COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD SATuRDAY, JAnuARY 8, 2022 Mixed signals abound after long separation I don’t know if it could be like it was then,” and we said goodnight. Should I wait for him to text me back? I don’t even know if he’s dating someone. He didn’t say. Please help. — SECOND CHANCE IN THE EAST DEAR SECOND CHANCE: Continue talking to your ex and let this scenario play out further. Is he initiating these calls and texts, or are you? If it’s him, that’s a hopeful sign. Yes, it is true you are both different people now — but that can be a plus. With the passage of time, you both may have mellowed and matured. If the discussions continue, you will find out soon enough if he’s involved with someone or interested in get- DEAR ABBY: I have been talking to my ex-boyfriend of more than 22 years. We have a grown son. We are now in our 50s and talking and texting again. I still love him, and I want a rela- tionship with him, but I’m not sure he wants me back. I don’t know if he’s interested in me or just being friendly. Can you help? At the end of our last phone call he said, “It’s been a long time. Twenty-two years. We are both different people now. ting back together. And remember, if he’s just being “friendly,” the son you share is a good reason for keeping that friendship going. DEAR ABBY: My wife is very protective of our dog, “Spencer.” I agree with her that Spencer should not receive table food. Yes- terday, my wife put a large pile of dog vomit on my desk. She said it “proves” I have been feeding Spencer. Her accusation is not true. I may have done some pecu- liar things in my time, but I have never put vomit on someone’s desk. How should I respond? — FLABBERGASTED IN IOWA DEAR FLABBERGASTED: There can be various reasons for down with the other cards and said, “thanks.” I think he should have opened it and read the con- tents while my daughter was standing there (my daughter would have been so pleased). What do you think? — LISA IN COLORADO DEAR LISA: Once a gift is given, it belongs to the receiver to do with as he or she pleases. Your daughter’s coach was under no obligation to open the envelope in your daughter’s presence. If he recognized the envelope contained more than good wishes, he may have wanted to spare the other athletes embarrassment if they could not afford to be as generous as your family. a dog having an upset stomach besides having consumed table scraps. Spencer should be checked by a veterinarian to be sure there isn’t something else going on. As to your wife putting vomit on your desk, well, since you asked — I wouldn’t blame you if you made it plain that SHE is in the doghouse. DEAR ABBY: When someone gives a gift to someone, shouldn’t it be opened in the presence of the giver? My 12-year-old daughter ran cross-country, and after the season ended, there was a ban- quet. At the banquet, several kids approached the coach and gave him cards. We gave him a gift certificate. When my daughter gave him the envelope, he laid it NEWS OF THE WEIRD Lawmaker apologizes after apparent try to ‘pants’ referee The Associated Press NASHVILLE, Tenn. — A top Tennessee House Republican lawmaker has apologized for losing his temper and being ejected from watching a high school basketball game after a confrontation with a referee. The dustup included what appeared to be either a feigned or failed attempt at pulling down the official’s pants, according to video footage. On Tuesday, Jan. 4, Rep. Jeremy Faison, 45, posted on Twitter that he “acted the fool tonight and lost my temper on a ref.” “I was wanting him to fight me. Totally lost my junk and got booted from the gym,” Faison wrote. “I’ve never really lost my temper but I did tonight and it was completely stupid of me. “Emotions getting in the way of rational thoughts are never good. I hope to be able to find the ref and ask for his forgiveness. I was bad wrong.” Providence Academy, a private religious school in Johnson City, lives- treamed the boys game against Lakeway Chris- tian Academy, a private religious school in White Pine. Faison’s son is on the Lakeway team. The video feed shows Faison sitting in the stands before players hit the ground on a loose ball in the third quarter, spurring the referee’s whistle and a brief scuffle between the two teams. The Associated Press, File Rep. Jeremy Faison, R-Cosby, center, talks with Rep. Dan Howell, R-Georgetown, left, during a meeting, Aug. 11, 2020, in Nashville, Tenn. A top Tennessee House Republican law- maker has apologized for losing his temper and being ejected from watching a high school basketball game after getting into a confrontation with a referee, including a brief gesture at pulling down the official’s pants that is visible in video footage of the game. On Tuesday, Jan. 4, 2022, Rep. Jeremy Faison, 45, posted on Twitter that he “acted the fool tonight and lost my temper on a ref.” According to a report provided by the Tennessee Secondary School Ath- letic Association, Faison showed up on the court and was then told by a referee to leave. Faison then pointed a finger at the referee’s face and said, “You can’t tell me to leave the floor — this was your fault,” the report stated. Faison then grabbed the ref’s pants and tugged down on them, the report says. The referee’s pants stayed up and Faison subse- quently walked away. Since 2019, Faison has News of Faison’s actions quickly sparked criticism. “‘Pantsing’ a ref on the gym floor is next level bul- lying…not even the stuff of middle school locker rooms,” Rep. Gloria Johnson, a Knoxville Dem- ocrat, tweeted Jan. 5. been the House caucus chairman for Republicans, who have supermajorities in both legislative chambers. The GOP caucus chairman is among the most influen- tial position in the House. In his apology, the law- maker from Cosby wrote that “for years” he has thought it is wrong for par- ents to lose their temper at sporting events, saying it is “not Christian and it’s not mature and it’s embar- rassing to the child.” Faison did not specifically mention the pants-pulling-down ges- ture in his post. weather | Go to AccuWeather.com to the site of its owner’s rollover crash. Both the vehicle’s occu- pants were seriously hurt, but thanks to Tinsley’s dogged efforts they quickly received medical assistance once officers discovered the truck, which went off the road near a Vermont inter- state junction, WMUR-TV reported Tuesday, Jan. 4. “The dog was trying to show them something,” said Lt. Daniel Baldassarre of the New Hampshire State Police. “He kept trying to get away from them but didn’t run away totally. ‘Follow me’: Dog finds help, leads cops to owner’s car crash LEBANON, N.H. — A German shepherd named Tinsley, first thought to be a lost dog, successfully led New Hampshire state police AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 36/50 Kennewick 29/46 St. Helens 30/48 Hood River 27/34 30/47 Condon 28/35 33/46 SUN MON TUE WED Partly cloudy Mostly sunny and chilly Increasing clouds Mainly cloudy and chilly Mostly cloudy and chilly 29 14 28 17 30 17 Eugene 0 0 0 31/46 34 22 33 25 32 24 2 1 0 La Grande 25 33 23 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 0 3 0 19 37 23 Comfort Index™ 1 39 27 36 26 4 4 4 TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Thursday Low Thursday High: 89° Low: -35° Wettest: 5.78” 39° 28° 43° 31° 41° 30° PRECIPITATION (inches) Thursday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date 0.02 0.26 0.15 0.26 0.15 0.09 0.80 0.34 0.80 0.34 0.67 1.60 0.66 1.60 0.66 AGRICULTURAL INFO. HAY INFORMATION SUNDAY Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration 45% SSE at 6 to 12 mph 2.4 0.04 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Friday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 1% of capacity 23% of capacity 17% of capacity 18% of capacity 17% of capacity 20% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Thursday) Grande Ronde at Troy 1190 cfs Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder 1 cfs Burnt River near Unity 15 cfs Umatilla River near Gibbon 271 cfs Minam River at Minam 156 cfs Powder River near Richland 43 cfs Zapata, Texas Plentywood, Mont. Hoquiam, Wash. OREGON High: 63° Low: 25° Wettest: 4.38” Astoria Ruch Astoria WEATHER HISTORY The temperature stayed below zero in New York City for an entire day only once--on Jan. 8, 1859. During the same cold snap, Toronto had its coldest January temperature ever with a low of 27 degrees below zero. SUN & MOON SAT. Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset SUN. 7:31 a.m. 7:31 a.m. 4:27 p.m. 4:29 p.m. 11:17 a.m. 11:36 a.m. 11:42 p.m. none MOON PHASES First Jan 9 Full Jan 17 Last Jan 25 Beaver Marsh 37/59 New Jan 31 32/51 Silver Lake Jordan Valley 20/35 Paisley 18/38 20/44 Frenchglen 24/39 29/47 Klamath Falls 18/40 City Astoria Bend Boise Brookings Burns Coos Bay Corvallis Council Elgin Eugene Hermiston Hood River Imnaha John Day Joseph Kennewick Klamath Falls Lakeview Hi/Lo/W 50/39/s 41/31/s 34/18/s 54/42/pc 34/13/s 56/40/pc 44/30/pc 31/14/s 33/20/s 46/33/pc 35/25/pc 34/29/pc 39/30/s 37/29/s 38/29/s 33/19/pc 40/20/pc 34/13/s Hi/Lo/W 49/43/r 44/34/pc 32/20/pc 56/43/pc 32/15/pc 57/45/c 45/38/r 30/16/pc 34/22/c 48/37/sh 32/25/c 35/31/c 43/32/c 41/29/pc 37/29/pc 31/23/c 41/21/pc 36/15/pc 22/31 Lakeview 11/34 McDermitt 21/37 RECREATION FORECAST SUNDAY REGIONAL CITIES MON. Grand View Arock 21/34 23/35 Shown is Sunday’s weather. Temperatures are Saturday night’s lows and Sunday’s highs. SUN. Diamond 24/38 Fields Medford Brookings Boise 18/34 32/52 39/54 22/31 15/34 Chiloquin Grants Pass Juntura 15/34 20/33 21/43 Ontario 19/31 Burns Brothers 32/53 Roseburg Huntington 20/31 Bend Coos Bay 15/31 22/30 Seneca 26/41 Oakridge Council 16/28 25/37 22/42 Elkton THURSDAY EXTREMES ALMANAC 20/30 John Day 24/41 Sisters Florence Powers 19/30 Baker City Redmond 38/51 40/54 Halfway Granite 30/44 Newport 35/56 Comfort Index takes into account how the weather will feel based on a combination of factors. A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. 21/38 29/48 32/45 31/53 36 23 3 Corvallis Enterprise 19/37 25/33 Monument 22/37 Idanha Salem TONIGHT 2 21/33 La Grande 26/36 Maupin Comfort Index™ Elgin Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg Lewiston 24/31 26/31 28/37 TIllamook 16 28 13 Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2022 Walla Walla 22/33 Vancouver 30/48 35/55 Baker City “It was kind of, ‘Follow me. Follow me.’ And they did that and you know, to their surprise to see the guardrail damaged and to look down to where the dog is looking at, it’s just, they were almost in disbelief,” he said. A New Hampshire state trooper and police from the nearby city of Lebanon responded to the crash site late Jan. 3, just across the state line in Vermont. There were no fur- ther details on the con- dition of those injured in the single-vehicle crash. City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla SUN. MON. Hi/Lo/W 31/22/s 46/32/pc 33/21/pc 47/34/pc 51/39/pc 45/31/pc 31/18/pc 32/19/s 37/21/pc 46/34/pc 59/39/pc 41/24/s 51/36/pc 45/30/pc 32/19/pc 35/27/pc 40/21/s 31/21/s Hi/Lo/W 32/25/c 43/42/c 36/22/c 50/35/pc 52/43/r 46/40/r 29/21/c 29/22/c 33/25/c 44/38/c 59/44/pc 42/28/pc 52/39/pc 47/39/r 29/24/c 32/28/c 38/26/c 30/24/c Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE Not as cold Partly sunny 26 23 30 19 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Mostly sunny Mostly sunny 30 28 36 21 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK Mostly sunny Mostly sunny 26 15 34 23 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Plenty of sunshine Partly sunny 38 29 40 25 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK Partly sunny Mostly sunny 28 13 33 23