COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD SATuRDAY, AuguST 6, 2022 Family’s dismissal of career no longer a joke later, they seem to think it’s funny. The first few times I could laugh about it too, but this has been going on for years. Their one-sided running gag has grown old. I don’t care that they’re not interested in what I do, but I feel humiliated and hurt when they act so dismissive of it to other people. It happened again a few days ago, while I was out with my family at an event. A family member intentionally messed up the name of my workplace mul- tiple times (even after I had cor- rected him) while talking to a volunteer. Although I managed to step in, it’s still weighing on me. I have tried explaining what I do numerous times. It’s not con- fusing. I have even suggested DEAR ABBY: I graduated from college with a degree in a niche field. In my graduating class of nearly 7,000, there were only four of us with this specific degree. I now have a career in the field I majored in. I love what I do and take pride in it. The problem is my family. For whatever reason, my parents and siblings don’t seem to want to remember what I do. When people back home ask what I’m up to, they come up with vague or dismissive answers. When they tell me about it edge? She could have easily switched from a speaker to a pri- vate call, considering the nature of the discussion. — MAD IN MISSOURI DEAR MAD: You’re not wrong to be upset. I would be, too. If your friend understood that it was supposed to be a con- fidential conversation, she should have told you she wasn’t alone or ended the call. Tell her this made you feel invaded and, if you plan to continue your relationship with her, set some ground rules for future phone conversations. take as you did, but do it with humor. DEAR ABBY: Please share some thoughts about answering the phone on speaker. My lifelong friend does this. Sometimes I’m aware her husband is in the room. Recently, though, we were on speaker phone when she told me she was going to the beauty salon. When the call connected to her vehicle, I assumed she was by herself. We continued our very personal conversation (I was doing the talking) until she got to her destination. That’s when she told me they had arrived. I didn’t realize anyone else was in the car. Am I wrong to be upset that she allowed me to do all the talking while her husband lis- tened in without my knowl- they use broader alternatives (if they would say I’m an ecologist, I would be thrilled). Nothing has changed. I’m left wondering if this runs deeper than a joke and they don’t actually take me seriously. Do I need to be more blunt? Should I tell them this has crossed the line from funny to hurtful? Or am I blowing this out of proportion? — HURT IN THE WEST DEAR HURT: You may be putting more energy into this than it deserves. You know the importance of the work you do. Your relative(s) may be jealous of your accomplishments or so intel- lectually limited that they can’t remember the word “ecologist.” If you are present when this hap- pens, feel free to correct the mis- █ Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069. NEWS OF THE WEIRD Lightning kills 1 at remote Wyoming outdoors educator event The Associated Press JACKSON, Wyo. — A light- ning strike at an outdoors edu- cator course in the Bridger-Teton National Forest in Wyoming killed one student and injured another, officials said Thursday, Aug, 4. The group with the National Outdoor Leadership School was just days into their trip and had set up camp near Enos Lake, south of Yellowstone National Park, when a thunderstorm moved into the area Tuesday evening. John D. Murphy, 22, of Boston, died of cardiac arrest because of the lightning strike, Teton County Coroner Brent Blue said. Blue did not know if the lightning struck Murphy directly or passed through something else to him. The injured student was flown to an Idaho hospital for treatment and released Aug. 3, Shana Tarter, the school’s associate director for wilderness medicine, told the Jackson Hole News & Guide. Nine other students, three instructors and two search and rescue members stayed the night in the back country after the light- ning strike, school officials said. Two people at the course who didn’t think they were capable of doing the 12-mile (19-kilometer) hike from the lake to the trail- head were flown out by helicopter Wednesday morning and the rest of the group hiked out, said Matt Hansen with Teton County Search and Rescue. National Outdoor Leadership School President Terry Watson in a statement called the light- ning strike a “a very sad day” for the school, its students and their families. “We extend our deepest condo- lences to the family of our student who passed away on this course and are focused on supporting Ryan Dorgan/Jackson Hole Daily, File Lightning from a summer storm illuminates the sky over the Teton Range in August 2020 in Grand Teton National Park. A camper was killed by lightning Tuesday, Aug. 2, 2022, near Enos Lake in the Bridger-Teton National Forest. their family through its difficult process,” she said. The nonprofit global wilder- ness school based in Lander, Wyoming, teaches students to become outdoors educators. More than 330,000 students have grad- uated and there have been 13 deaths at school events during its 57-year history, the school said. A 20-year-old man training with the school in 2011 fell down a 300-foot ravine into a river while backpacking in India during rainy conditions. His mother filed a lawsuit against the school, but a Wyo- weather | Go to AccuWeather.com ming judge ruled that the con- tract the man signed releasing the school from liability prevented his survivors from suing the school. Troopers: Drunk woman drove golf cart on highway TITUSVILLE, Fla. — A woman with an open bottle of Jack Daniel’s whiskey in a bag was arrested for driving a golf cart on Florida’s busiest inter- state while drunk, according to an arrest report. The 58-year-old woman was arrested Saturday, July 30, on the shoulder of Interstate 95. AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 56/80 Kennewick 59/95 St. Helens 61/100 Hood River 63/100 62/104 64/97 59/99 Condon SUN MON TUE WED Clear and cool Sunny and hot Sunny and very hot Very hot with some sun A thunderstorm around 97 54 98 57 92 51 Eugene 5 5 7 58/99 La Grande 45 95 48 102 58 101 64 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 7 8 5 2 46 93 51 Comfort Index™ 9 95 57 2 4 99 61 100 62 5 2 2 ALMANAC NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Thursday Low Thursday High: 111° Rio Grande Village, Texas Low: 35° Yellowstone N.P., Wyo. Wettest: 3.88” Goshen, Ind. 90° 49° 89° 54° 88° 52° PRECIPITATION (inches) Thursday 0.00 Month to date Trace Normal month to date 0.06 Year to date 4.47 Normal year to date 6.05 0.00 0.00 0.08 8.98 10.74 0.00 Trace 0.08 17.76 15.31 HAY INFORMATION SUNDAY 15% NE at 4 to 8 mph 13.2 0.28 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Friday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 12% of capacity 61% of capacity 26% of capacity 83% of capacity 3% of capacity 52% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Thursday) Grande Ronde at Troy Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder Burnt River near Unity Umatilla River near Gibbon Minam River at Minam Powder River near Richland OREGON High: 101° Low: 44° Wettest: 0.15” Rome Meacham Astoria WEATHER HISTORY AGRICULTURAL INFO. Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration Florence A barrage of hail on Aug. 6, 1979, shelled the Crane Ammunition Depot, 20 miles southwest of Bloomington, Ind. The hail- stones were 2 inches in diameter. SUN & MOON SAT. Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset SUN. 5:43 a.m. 5:44 a.m. 8:13 p.m. 8:12 p.m. 3:32 p.m. 4:50 p.m. none 12:30 a.m. MOON PHASES 727 cfs 81 cfs 141 cfs 53 cfs 180 cfs 27 cfs Full Aug 11 Last Aug 18 New Aug 27 Beaver Marsh Powers 57/77 First Sep 3 61/95 Silver Lake Jordan Valley 53/91 Paisley 52/94 55/93 Frenchglen 55/97 65/103 Klamath Falls 54/92 McDermitt 56/95 RECREATION FORECAST SUNDAY MON. Hi/Lo/W Hi/Lo/W 80/55/s 70/56/pc 99/57/s 98/64/pc 95/65/s 100/75/s 60/53/c 61/52/c 96/58/s 98/61/s 68/55/pc 67/55/c 95/56/s 88/57/s 91/55/s 99/62/s 95/52/s 102/60/s 99/58/s 89/57/s 100/59/s 105/64/s 100/70/s 102/71/pc 94/61/s 102/67/s 94/58/s 100/65/s 92/54/s 99/64/s 98/56/s 103/66/s 92/57/s 93/57/s 92/54/s 93/55/s 56/94 Lakeview 51/92 REGIONAL CITIES City Astoria Bend Boise Brookings Burns Coos Bay Corvallis Council Elgin Eugene Hermiston Hood River Imnaha John Day Joseph Kennewick Klamath Falls Lakeview Grand View Arock 53/96 56/95 Shown is Sunday’s weather. Temperatures are Saturday night’s lows and Sunday’s highs. SUN. Diamond 53/96 Fields Medford Brookings Boise 60/95 65/101 53/60 55/96 47/94 Chiloquin Grants Pass Juntura 49/96 49/97 53/91 Roseburg Ontario 57/96 Burns Brothers 62/97 Coos Bay Huntington 48/91 54/99 Oakridge 52/91 59/96 Seneca Bend Elkton THURSDAY EXTREMES TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin 50/94 53/98 Council 39/91 John Day 49/99 Sisters 53/68 Comfort Index takes into account how the weather will feel based on a combination of factors. A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. 48/96 Baker City Redmond 52/66 53/66 Halfway Granite 45/88 59/97 60/98 63/87 92 55 2 Corvallis 54/98 58/95 Newport Enterprise 46/93 45/95 Monument 59/101 Idanha Salem TONIGHT 9 46/95 La Grande 58/96 Maupin Comfort Index™ Elgin Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg Lewiston 58/96 60/96 57/97 55/86 39 91 46 Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2022 Walla Walla 53/98 Vancouver 60/98 TIllamook Baker City shoulder of the interstate, troopers said. Once on the shoulder, the truck driver grabbed the keys to the golf cart as the woman tried to drive away. Once troopers arrived at the scene, the woman started arguing with them and insisted she needed her bag. Inside the bag, troopers found an open bottle of Jack Dan- iel’s Tennessee Fire Whiskey, authorities said. Interstate 95, which stretches up and down the East Coast, is Florida’s busiest interstate highway, according to the Federal Highway Administration. She is now facing misdemeanor charges of disorderly intoxication in a public place and resisting an officer without violence. According to a Florida Highway Patrol report, a semitruck driver spotted the woman driving in the golf cart in the center lane of Interstate 95 in Brevard County, which is the heart of Florida’s Space Coast. The truck driver “advised she observed the driver of the golf cart passing out while driving,” the report said. The truck driver used her semi to steer the golf cart to the SUN. City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla MON. Hi/Lo/W Hi/Lo/W 96/61/s 102/68/s 95/60/s 90/60/s 93/47/s 99/56/s 103/67/s 100/64/s 66/52/pc 61/53/c 93/55/s 92/56/s 96/58/s 101/67/s 98/57/s 103/65/s 97/63/s 105/69/s 97/65/s 94/64/s 77/55/s 74/57/pc 99/55/s 100/62/pc 95/62/s 90/62/s 98/61/s 94/60/s 92/60/s 96/64/s 104/67/s 105/71/s 90/48/s 97/56/s 96/67/s 103/73/s Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE Sunny and nice Sunny and warmer 73 48 89 50 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Plenty of sunshine Plenty of sunshine 83 48 96 56 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK Sunny and warmer Sunny and warmer 79 46 88 39 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Sunny and hot Sunny and warm 92 54 96 63 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK Plenty of sun Sunny and hot 91 46 95 48