 Roseburg 53/74 55/85 Silver Lake Jordan Valley 48/84 Paisley 43/86 44/85 Frenchglen 48/85 Medford 43/86 49/87 McDermitt 46/89 RECREATION FORECAST SUNDAY MON. 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Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069. 101 st ANNUAL 57/71 TIllamook Mainly clear █ AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION 54/71 TONIGHT DEAR KID: Tell your parents you want to talk to them about an allowance. Ask what things you could do to help around the house in order to earn one and how much they are willing to pay you for doing them. As to how much to expect, this will depend on what your parents may be able to aff ord. Ask them if you can nego- tiate to fi nd an amount you all agree upon. And if you need more money, doing similar chores for a relative or neighbor might be a good place to start. I don’t want to hurt her feelings but, honestly, I’m sick of having to wash my blankets every time she comes over. Any suggestions on how I should handle this? — SUFFERING IN SILENCE DEAR SUFFERING: Handle this by asking your friend to please keep her shoes on and her feet on the fl oor when she’s at your house. If she asks why, tell her the truth and suggest she start washing her shoes — and her feet — regularly. DEAR ABBY: I am a 9-year-old girl. Right now I don’t do chores or get an allowance, but I want to. How should I ask my parents? And how much money should I ask for? — KID WHO NEEDS CASH SUN. City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla MON. Hi/Lo/W Hi/Lo/W 82/56/s 90/61/s 75/56/c 85/59/s 75/42/s 87/49/s 90/58/s 97/62/s 65/53/pc 67/54/s 76/52/pc 83/55/pc 85/55/pc 93/60/s 82/52/s 91/59/s 79/52/s 90/60/s 78/60/pc 90/62/s 74/54/pc 80/57/s 83/47/s 92/53/s 85/58/s 94/60/s 79/55/pc 90/58/s 76/55/s 84/60/s 84/61/s 94/65/s 76/41/s 86/49/s 78/57/s 88/62/s Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE Partly sunny Partly sunny 60 38 77 42 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Mostly sunny Partly sunny 68 41 84 47 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK Turning out cloudy Sunny and pleasant 66 34 70 37 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Periods of sun Sunny and pleasant 78 44 80 52 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK Partly sunny; nice Mostly sunny; nice 79 40 80 44