6B — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD SATuRDAY, MARCH 6, 2021 COFFEE BREAK Falling-out with friend group puts wife in awkward position DEAR ABBY: I’m mar- ried to the most patient, loving and wonderful hus- band in the world. Recently, I had a fall- ing-out with his friend group. I admit I was not a good friend due to mental illness, and I know I may never earn their forgiveness. I’m taking responsibility for my actions and seeking help. Now I want to move on and forget I ever knew them. The problem is, my hus- band still hangs out with them. He defended me when they DEAR talked nega- ABBY tively about me, and con- tinues to sup- port me in all my struggles, but they’re still buddy-buddy as if nothing ever happened. I can’t help but think how awkward it is that he hangs out with a bunch of people who hate me. The last thing I want is to break up a friendship, and I know it’s petty to be angry that my husband still hangs with them, but it still leaves a sour taste in my mouth. How can I learn to let go knowing they will be a constant presence in my life and a reminder of how horrible I was? — KEEPING DISTANCE DEAR KEEPING: You have a mental illness and you acted out. Your illness caused it, and it does not March is Colorectal Cancer AWARENESS MONTH Pythons, iguanas: Florida restricts some exotic reptiles J. Pat Carter/Associated Press, File In this Oct. 14, 2013, file photo, a green iguana expands a pouch of skin underneath the lower jaw called a dewlap, as it sits in the sun on Key Biscayne, Florida. Iguanas, Bur- mese pythons, monitor lizards and other reptile invasive species have taken hold in Florida. The Florida Fish and Wildlife Conservation Commission voted Thursday, Feb. 25, 2021, to move these animals onto a prohibited list. That means they can only be brought to Florida for exhibition, such as a zoo, and at a research facility. Did you know... colorectal cancer is the the third most commonly diagnosed cancer in the U.S.? 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The rules do not require anyone to relin- quish their pets and permits are free. “I’m very sensitive to the people in the pet trade and enthusiasts,” said Robert Spottswood, a member of the Florida commis- sion. “But this action is a result of the invasive spe- cies that continue to get in the wild. These animals are doing lots of damage and we are incumbent to do something.” According to the wild- life commission, there are weather | Go to AccuWeather.com If you are 50 or older, or a have a family history of colorectal cancer, ask your doctor about screening options. 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A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. 30/46 32/47 Council 29/49 John Day 32/49 Sisters 40/54 42 25 30/48 Baker City Redmond 39/48 42/50 Halfway Granite 26/39 33/42 39/51 Corvallis 32/49 38/51 Newport Enterprise 28/43 33/46 Monument 35/52 Idanha Salem TONIGHT 1 Elgin 30/45 La Grande 33/47 Maupin Comfort Index™ 40/53 Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg Lewiston 37/49 Hood River 40/55 TIllamook 29 49 28 Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2021 Walla Walla 37/58 Vancouver 38/48 40/49 Baker City You should not expect your husband to drop his friends because you messed up. They probably WILL be present in your lives for the foreseeable future, but that doesn’t mean you will always be at odds. Patie nt Ho using Avail able News of the Weird ST. PETERSBURG, Fla. — Pythons, iguanas, mon- itor lizards, oh my! Florida is moving to restrict 16 invasive reptile species that have wreaked havoc in the Everglades and across the state. Burmese pythons, in particular, have been espe- cially destructive to native wildlife. “Breeding invasive species in Florida is like playing with matches in a tinder box,” said Julie Wraithmell, vice president and executive director of Audubon Florida. The Florida Fish and Wildlife Conservation Commission voted Feb. 25 to move these animals to a prohibited list. That means they can only be brought to Florida for exhibition, such as a zoo, or at a research facility. “These animals are cre- ating enormous issues for our state,” said Rodney Barreto, chair of the com- mission. “The environ- ment trumps the live- lihood on this one, unfortunately.” Many people involved in the reptile trade and pet owners have weighed in ment, you have also taken the second step. When you are strong enough, apolo- gize to his friend group for any pain, embarrassment or disruption you caused during an “episode” and assure them you are working to get better. make you a bad person. 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