COFFEE BREAK B8 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD TuESDAY, MARCH 1, 2022 Costs quickly adding up for wedding participant DEAR ABBY: I couldn’t be happier for my friends who are embarking on the next chapter of their lives with their partners, but I’m becoming increasingly anxious about their bachelorette parties. When did the bachelor- ette party become such a big pro- duction? While I have attended my fair share, I think they are getting increasingly extravagant and pricey. I’m trying to prioritize my own next step in life, which is buying a home, and it feels like My first instinct is to say “No,” but it’s hard to refuse a bride who is so important to me. I want to be supportive and involved during this exciting time for her. How much is too much? What is the proper eti- quette for being in the wedding party and attending the bachelor- ette party? Should I have asked about this before accepting to be in the bridal party? — ANX- IOUS ATTENDANT DEAR ANXIOUS ATTEN- DANT: Yes, you should have asked the bride before accepting her invitation to join the wed- ding party. And it is not too late to speak up. Contrary to popular belief, bachelorette parties and weddings do not “go together I’m being “invited” to spend a significant chunk of my savings over the course of a few months. (The weddings themselves will require significant travel.) The bachelorette party I’m most concerned about is for a wedding in which I have been asked to be a bridesmaid. For this reason, I feel obligated to attend. The cost associated with the weekend is $2,500 per person and will total $20,000 for three days. This equals three months of rent for me, and I’m finding it hard to justify this kind of expense. I get anxious thinking about the other expenses — flights, accommodations, gifts — and time-off requests from work. don’t think it’s healthy to wear something filthy on your head for two years. — DISGUSTED IN FLORIDA DEAR DISGUSTED: You are correct; it isn’t healthy. According to the Cleveland Clinic, moderate exposure to sunlight increases vitamin D levels in the body, which is not only beneficial to good health, but it also encourages hair growth. Your husband is doing himself no favors by constantly wearing that (dirty) baseball cap, especially indoors. If he does it because he’s self-conscious about his bald spot, there are products that can minimize it, and effec- tive surgical options if he would be willing to spend the money. like a horse and carriage.” TALK with your friend. Explain that all of the costs (travel, outfit and wedding gift) are more than you can afford. If you do, she may tell you it’s enough that you travel to and participate in the wedding. However, if she doesn’t, back out so she can replace you. DEAR ABBY: My husband, who is in his 60s, wears a base- ball cap all day, every day, to hide a bald spot on the back of his head. He has worn that same dirty cap for two years and even wears it to work. He wears it in the house and only removes it when he is sleeping. I have sug- gested he wash it or replace it, but he refuses and he makes a tsk-tsk noise when I tell him I NEWS OF THE WEIRD Rash-causing moth spreading due to warming, scientists find have been identified as “an insect of both forest and human health con- cern” by the Maine Depart- ment of Health and Human Services. The population of the moths has ebbed and flowed in the decades since it first arrived in Maine in 1904. But the outbreak has been steadily worsening in Maine in recent years, and entomologists said last year was the worst year for browntail moth infestations in state history. The bugs have been growing in both number and territory, as the Maine Forest Service said they’ve spread into northern and western areas of the state in the last two years. The study found early fall temperatures are a key determinant of popu- lation levels the following year, and that climate trends “indicate continued increases in fall tempera- tures” since the moth’s resurgence in the state. It’s another example of how climate change can aggravate pest prob- The Associated Press PORTLAND, Maine — A forest pest that bedevils Maine residents and tour- ists with hairs that cause an itchy rash appears to be spreading due to warming temperatures, a group of scientists has found. The browntail moth is a scourge in America’s most forested state, where it defo- liates trees and causes a rash in humans that resem- bles poison ivy. The hairs of the caterpillars, which have been the subject of an out- break in the state for about seven years, can also cause respiratory trouble. The growth and spread of the moth is tied to increasingly warm weather, especially in the fall, the scientists wrote recently in the journal Environmental Entomology. And, unfortu- nately, climate trends sug- gest upcoming years could be even worse, they wrote. Warmer fall tempera- tures are especially ben- eficial to the pesky bugs because that allows them to university of Maine/Contributed Photo, File This 2017 photo by Holland Haverkamp shows a browntail moth caterpillar in Maine. The caterpillars can cause an itchy rash in humans, and a new study by University of Maine scientists states that their spread appears aided by climate change. get fatter before they hiber- nate for the winter, said Eleanor Groden, professor emerita of entomology at University of Maine and the principal investigator on the study. “If they come out of those webs as hearty indi- viduals, older individuals maturity wise, then they are better able to withstand that period and you get higher populations,” Groden said. “And you get defoliation that spring, and popula- tions are raising havoc for anyone who has them in their yards.” The browntail moth is native to Europe and neigh- boring countries in Asia and Africa. It was acciden- tally introduced in Mas- sachusetts in the late 19th century and is now found in coastal Maine and Cape Cod, Massachusetts. The caterpillars become active from April to June and weather | Go to AccuWeather.com lems and jeopardize human health, said David Wagner, a professor of ecology and evolutionary biology at the University of Connecticut who was not involved in the study. Climate change has already exacerbated prob- lems with disease-causing pests such as mosquitoes and ticks, he said. “Climate change appears to be an important driver in this system,” Wagner said. “So this outbreak can con- tinue to increase, and it could come at great expense to land owners and great nuisance for landowners.” Maine communities have tried numerous strategies to try to slow the spread of the moth, including informing residents about how to safely remove their nests. The Maine Legislature is considering creating a spe- cial grant fund to pay for mitigation measures. They’re a tough spe- cies to manage because they’re spreading fast and not native to the ecosystem, Groden said. “What we are left with Astoria Longview 47/50 48/56 51/54 Overcast, showers around Cloudy with a shower Baker City La Grande Condon 48/58 50/55 2 35 49 35 Comfort Index™ 3 Salem 0 0 0 49/53 41 35 40 33 41 26 0 0 0 0 1 0 4 TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High: 88° Low: -31° Wettest: 3.18” 35° 22° 37° 27° 41° 27° PRECIPITATION (inches) Sunday Trace Month to date Trace Normal month to date 0.57 Year to date 0.38 Normal year to date 1.27 Trace 0.58 1.18 1.85 2.85 0.11 1.59 2.26 5.52 5.53 AGRICULTURAL INFO. 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