COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD SATuRDAY, JuLY 23, 2022 Husband’s secret life as a serial cheater revealed may be in love with him, but I don’t know if that’s the case or if it’s because I’m alone and vulnerable and want someone to love me back. I was never close with my bio- logical father or my adoptive father, so some of this may be “daddy issues.” Should I tell him how I feel about him, or is it way too soon? — TAKEN BY HIM IN MICHIGAN DEAR TAKEN: It would be more pru- dent to wait until you are sure about your feelings for this guy before declaring your love. Slow down. Let the relationship evolve until you are sure about your moti- vations. If you do, he may beat you to the punch. DEAR ABBY: I have a problem. I’m 8 and I want a dog, but my parents won’t let me have one. The last time we had a dog, I left the door open and it got run over. I feel really sad and bad about it, but I want another dog. Even though it was lives here, and another one in another state. When I told him I knew, he denied it. Recently, I’ve been going to counseling. I need advice. — SUSPICIOUS IN NEW JERSEY DEAR SUSPICIOUS: By now it should be apparent that your husband cannot or will not stop womanizing and lying to you. I’m glad you are seeing a licensed thera- pist, because you need to decide rationally whether the situation you’re living with is one you are willing to tolerate. You should also schedule an appointment with your doctor to be tested for STDs, and one with an attorney to find out what your rights are as a wife of 23 years in New Jersey. After that, you will have a clearer idea of what to do. DEAR ABBY: I met this guy online three months ago. He’s the greatest guy I have ever met. He respects me in ways no other man has respected me, and I appre- ciate that about him so much. I feel like I DEAR ABBY: I have been married for 23 years. About a year ago, our 22-year-old daughter became suspicious that her dad might be having an affair. She found out it was true through his text messages. When we sat down as a family and discussed it, at first he denied it. He got upset to the point that he told our daughter to leave the house, which she did for two weeks. We asked her to come back after my husband and I talked to work things out and I took him to con- fession. We later all went away for a vaca- tion together. Some time has passed, and I looked at his phone and saw he’s been at it again, this time with a 30-year-old woman who an accident, my parents don’t trust me. How can I show them I’m responsible enough and I won’t forget to close the door again? — REALLY WANTS A DOG IN SACRAMENTO DEAR REALLY WANTS: Please accept my sympathy for your loss. Because you didn’t mention how long ago your dog was lost, I will assume it is fairly recent. You might be able to regain your parents’ trust if you begin accepting responsibil- ities at home. Do they want you to make your bed, keep your room neat, help in the kitchen or the yard? Shouldering these kinds of responsibilities can show parents you are ready for more ... like caring for a pet, for instance. I wish you luck. █ Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069. NEWS OF THE WEIRD New York reports first US polio case in nearly a decade of polio found in the live form of vaccine used in other countries. There are two types of polio vaccines. The U.S. and many other countries use shots made with an inactivated version of the virus. But some countries where polio has been more of a recent threat use a weakened live virus that is given to children as drops in the mouth. In rare instances, the weakened virus can mutate into a form capable of sparking new outbreaks. U.S. children are still routinely vaccinated against polio with the inactivated vaccine. Federal offi- cials recommend four doses: to be given at 2 months of age; 4 months; at 6 to 18 months; and at age 4 through 6 years. Some states require only three doses. According to the CDC’s most recent childhood vaccination data, about 93% of 2-year-olds had received at least three doses of polio vaccine. Polio spreads mostly from person to person or through con- taminated water. It can infect a person’s spinal cord, causing paralysis and possibly permanent disability and death. Polio is endemic in Afghan- istan and Pakistan, although numerous countries in Africa, the Middle East and Asia have also reported cases in recent years. Rockland County, in New York City’s northern suburbs, has been a center of vaccine resistance in recent years. A 2018-2019 mea- sles outbreak there infected 312 people. Last month, health officials in Britain warned parents to make sure children have been vacci- nated because the polio virus had been found in London sewage samples. No cases of paralysis were reported. By MIKE STOBBE The Associated Press NEW YORK — An unvacci- nated young adult from New York recently contracted polio, the first U.S. case in nearly a decade, health officials said Thursday, July 21. Officials said the patient, who lives in Rockland County, had developed paralysis. The person developed symptoms a month ago and did not recently travel outside the country, county health offi- cials said. It appears the patient had a vaccine-derived strain of the virus, perhaps from someone who got live vaccine — available in other countries, but not the U.S. — and spread it, officials said. The person is no longer deemed contagious, but inves- tigators are trying to figure out how the infection occurred and whether other people were exposed to the virus. Most Americans are vac- cinated against polio, but this should serve as a wake-up call to the unvaccinated, said Jennifer Nuzzo, a Brown University pan- demic researcher. “This isn’t normal. We don’t want to see this,” Nuzzo said. “If you’re vaccinated, it’s not something you need to worry about. But if you haven’t gotten your kids vaccinated, it’s really important that you make sure they’re up to date.” Health officials scheduled vac- cination clinics in New York for July 21 and July 25, and encour- aged anyone who has not been vaccinated to get the shots. “We want shots in the arms of those who need it,” Rockland County Health Commissioner Dr. Patricia Schnabel Ruppert said at Sarah Poser, Meredith Boyter Newlove/Centers for Disease Control, File This 2014 illustration made available by the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention depicts a polio virus particle. On Thursday, July 21, 2022, New York health officials reported a polio case, the first in the U.S. in nearly a decade. a Thursday news conference. Polio was once one of the nation’s most feared diseases, with annual outbreaks causing thousands of cases of paral- ysis. The disease mostly affects children. Vaccines became available starting in 1955, and a national weather | Go to AccuWeather.com spread. Rarely, travelers have brought polio infections into the U.S. The last such case was in 2013, when a 7-month-old who had recently moved to the U.S. from India was diagnosed in San Antonio, Texas, according the federal health offi- cials. That child also had the type vaccination campaign cut the annual number of U.S. cases to less than 100 in the 1960s and fewer than 10 in the 1970s, according to the Centers for Dis- ease Control and Prevention. In 1979, polio was declared eliminated in the U.S., meaning there was no longer routine AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 55/71 Kennewick 56/87 St. Helens 58/90 TIllamook 61/98 62/99 59/89 54/91 Condon SUN MON TUE WED Clear Plenty of sunshine Sunny and hot Hot with plenty of sun Sunny and very hot 93 51 95 52 96 55 Eugene 7 5 5 54/92 95 60 97 61 99 63 5 5 2 Comfort Index™ La Grande 7 53 91 56 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 8 8 7 50 87 56 Comfort Index™ 7 93 60 95 64 5 5 3 ALMANAC THURSDAY EXTREMES TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Thursday Low Thursday High: 122° Low: 34° Wettest: 4.77” 94° 45° 97° 47° 102° 46° PRECIPITATION (inches) Thursday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date 0.00 0.01 0.40 4.47 5.84 0.00 0.22 0.45 8.98 10.51 0.00 0.32 0.53 17.76 15.05 AGRICULTURAL INFO. HAY INFORMATION SUNDAY Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration 20% NNE at 6 to 12 mph 14.0 0.31 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Friday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 18% of capacity 76% of capacity 31% of capacity 92% of capacity 10% of capacity 73% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Thursday) Grande Ronde at Troy 1380 cfs Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder 122 cfs Burnt River near Unity 126 cfs Umatilla River near Gibbon 61 cfs Minam River at Minam 349 cfs Powder River near Richland 17 cfs Death Valley, Calif. Yellowstone N.P., Wyo. Sallisaw, Okla. OREGON High: 105° Low: 41° Wettest: Trace Ontario Meacham Brookings WEATHER HISTORY On July 23, 1979, heavy rain pushed the Reedy River out of its banks at Greenville, S.C. Thunderstorms dumped 2.00 inches of rain on Johnstown, Pa., in just one hour. SUN & MOON SAT. Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset 5:27 a.m. 8:31 p.m. 1:12 a.m. 4:59 p.m. SUN. 5:28 a.m. 8:29 p.m. 1:43 a.m. 6:01 p.m. MOON PHASES New Jul 28 First Aug 5 Full Aug 11 Last Aug 18 48/84 52/92 50/95 Beaver Marsh 54/74 56/91 Silver Lake Jordan Valley 54/93 Paisley 47/94 49/92 Frenchglen 53/95 Medford 49/95 City Astoria Bend Boise Brookings Burns Coos Bay Corvallis Council Elgin Eugene Hermiston Hood River Imnaha John Day Joseph Kennewick Klamath Falls Lakeview Hi/Lo/W 71/56/pc 96/60/s 95/63/s 74/55/s 94/50/s 68/54/pc 90/59/s 95/55/s 92/58/s 92/59/s 99/62/s 98/67/s 92/59/s 92/53/s 88/59/s 100/63/s 95/53/s 94/50/s Hi/Lo/W 71/56/s 102/59/s 99/67/s 67/53/c 98/54/s 69/56/pc 94/58/s 97/58/s 96/59/s 95/58/s 101/64/s 101/71/s 96/60/s 96/57/s 91/60/s 102/68/s 98/55/s 96/50/s 60/98 55/97 Lakeview 47/94 McDermitt 55/95 RECREATION FORECAST SUNDAY REGIONAL CITIES MON. Grand View Arock 56/96 Klamath Falls Shown is Sunday’s weather. Temperatures are Saturday night’s lows and Sunday’s highs. SUN. Diamond 50/94 Fields 59/98 55/74 Boise 61/95 58/94 Brookings 55/97 42/93 Chiloquin Grants Pass Juntura 48/94 49/92 47/93 Roseburg Ontario 65/97 Burns Brothers 54/93 Coos Bay Huntington 47/90 52/96 Oakridge 57/95 66/97 Seneca Bend Elkton Council 45/89 John Day 48/96 Sisters Florence Powers 53/93 Baker City Redmond 49/63 52/66 Halfway Granite 54/90 Newport 52/68 Comfort Index takes into account how the weather will feel based on a combination of factors. A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. 55/96 51/95 56/92 56/85 90 60 7 Corvallis Enterprise 50/87 53/91 Monument 57/98 Idanha Salem TONIGHT 45 89 47 Elgin 51/92 La Grande 58/93 Maupin Baker City 62/93 Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg 61/96 Hood River 57/96 51/79 Lewiston Walla Walla 61/100 Vancouver 58/90 Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2022 City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla SUN. MON. Hi/Lo/W 96/63/s 87/61/s 90/53/s 98/64/s 63/50/pc 86/55/s 97/64/s 98/63/s 96/61/s 89/65/s 74/54/s 96/54/s 91/62/s 92/62/s 89/65/s 99/66/s 88/47/s 93/67/s Hi/Lo/W 98/67/s 88/61/s 93/57/s 104/68/s 65/52/pc 90/58/s 100/67/s 101/66/s 100/65/s 93/66/s 78/58/s 102/56/s 97/63/s 96/63/s 93/66/s 103/69/s 91/51/s 96/69/s Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE Plenty of sun Sunny and warm 68 46 86 49 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Sunny and nice Plenty of sunshine 78 54 93 54 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK Sunny and nice Plenty of sunshine 75 42 83 43 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Sunny and warm Plenty of sun 88 59 93 62 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK Sunny and nice Plenty of sunshine 89 47 91 56