COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 19, 2022 Nonbeliever credits work, not ‘blessings,’ for success family, although I am no longer religious. We don’t attend church services with the family, and it seems they have adopted the phi- losophy of mostly “don’t ask and we won’t tell.” My dilemma is: How should I respond to their constant comments that we are “so blessed” to be where we are? I have worked extremely long, hard hours to get to this point in my career. I put myself through school with no support from my family and worked my butt off to get us to where we are. Yes, I’m thankful for the people I’ve worked with who have helped me to grow and reach this point. However, it feels wrong for me to equate my success to being blessed from God. That statement comes up DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have had some crazy life swings since the beginning of the pandemic, mostly positive. I found a wonderful, well-paying job that I enjoy. In our 16th year of marriage, we have also brought a healthy, happy daughter into our lives. We recently bought a lovely home, and have added another, nicer, used car to our assets. In addition, my job allows my hus- band to live his dream of being a stay-at-home dad with our daughter. I come from a very religious numerous times during family get-togethers. Normally, I ignore it or say we feel very lucky to have what we do. Should I con- tinue saying that or ignore them altogether? Is there a tactful response I’m not seeing in this kind of awkward situation? — DESERVING IN MICHIGAN DEAR DESERVING: In the interest of family harmony, smile, nod and agree with the person making the comment. Of course you have worked hard and are deserving of your success. But to announce it in this instance and with those deeply religious people would be braggadocious and is uncalled for. This is not a personal putdown, so continue to resist the urge. DEAR ABBY: I have been happily married for 32 years. My wife is going to a girls’ thing this coming Saturday and asked me what I will be doing. I said I’m going to a funeral for a girl I knew in high school. (We were never boyfriend/girlfriend, just friends.) My wife asked me how I heard about it, and I shared that one of my friends mentioned it during our Monday night football chat. She said, “You haven’t talked to her in more than 40 years. You really didn’t know her anymore, but you’re going to her funeral?” I said yes. Then she said it is “eerie, strange and weird” and it seems inappropriate. I reminded her that people print obituaries to let people know. I asked the guy who told me what he thought about me going. He said it sounded fi ne to him, but I shouldn’t go stag. I said, “Doesn’t ‘stag’ mean single and looking? I’m an old married man.” I’m perplexed about both of these conversations. Am I missing something? AM I a weirdo if I go? Can I go alone? — PAYING RESPECTS IN CALIFORNIA DEAR PAYING RESPECTS: The answers to your questions are no and yes. If you feel the need to pay last respects to a friend from high school, there’s nothing “weird” about doing so. Your football friend may have substi- tuted the word “stag” for the word “solo,” which means “alone.” (I see no reason why you shouldn’t attend the funeral alone if the spirit moves you.) NEWS OF THE WEIRD Please hold: Pricey way to jump IRS phone line at tax time By FATIMA HUSSEIN The Associated Press WASHINGTON — If there’s one thing that pains everyone trying to reach the IRS at tax time, it’s being stuck on endless hold. Well, not everyone. E. Martin Davidoff ’s accounting fi rm spends upwards of $5,000 a year to a company that can zip him and others to the front of the line to get through to an IRS customer service rep- resentative. He says paying for enQ’s line-jumping ser- vice cuts out hours every day that he would other- wise spend waiting to talk to an agent. “It’s the epitome of American entrepreneur- ship,” says Davidoff , who heads the National Tax Con- troversy Practice for Prager Metis in New Jersey. Consumer advocates are less enamored with enQ, seeing it as a pay-to- play arrangement that gives those who can aff ord it a way to get quick access to what should be a free gov- ernment service equally available to all. Members of Congress from both parties have con- cerns, too. The service was expected to come up on Thursday, Feb. 17, during the Senate Finance Commit- tee’s hearing on customer service problems at the IRS, where call volumes have reached record levels. “No taxpayers should have to fork over $1,000 to a private company to get their phone calls answered by the IRS. It’s maddening,” committee chairman Sen. Ron Wyden, D-Oregon, wrote in an email to the AP. “Rebuilding this agency so it can serve hardworking taxpayers is a top priority, and the committee will again examine the issue this week.” Last November, Sens. Bill Cassidy, R-La.; Todd Young, R-Ind.; Bob Menendez, D-N.J.; and Mark Warner, D-Va., wrote do complicated tax work. The service, which can cost $300 a month or $1,000 a year, claims to cut phone hold times by up to 90%. And the problem is immense. At the height of the 2021 fi ling season, the IRS was receiving more than 1,500 calls per second. National Taxpayer Advocate Erin Collins, who serves as an IRS ombudsman, told a House subcommittee earlier this month that taxpayers had more diffi culty reaching the IRS by phone in 2021 than ever before. Because of staffi ng issues and an overload of work, just 11% of the 282 million phone calls received last year were answered. Andrew Valiente, founder and CEO of enQ, declined to comment in detail, stating in an email that he was “hyper-focused on building” the business. In a video on his website, he says his approach may be “unorthodox,” but it’s Patrick Semansky/The Associated Press, File A sign is displayed outside the Internal Revenue Service building May 4, 2021, in Washington. A private company, enQ, lets those who are willing to pay jump to the front of the line to get their phone calls answered at the IRS. That has attracted the attention of lawmakers who want the IRS to investigate the company’s impact on the agency’s phone capacity. to the IRS to urge the agency to investigate how the company’s robocalls to the IRS aff ect agency phone systems. The company’s bots regularly get in the queue for various IRS service lines, and then clients who weather | Go to AccuWeather.com dial in to enQ can swap in to spots at the front of the waiting list. Tax professionals who need regular access to IRS services during the busy fi ling season say that while enQ may be controversial, it’s necessary for them to AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 40/48 Kennewick 42/47 St. Helens 41/46 40/50 Condon 43/53 41/49 TUE WED A bit of snow and rain Colder with a little snow Cold with snow showers Quite cold Turning cloudy; very cold Baker City 26 36 21 Comfort Index™ La Grande 0 7 0 5 3 27 0 34 16 21 0 28 33 21 Comfort Index™ 24 0 34 37 27 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 3 32 14 0 19 -4 19 13 0 0 0 TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Thursday Low Thursday High: 90° Low: -28° Wettest: 3.63” 37° 16° 49° 21° 51° 20° PRECIPITATION (inches) Thursday 0.00 Month to date Trace Normal month to date 0.36 Year to date 0.38 Normal year to date 1.06 0.00 0.41 0.74 1.68 2.41 0.01 0.86 1.45 4.79 4.72 AGRICULTURAL INFO. HAY INFORMATION SUNDAY 55% WNW at 8 to 16 mph 2.0 0.04 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Friday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 40/46 3% of capacity 31% of capacity 22% of capacity 40% of capacity 25% of capacity 46% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Thursday) Grande Ronde at Troy 1690 cfs Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder 1 cfs Burnt River near Unity 6 cfs Umatilla River near Gibbon 201 cfs Minam River at Minam 133 cfs Powder River near Richland 50 cfs Plant City, Fla. Thief River Falls, Minn. Cape Girardeau, Mo. OREGON High: 71° Low: 11° Wettest: Trace Brookings Alkali Lake Astoria WEATHER HISTORY More than 60 twisters on Feb. 19, 1884, ripped through Alabama, Georgia and South Carolina, killing 420 people. With warmer air’s return in late February, the South often has its fi rst tornadoes. SUN & MOON SAT. Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset SUN. 6:48 a.m. 6:46 a.m. 5:25 p.m. 5:27 p.m. 9:00 p.m. 10:13 p.m. 8:28 a.m. 8:49 a.m. MOON PHASES Last Feb 23 New Mar 2 First Mar 10 Full Mar 17 29/40 Beaver Marsh 26/33 Roseburg Powers Brothers 36/40 Coos Bay 40/45 Burns Jordan Valley 27/38 Paisley 28/43 Frenchglen 31/40 Klamath Falls 25/43 Hi/Lo/W 48/36/sh 44/27/sf 45/27/pc 53/38/pc 41/23/sn 47/37/sh 47/33/sh 37/18/sn 39/26/sn 46/35/sh 51/37/pc 50/37/pc 42/30/sn 36/26/sn 33/21/sn 54/34/pc 43/21/c 45/22/c Hi/Lo/W 48/30/r 42/16/sn 41/25/sf 52/35/pc 38/16/sf 44/30/sh 46/27/r 36/11/sf 34/16/sf 45/29/r 47/24/c 49/25/r 36/14/sf 32/14/sf 29/9/sf 45/24/sn 39/18/sn 36/17/sn Grand View Arock 29/42 28/43 Lakeview 25/45 McDermitt 27/44 RECREATION FORECAST SUNDAY REGIONAL CITIES City Astoria Bend Boise Brookings Burns Coos Bay Corvallis Council Elgin Eugene Hermiston Hood River Imnaha John Day Joseph Kennewick Klamath Falls Lakeview Diamond 32/38 28/43 Shown is Sunday’s weather. Temperatures are Saturday night’s lows and Sunday’s highs. MON. Boise 30/45 Fields 33/50 SUN. 33/44 Silver Lake 26/38 Medford Brookings Juntura 30/41 36/47 41/53 Ontario 32/47 27/41 Chiloquin Grants Pass Huntington 31/35 33/44 Oakridge 27/37 30/40 Seneca Bend Elkton THURSDAY EXTREMES ALMANAC Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration Florence Council 26/36 34/36 32/44 40/47 Comfort Index takes into account how the weather will feel based on a combination of factors. A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. 27/30 John Day 31/44 Sisters 40/46 32 12 0 Eugene 40/46 0 27/37 Baker City Redmond 41/45 42/47 Halfway Granite 37/47 Newport 8 27 12 33/41 36/41 40/49 Enterprise 28/33 34/37 Monument 40/51 Idanha Salem Corvallis 0 1 Elgin 33/39 La Grande 37/45 Maupin MON 38/46 Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg 38/49 Lewiston 40/49 Hood River 38/45 40/47 SUN Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2022 Walla Walla 41/54 Vancouver 39/48 TIllamook TONIGHT also a “no-brainer” to avoid wasting time on hold. Mark Steber, chief tax offi cer at Jackson Hewitt Tax Service, is among the many CPAs who use enQ. “We’re confl icted that it costs money to access a free government service,’” Steber said, “but in the service of serving Amer- ican taxpayers, I kind of fault the IRS for not having funding and resources — but they haven’t been funded for 20 years.” Legislation that would have given the IRS bil- lions of dollars to bolster its enforcement capacity and update everything from printers to photocopiers to the agency’s staffi ng levels and improving tele- phone service is stalled in Congress. Robert Nassau, director of the Low Income Tax- payer Clinic at Syracuse University College of Law, said getting through to an IRS agent can feel like win- ning the lottery. City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla SUN. MON. Hi/Lo/W 49/34/sn 47/39/sh 36/26/sn 50/31/c 45/38/sh 49/31/sh 47/30/pc 55/31/sh 45/33/sh 49/37/sh 46/38/sh 44/27/sf 45/35/sh 49/36/sh 42/24/pc 53/40/pc 35/25/sn 46/33/sh Hi/Lo/W 41/22/sn 47/32/r 33/16/sf 48/29/sh 45/33/r 46/28/c 46/26/sf 44/24/sn 41/19/sf 48/29/r 44/33/sh 42/17/sn 42/33/c 48/29/r 29/12/c 50/27/r 33/7/sf 39/19/sn Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE Snow, 1-2” A little snow 16 7 34 21 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Snow, 1-2”; colder A little snow 27 20 39 22 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK Snow, 1-2”; colder Snow, 1-2”; colder 20 8 32 24 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR A little a.m. snow Rain/snow showers 33 21 43 31 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK A little a.m. snow A little snow 36 21 Veterans Appreciation Day at Anthony Lakes Complementary skiing for Veterans and their families February 28, 2022 Details at AnthonyLakes.com 37 27