6B — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD SATURDAY, MAY 1, 2021 EMPTY Couple clashes over time spent with their sons Continued from Page 1B That’s an area bigger than the fi ve smallest states combined — Rhode Island, Delaware, Connecticut, Ha- waii and New Jersey. Yet the total population of the three southeast counties is just 47,470, less than half the number of people who live in Bend alone. But even that comparison is somewhat misleading. The three-county population, meager though it is, in one sense greatly exaggerates the region’s population density. Of the 47,470 residents, almost half — 23,430 — live in one of just six towns: Ontario, Nyssa, Burns, Lakeview, Vale and Hines. Outside those cities the population density through- out the three counties is below one person per square mile — 640 acres. Suffi ce it to say that if you venture away from one of the few highways or other paved roads, the only traffi c conges- tion you’re likely to encounter is a herd of cattle, deer or pronghorn. (And the pronghorn, like as not, will be running far faster than you can safely, or com- fortably, travel in a rig, what with the typical condition of the backroads in an area where pavement is as rare as rimrock in a metropolitan downtown.) One of the bigger bare stretches on the map is also one I had been hankering to revisit since I fi rst ventured there with my dad about 20 years ago. This is the area west of Owyhee Reservoir and south of Highway 20. To put into perspective the scale of this region, from Vale, the nearest paved road to the south — Highway 95 at Jordan Valley — is about 75 miles away. To the southwest, Highway 78 — which runs from Burns to Burns Junction, where it meets Highway 95 — is about 60 miles, with not a single settlement between. This is not a place to have a fl at tire and no spare. A place where the whine of a starter that fails to get the engine running is perhaps the most frightening sound imaginable. A place, perhaps most importantly, where a nearly full tank of gas is the best sort of insurance. This region is probably best known, at least in the past few decades, for the interest that multiple mining com- DEAR ABBY: My wife and I have been married fi ve years DEAR ABBY and are raising four children. One is from my previous relationship, one is from her previous relationship and two are ours. We both have joint custody. My son goes to school near his mom. My wife’s son goes to school where we live. They are 9 and 8. There’s a lot of tension between us because my stepson’s father isn’t the greatest parent. He never comes to school events or sporting events, so he misses half of everything. I regularly attend my son’s events, which are a couple of hours away and take time away from my stepson. I put my 9-year-old fi rst because he’s my fi rstborn, and I have him less. My wife disagrees with this, and we fi ght about it con- stantly. I believe I am doing the right thing. Advice, please. — WONDERING IN WISCONSIN DEAR WONDERING: I’m sorry your wife’s son’s father hasn’t stepped up to the plate. But please do not allow your wife to interfere with your relationship with your son. You ARE doing the right thing by showing an interest in what he’s doing and supporting him emotionally. DEAR ABBY: I have been married nine years. My hus- band doesn’t allow me to leave the house without him. He makes sure I don’t have a car or access to the one we have. He tells me he doesn’t mean anything by it, but if I try to take a walk alone, he is right on my heels. If I go anywhere with my sister or a friend, I must wait until he is gone. If he gets home before I do, he’s sitting on the porch waiting for me. He is not physically abusive, but I feel like a prisoner. I have told him several times how it makes me feel, but he doesn’t seem to get it. I really need some advice. — TRAPPED IN GEORGIA DEAR TRAPPED: Your husband doesn’t get it because he doesn’t WANT to. What he is doing is NOT a demon- stration of love or concern for your safety. It’s an example of his own insecurity and need to control you. This is a big red fl ag, and my advice is to call the National Domestic Violence Hotline and discuss this with someone there because what’s happening could escalate into abuse. The toll-free phone number is: 800-799-7233. DEAR ABBY: I love my grown children and grandchil- dren, but I hate it when they come “home” for a week or more. My house gets turned upside down and inside out, and I end up losing my temper. Then I feel like an aw- ful mother. I suggested we all meet somewhere else, but it didn’t go over well. Help! — INVADED IN NORTH DAKOTA DEAR INVADED: Your suggestion may not have gone over well with your children and grandchildren, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t “suggest” it again. And when you do, make sure they understand you are saying it because when they visit they leave your home in disarray, which creates more work for you than you are comfortable doing. Unless they are willing to make sure your home is as neat when they leave as when they arrived, enough is enough. weather | Go to AccuWeather.com Lisa Britton/Baker City Herald The Dry Creek arm of Owyhee Reservoir in Malheur County south of Vale. panies have shown in the microscopic, but extensive, gold deposits around Grassy Mountain, about 22 miles south of Vale. Paramount Nevada is the fi rm currently working on a proposal to extract the pre- cious metal. Until the heavy equipment arrives, though, the area is fantastically lonely. As is the case with most of Oregon’s southeast corner, the Owyhee country is primar- ily sagebrush steppe, the famous high desert in the rain shadow that the Cascade Mountains cast across much of Oregon. But it is hardly the feature- less, monotonous landscape that the scarcity of words on large-scale maps, such as an Oregon highway map, implies. Once you leave the ir- rigated valley of the Malheur River near Vale, the Twin Springs road climbs ridges, dips into dry gulches and passes rimrock outcrops and water-sculpted badlands. Geologically speaking this is volcanic country, the rocks predominantly basalt and rhyolite, with layers of volca- nic ash in places. The lone oasis in the ap- proximately 37 miles south of Highway 20 is Twin Springs campground. Formerly a homestead, the property was returned to public ownership in 1963. The road was in relatively good shape when we drove it on April 3, the berms left by the grader’s recent passage still looking fresh. But that changes a few miles south of Twin Springs, as the road de- scends into a gulch that leads to Dry Creek. The stretches of steep, boulder-strewn road are best-suited for a high-clear- ance four-wheel drive vehicle. I was drawn to Dry Creek not only because so many years had passed since I went this way, but also because I had only recently realized that one of Oregon’s most unusual enclaves of vacation cabins is nearby. When my dad and I were here we drove just a short distance along the Dry Creek Road, dissuaded, as near as I can recall, by the boulders and by the uncertainty that we would actually reach the reservoir. But a while back I hap- pened to be gliding over Owyhee Reservoir, courtesy of Google Earth, when I noticed a cluster of structures on the south shore of the reservoir’s Dry Creek arm, one of its longest coves. This piqued my curiosity, and prompted our April 3 trip. We parked just before the Dry Creek ford, not because the crossing posed any chal- lenge but because we wanted to get in a hike. (The stream, despite its desert-appropriate name, carries a signifi cant volume of water in early spring, swollen, I’m sure, by snowmelt.) That day before Easter was the warmest so far, the tem- perature in the mid 70s, and I was reminded that midsum- mer is an unpleasant, and potentially dangerous, time to travel through this remote country. It’s only a mile or so to the reservoir, even in its depleted condition — a little more than half full on the day we visited. There are a dozen or so cab- ins, in various sizes and types of construction, on the shore. I had learned that these Astoria Longview 44/57 Vancouver 44/65 44/65 46/63 Condon 47/69 47/67 43/67 SUN MON TUE WED A blend of sun and clouds Increasing clouds Clouds and sunshine Partly sunny and pleasant 66 39 63 30 73 39 Eugene 10 9 10 44/66 64 44 64 33 76 45 10 9 10 La Grande 42 59 35 Comfort Index™ 10 Enterprise 8 37 53 33 Comfort Index™ 9 59 36 72 45 10 9 9 7 ALMANAC THURSDAY EXTREMES TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Thursday Low Thursday High: 103° Low: 16° Wettest: 4.69” 84° 38° 84° 37° PRECIPITATION (inches) Thursday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date 0.00 0.57 0.81 1.66 3.01 0.00 0.15 1.52 5.84 5.75 0.00 0.54 1.93 13.71 9.63 AGRICULTURAL INFO. HAY INFORMATION SUNDAY Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration 35% NNW at 8 to 16 mph 6.0 0.16 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Friday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 22% of capacity 99% of capacity 57% of capacity 96% of capacity 63% of capacity 100% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Thursday) Grande Ronde at Troy 6170 cfs Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder 34 cfs Burnt River near Unity 132 cfs Umatilla River near Gibbon 913 cfs Minam River at Minam 980 cfs Powder River near Richland 78 cfs Death Valley, Calif. Walden, Colo. Clinton, Ark. OREGON High: 87° Low: 28° Wettest: Trace Medford Howard Prairie Brookings WEATHER HISTORY Hartford, Conn., had its worst fl ood of the 19th century on May 1, 1854. After 66 hours of steady rain, the fl ood crested at 28.9 feet. This height was not eclipsed until the great fl ood of March 1936. SUN & MOON SAT. Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset SUN. 5:41 a.m. 5:39 a.m. 7:59 p.m. 8:00 p.m. 12:54 a.m. 1:50 a.m. 9:22 a.m. 10:29 a.m. MOON PHASES Last May 3 New First Full May 11 May 19 May 26 Monument 41/65 35/52 40/60 39/63 Beaver Marsh 46/64 48/70 Silver Lake Jordan Valley 37/56 Paisley 37/61 35/59 Frenchglen 37/59 Medford 35/60 City Astoria Bend Boise Brookings Burns Coos Bay Corvallis Council Elgin Eugene Hermiston Hood River Imnaha John Day Joseph Kennewick Klamath Falls Lakeview Hi/Lo/W 57/42/c 61/33/c 64/41/s 63/46/pc 61/29/pc 57/40/c 66/39/c 61/35/pc 59/32/pc 66/39/c 71/46/pc 63/43/pc 61/36/pc 60/32/pc 52/33/pc 72/41/pc 60/30/pc 61/28/pc Hi/Lo/W 55/45/sh 66/34/pc 67/46/pc 61/47/s 66/36/pc 57/45/pc 62/45/c 68/41/pc 64/43/pc 67/46/c 72/50/pc 64/48/c 67/45/pc 65/42/pc 61/42/pc 73/45/c 66/32/s 66/31/s 47/66 41/61 Lakeview 34/61 McDermitt 39/58 RECREATION FORECAST SUNDAY REGIONAL CITIES MON. Grand View Arock 40/62 Klamath Falls Shown is Sunday’s weather. Temperatures are Saturday night’s lows and Sunday’s highs. SUN. Diamond 36/59 Fields 47/71 47/63 Boise 45/64 46/74 Brookings 39/63 37/60 Chiloquin Grants Pass Juntura 35/61 36/56 35/58 Roseburg Ontario 48/68 Burns Brothers 44/63 Coos Bay Huntington 35/56 40/61 Oakridge 40/61 46/63 Seneca Bend Elkton Council 36/60 John Day 37/63 Sisters Florence Powers 39/61 Baker City Redmond 45/54 47/58 Halfway Granite 44/66 Newport Enterprise 37/53 42/59 40/58 45/68 46/57 Comfort Index takes into account how the weather will feel based on a combination of factors. A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. 81° 37° Corvallis 46/67 61 43 Elgin 39/59 La Grande 38/59 42/64 Idanha Salem Patchy clouds 7 46/66 Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg Lewiston 46/68 Hood River 44/66 TONIGHT 8 Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2021 Walla Walla 45/72 Maupin Comfort Index™ privately owned structures are on public land managed by the Bureau of Reclama- tion, the federal agency that built Owyhee Dam in the late 1920s and early 1930s. It’s a stark landscape, the contrast dramatic between the reservoir and the desic- cated lands that surround it. But it’s also a compelling place, beautiful in spite of its emptiness, its very remote- ness an attraction. Kennewick 44/66 St. Helens TIllamook 36 60 31 From the west end of Vale, drive about four miles and turn left on Russell Road, at a sign for Twin Springs and Dry Creek. Drive south for about 15 miles. At a prominent, but unsigned, junction, turn right and continue south toward the power transmission line. Twin Springs campground is about 12.5 miles south of the junction. From Twin Springs, continue south for four miles to the Dry Springs Road. The last mile or so is rocky and rough as the road descends into a canyon. Just after crossing Dry Creek — a rocky ford; there is no bridge — turn left, at a cattle guard, onto Dry Creek Road. This road has some rough patches that demand four-wheel drive and high ground clearance. If you decide to walk, it’s only about one mile to the Dry Creek Arm of Owyhee Reservoir. AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION 45/58 Baker City If You Go ... City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla SUN. MON. Hi/Lo/W 68/42/pc 66/41/c 59/32/pc 71/41/pc 54/42/c 65/38/c 68/44/pc 72/39/pc 66/41/pc 67/45/c 64/43/c 63/29/c 70/43/c 68/42/c 64/39/pc 69/43/pc 57/28/pc 66/44/pc Hi/Lo/W 70/50/pc 57/46/c 64/45/pc 74/48/s 54/45/sh 54/41/c 73/49/pc 72/44/c 68/46/pc 60/47/sh 66/48/pc 66/36/c 70/49/pc 63/46/c 62/42/c 67/48/pc 62/37/pc 66/47/pc Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE Colder Periods of sun 30 19 54 28 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Partly sunny Sunny intervals 45 32 61 34 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK A.M. snow showers Clouds and sun 39 23 53 27 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Cooler Clouds and sun 52 33 64 38 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK Winds subsiding Partly sunny 60 31 59 35