COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD THuRSDAY, DECEmBER 30, 2021 Young woman’s temper has siblings on edge ronment, handle this? We don’t think our childhoods so terrible, although we did have some chal- lenges, and our daddy does have narcissistic tendencies. He actu- ally recognizes that and is trying to improve himself. Sometimes we feel she makes mountains out of molehills, but we want to be sensitive to her pain. I’m con- cerned she’ll end up controlling our family gatherings in a nega- tive way if these flare-ups don’t stop. What do you think could be done? — BEFUDDLED BIG SIS DEAR BIG SIS: What could (and should) be done is an inter- vention by you and your siblings in which Elise is advised to seek professional help for her explo- sive anger issues. If she refuses DEAR ABBY: I have a younger sister I love dearly. I respect and admire her. “Elise” is intelligent and talented. She is a minister’s wife and a mother to small children. Due to some unfortunate family circum- stances when she was young, she has some emotional scars she’s trying to overcome. Some- times at family gatherings she’ll “explode” and lash out at who- ever triggered her. Her outbursts usually take us all by surprise. How do we, as siblings who have grown up in the same envi- and her behavior continues, let her know you support her but can no longer include her. DEAR ABBY: My husband’s personality changes completely when he drinks, and not for the better. He brags, repeats him- self and presents in a way that’s annoying and embarrassing. His alcohol personality will never change — it is who he is. He’s been like this for the entire 13 years I’ve been with him. He drinks two to three times a week, at most, and says I “overreact” to his personality change. He tells me I shouldn’t get so frustrated, but I don’t want to be around my hus- band when he drinks. Can you advise me how to live with him when he’s drunk? By the way, it doesn’t take much for him to get this way — three beers. Could he be having a reaction to the alcohol? — FED UP IN SAN DIEGO DEAR FED UP: That’s pos- sible. Some individuals are more sensitive to alcohol than others. Whether it takes three beers or simply sniffing a cork to get your husband loaded, his drinking is causing a problem in your marriage. It’s time for you to locate a chapter of Al-Anon (al-anon.org) and attend some of the meetings. This organization was created decades ago to help the friends and family members of people who have an alcohol problem — which your husband definitely has. You are far from alone in having this problem, which you will realize once you get there. Please don’t wait. Your reac- tion to his personality change is understandable. DEAR ABBY: I have been having some hard times in school. I love my teacher, but I have been getting in trouble lately. She is also my coach. What should I do? Should I take her criticism or drop out of the sport and band? — HARD TIMES IN IDAHO DEAR HARD TIMES: I’m glad you asked. The mature thing to do would be to talk to your teacher and see if you can mend fences. If you enjoy the sport and playing with the band, to do otherwise would only be further punishing yourself. NEWS OF THE WEIRD Experts pull documents, money from Lee statue time capsule fully separated, and two carved artifacts — a Masonic symbol and a Con- federate flag said to have be made from the tree that grew over Gen. Stonewall Jackson’s original grave. Conservators also pulled coins and Miniè balls, a type of bullet used in the Civil War, from the box. A bomb squad had checked the capsule Monday, partly to make sure there was no live ammunition. Virginia Gov. Ralph Northam ordered the enor- mous equestrian statue of Lee removed in 2020, amid the global protest movement sparked by the police killing of George Floyd. Litigation pushed back his plans, and the statue was not removed until September, after a court cleared the way. Contemporaneous news accounts from the late 1800s detailed the placement of the time capsule in the foun- dation of the pedestal, and imaging tests conducted earlier this year appeared to confirm its existence. But a lengthy search during the September statue removal came up empty. Earlier this month, Northam ordered the ped- estal removed as well, and crews working on the project again started to search for the artifact. A time capsule was discovered two weeks ago, generating excitement, but hours of painstaking and ultimately anti-climactic examination suggested that artifact was placed by someone else, per- haps someone involved with the construction. By SARAH RANKIN The Associated Press RICHMOND, Va. — Conservation experts in Vir- ginia’s capital Tuesday, Dec. 28, pulled books, money, ammunition, documents and other artifacts from a time capsule found in the rem- nants of a pedestal that once held a statue of Confederate Gen. Robert E. Lee. The lead conservator for the Virginia Department of Historic Resources, Kate Ridgway, said the measure- ments and material of the box, copper, match histor- ical accounts. As the con- tents inside were unpacked, they appeared to match the description of the 1887 time capsule they had been looking for. “It does appear that this is the box we expected,” she told reporters. Records maintained by the Library of Virginia sug- gest that dozens of Rich- mond residents, organi- zations and businesses contributed about 60 objects to the capsule, including Confederate memorabilia. The box was discov- ered and carefully extracted from the monument site a day earlier, marking the end of a long search for the elu- sive capsule. Ridgway said the box, which weighed 36 pounds, was found in water in a little alcove of the ped- estal. The contents were damp, but “it’s not soup,” Ridgway said. “I think it’s in better shape than we expected,” she said. Historical records had led Sarah Rankin/The Associated Press Virginia state conservators work on a box believed to be a time capsule left in the pedestal at the former site of a statue of Confederate Gen. Robert E. Lee in Richmond, Va., on Tuesday, Dec. 28, 2021. Conservation experts in Virginia’s capital pulled buttons, coins, documents and other artifacts from the time capsule found in the remnants of the pedestal. to some speculation that the capsule might contain a rare and historically significant photo of deceased President Abraham Lincoln. One line from a newspaper article listed among the contents a “picture of Lincoln lying in his coffin.” On Tuesday, conservators found a printed image from an 1865 issue of Harper’s weather | Go to AccuWeather.com unpacking difficult, so con- servators decided to relieve pressure by cutting down one side. “Not ideal, but it’s the way it is,” Ridgway said. Along with several waterlogged books, pam- phlets and newspapers, the box contained an enve- lope of Confederate money, which conservators care- tained an actual photograph of Lincoln in his coffin because the only known photo of Lincoln in death was taken by photographer Jeremiah Gurney in City Hall in New York on April 24, 1865. The contents of the tightly packed box had expanded from the damp and stuck together, making Weekly in the time capsule that Ridgway said seemed to show a figure grieving over Lincoln’s grave — but did not appear to be the much-anticipated photo. Harold Holzer, a histo- rian and Lincoln scholar, had previously told The Associated Press he believed it highly unlikely that the time capsule con- AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 31/40 Kennewick 26/38 St. Helens 30/35 TIllamook Hood River 24/33 24/32 30/37 29/38 Condon TONIGHT FRI SAT SUN Baker City 14 20 Comfort Index™ La Grande 16 0 0 19 27 -3 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 0 0 Comfort Index™ 0 0 19 9 Eugene 32/41 0 23 13 23 18 32 28 0 0 0 31 15 38 28 0 3 0 0 NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Tuesday Low Tuesday High: 88° Low: -38° Wettest: 1.95” 22° 2° 23° 16° 25° 18° Trace 0.36 0.77 5.37 8.98 0.01 0.80 1.71 10.78 17.23 0.05 4.67 3.41 26.71 25.59 PRECIPITATION (inches) Tuesday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date HAY INFORMATION FRIDAY 40% WNW at 4 to 8 mph 0.1 0.02 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Wednesday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 1% of capacity 21% of capacity 16% of capacity 17% of capacity 15% of capacity 17% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Tuesday) Grande Ronde at Troy Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder Burnt River near Unity Umatilla River near Gibbon Minam River at Minam Powder River near Richland Robstown, Texas Chinook, Mont. 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