COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD THURSDAY, JULY 28, 2022 Boyfriend’s plans for future are subject to mom’s approval situation if he won’t propose until she’s met his parents, but he lacks the courage to introduce her to them. What is my granddaughter to do? She’s so unhappy and dis- appointed. — IMPOSSIBLE IN TEXAS DEAR IMPOSSIBLE: Your granddaughter’s boyfriend is a mama’s boy. The decision of whom to marry should be his, not his mother’s. If, after two years, he cannot summon up the courage to introduce her proudly to his parents, she should quit wasting her time with him because this romance will go no further than it already has. DEAR ABBY: I cannot seem to get over the loss of my fi rst hus- band decades ago. I still think of him often. I am still grieving our DEAR ABBY: My adult granddaughter, “Lola,” is in a two-year relationship with a won- derful young man and has been anticipating a proposal. During a conversation, he mentioned he would not propose to her until he has introduced her to his parents, who live in another state. He says his mother wants him to marry a woman who has never been married or divorced and who has not had a child. Lola is divorced (due to her ex-husband’s infi delity) and has a young son. This seems to her to be a no-win PRICES the fi nal product,” he said. “There’s only so much we can do. Customers every- where are feeling the same pain. If they’re buying prod- ucts, they’re tending toward the cheaper products.” As farms Kind Leaf has done business with go under, it means Kind Leaf is unable to purchase a large variety of edibles or vape pen products. Jacki Zeckman is the store manager of Thur’s Smoke Shop, also in Pend- leton. He said the cannabis business is like a wave, “always up and down,” and it takes fi nding the right partners to stay afl oat. For the cannabis customer now, he said, prices are better. Thur’s top-shelf cannabis is going for $10 a gram, lower than some other com- peting stores, he said, but Continued from Page B1 Other downtown busi- nesses that recently received funding from the program include the Country Finan- cial building just one door down from Klebaum’s reno- vated space. “It has been a fairly suc- cessful and popular pro- gram,” Scroggins said. Klebaum expects to fully utilize the new space in the coming years and has begun working on classes for new homeowners and community members looking to increase their fi nancial literacy. With an almost 30-year background in banking and fi nance, Klebaum has seen fi rsthand what happens when Dan Zieman, co-owner of Z’s BBQ, at the Lostine Tavern on Wednesday, July 13, 2022, checks a brisket that has been cooking since 4 a.m. It’ll be ready about 4 p.m. The Ziemans only moved to Wallowa County this spring, although they’ve visited regularly. Dan spent 10 years working as a food and beverage manager for a hotel that oversaw three restaurants in Skagway, Alaska, the gateway to the historic Yukon gold rush country. They decided on the move last fall and then Dan spent the winter training his replacement. Dan said the climate in Skagway, in the southeast coastal part of Alaska, can be milder than Wallowa is liquor, beer and wine service as soon as they obtain a liquor license. Zieman said he expects that to come through in September. That will likely lead to other features. “Once the liquor license comes through, we’re going to add some fun night events to make it a fun place to be” such as live entertainment, he said. “We’ll bring back some of that good energy in the building.” County and not as harsh as the inland reaches of the 49th state. “Being right on the water, it stays around 30 degrees,” he said. Larson and his girlfriend, Rebekah Israel, came with them. Larson regularly helps out at Z’s, and Israel helps with major events when she’s not working at the Wild Carrot in Enterprise. The future One of the fi rst addi- tions Z’s hopes to make Computer not running as fast as when it was new? Let us install lightning-fast solid state drive! AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 58/72 Kennewick 65/97 St. Helens 70/101 Vancouver Condon 73/112 FRI SAT SUN MON Clear Very hot with sunshine Very hot with sunshine Partly sunny and very hot Mostly sunny and hot 55 99 53 99 55 98 54 89 53 2 2 8 99 59 92 57 2 5 La Grande 64 102 61 103 61 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 2 2 1 63 98 63 100 63 Comfort Index™ 2 3 2 4 ALMANAC TUESDAY EXTREMES TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Tuesday Low Tuesday High: 116° Low: 35° Wettest: 8.64” 95° 48° 99° 52° 103° 54° PRECIPITATION (inches) Tuesday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date 0.00 0.01 0.48 4.47 5.92 0.00 0.22 0.52 8.98 10.58 0.00 0.32 0.63 17.76 15.15 HAY INFORMATION FRIDAY 15% NW at 6 to 12 mph 12.7 0.34 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Wednesday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 16% of capacity 71% of capacity 29% of capacity 89% of capacity 5% of capacity 66% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Tuesday) Grande Ronde at Troy Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder Burnt River near Unity Umatilla River near Gibbon Minam River at Minam Powder River near Richland OREGON The Dalles Sunriver Brookings SUN & MOON THU. 5:32 a.m. 8:25 p.m. 5:05 a.m. 9:01 p.m. FRI. 5:33 a.m. 8:24 p.m. 6:10 a.m. 9:28 p.m. MOON PHASES 936 cfs 129 cfs 149 cfs 57 cfs 266 cfs 18 cfs New Jul 28 First Aug 5 Full Aug 11 Eugene 59/79 Brothers 63/102 58/101 Beaver Marsh 58/100 Roseburg 64/101 Last Aug 18 Burns Jordan Valley 64/96 Paisley 56/99 Frenchglen 61/101 Diamond Grand View Arock 59/101 65/102 69/104 Fields Medford 66/101 Klamath Falls 60/100 Lakeview 56/99 McDermitt 65/100 RECREATION FORECAST FRIDAY SAT. Hi/Lo/W Hi/Lo/W 72/58/pc 71/59/c 105/63/s 103/64/pc 103/72/s 104/74/s 64/53/pc 65/54/c 101/59/s 102/59/pc 68/57/pc 69/56/c 98/63/s 96/60/s 100/60/s 100/61/s 102/67/s 104/66/s 100/63/s 100/59/s 110/73/s 108/71/s 106/76/s 106/74/s 105/66/s 103/68/s 100/62/s 101/65/pc 97/66/s 100/64/s 111/70/s 108/71/s 100/58/s 100/59/pc 99/57/s 99/58/pc Boise 71/103 Shown is Friday’s weather. Temperatures are Thursday night’s lows and Friday’s highs. City Astoria Bend Boise Brookings Burns Coos Bay Corvallis Council Elgin Eugene Hermiston Hood River Imnaha John Day Joseph Kennewick Klamath Falls Lakeview 63/104 Silver Lake 59/101 71/111 52/64 Juntura 58/101 70/108 Brookings Ontario 73/106 54/100 Chiloquin Grants Pass Huntington 58/98 Bend Coos Bay 65/100 74/105 Seneca 64/105 Oakridge Council 55/99 60/100 64/108 Elkton Powers 62/103 59/93 John Day 61/107 Sisters Florence 55/66 Halfway Granite Baker City Redmond 52/64 FRI. 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A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. 67/107 60/98 59/88 93 58 3 66/103 Corvallis Enterprise 63/98 64/102 Monument 71/108 Idanha Salem 61/100 98 58 63/102 La Grande 71/103 Maupin TONIGHT Elgin Pendleton The Dalles 71/101 67/103 72/107 75/106 Hood River 73/106 Portland Newberg Lewiston Walla Walla 72/111 69/100 Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2022 71/109 TIllamook 5 Come winter, Z’s may also off er break- fast. Although one doesn’t often think of barbecue as a breakfast food, Zieman intends to change that. “Pork belly, it’s just bacon in a diff erent form,” he said. “Or a brisket eggs Benedict or a pork belly burrito or something.” The addition of other menu items will help attain one of his goals. “Our goal is to run out because we want to make it fresh every day,” he said. Are you running an outdated Windows Operating System? We’ll help you avoid critical issues by installing Windows 11! 56/81 5 Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069. Bill Bradshaw/Wallowa County Chieftain South from Alaska weather Comfort Index™ █ serve, we make ourselves,” he said, which includes beans, sauces, pickles and numerous other items. They do serve bread that they purchase. Zieman does his cooking in a smoker out back of the tavern. There, he and friend Jon Larson keep the cooker going with a mix of oak and cherry wood. | Go to AccuWeather.com Baker City hand them the card, they’ll thank me for the card, but I never hear another word. How do I know they just didn’t throw away an unopened card? Maybe I’ve insulted them with the cash? Or someone pilfered it? Or is this a sign of the times? — BITTER IN THE WEST DEAR BITTER: The next time you hand them their cards, say, “I hope you can use what’s inside to get yourself something nice or have some fun.” (If you still want to continue giving them money, that is.) Continued from Page B1 customers don’t meet their fi nancial obligations. She said this allows her to better serve a wide array of cus- tomers with options that accommodate for credit and savings barriers. “My philosophy has always been to leave no stone unturned,” Klebaum said. “If it can be done, I’m the girl to do it.” The branch held a ribbon cutting ceremony and open house last month to celebrate the completed renovations and their new location. Now, it’s back to business. “Now that my agenda is pretty much clear of big events and projects,” Kle- baum said. “It’s kind of time for us to really get back to work and do what we do best.” REVAMP DEAR MISSING: You are stuck in a rut of your own making, grieving the loss of your fi rst marriage because there’s nothing else going on in your life to distract you. If you want to get beyond this, start fi nding other things to occupy your time and your thoughts. Explore spe- cial interest groups you can join and activities that will take you out into the community so you have less time alone to brood. And if that isn’t enough, con- sider asking your doctor to refer you to a licensed mental health professional. DEAR ABBY: The past couple of years I’ve given $300 to $400 in cash to my personal trainer and his therapist wife for their birthdays and Christmas. When I LOSTINE the business always makes its margins. Thur’s customers have shifted in what they buy, he said, engaging in more budget conscientious shop- ping. While the mone- tary volume in the store has dropped, foot traffi c remains high. “I still see quite a few people every day,” Zeckman said. “I may not move as much, but I move more cus- tomer-friendly items.” Likewise, Kind Leaf has not experienced a slowdown in the number of sales, Krenzler said, but also is seeing customers spend their money diff erently. They stock up on cheaper products, for example, rather than premium goods. Like any business, Zeckman said, surviving takes building partner- ships. And in cannabis, that means working out mutu- ally benefi cial deals with suppliers all year long. Continued from Page B1 divorce and his subsequent mar- riage to someone I’d known for many years. They have happily gone on with their lives. I am a widow now. My second husband was like me, dumped by his fi rst wife, and we cobbled a life together as best we could. My problem is that I can’t stop longing for my fi rst husband. Logically, I know we’ll never be together, even if he were free from his marriage to the “other woman.” How does one ever get beyond the grief from a marriage that made me feel happy, safe and loved? Do others suff er for decades? I can’t seem to move past the sadness, but would like to be free of these feelings before I pass away. — MISSING THAT LIFE FRI. City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla SAT. Hi/Lo/W Hi/Lo/W 107/69/s 106/70/s 97/63/s 92/64/s 100/58/s 101/60/s 111/72/s 105/73/s 64/53/c 65/52/c 97/56/s 96/58/s 106/72/s 106/73/s 109/69/s 106/68/s 109/73/s 108/72/s 101/69/s 99/69/s 79/60/pc 79/57/pc 107/64/s 104/62/pc 101/65/s 99/64/s 103/67/s 100/65/s 102/69/s 100/68/s 112/74/s 108/74/s 100/54/s 97/54/s 106/74/s 105/75/s Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE Mostly sunny; warm Mostly sunny; hot 77 52 96 57 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Sunny and hot Very hot 90 63 104 60 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK Mostly sunny; warm Sunshine and hot 82 49 96 51 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Sunshine; very hot Sunshine; very hot 97 66 106 72 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK Hot Sunshine; very hot 99 53 102 61