6B — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD SATuRDAY, DECEmBER 12, 2020 COFFEE BREAK Daughter’s new kitten brings comfort, conflict to household DEAR ABBY: My 34-year-old daughter lives with me to get ahead on her student loans. She has a good job, pays rent and has a serious boy- friend. My niece, her cousin, recently died by suicide, and naturally, we are all devastated, but my daughter took the news espe- cially hard. I had to be out of town for three weeks, and during this time she has been spending time with my sister-in-law’s family as they all navigate this tragedy. My niece left behind several pets — dogs and a mama cat with kittens. My daughter called me, announced she had brought a kitten home and declared that this kitten has helped her in her grief process. I am livid that she didn’t ask me first (she knew the answer would be a firm “no”). She’s now claiming that I don’t care about her grief. I feel emotionally blackmailed, and I’m dreading the confron- tation when I get home. This kitten DEAR has taken this dev- astating tragedy to ABBY a new level. How should I handle this? — FAMILY GRIEF DEAR FAMILY GRIEF: While I understand your feelings, handle it by being less hard-nosed about the fact that your daughter didn’t follow protocol by asking permission before bringing home the kitten. Allow her to keep it, and during those times when she can’t be home because she’s working, etc., encourage her to leave the little furball with her boyfriend. Make plain that the crea- ture is — and will be — HER responsibility, meaning she will “Hey, I like your photo and want to know more about you.” This reinforces my decision that I want nothing to do with men. — LEAVE ME ALONE DEAR LEAVE ME ALONE: And your question is? If you are asking me to validate a decision you made out of frustration after a year of terrible luck, I can’t in good conscience do that. We can’t run from life because we are afraid of the pain of being open. That is the coward’s choice. If men are showing an interest, allow them to get to know you and vice versa, instead of hiding. Be present and live your life in situations that include available people, which sometimes yields better results than the pressure of online dating. DEAR ABBY: The world seems bleak to many of us who are self-quarantined. I ordered quarts of ice cream from a local ice cream company, picked them be responsible for feeding, vet bills, litter box, etc. And, most important of all, try not to fall in love with it because when your daughter leaves, Kitty will be going with her. DEAR ABBY: I am a straight female. I have been divorced for 10-plus years and recently decided, after five years of trying to attract a new man through online dating, that I want to be single and celibate for the rest of my life. Literally days after I wrote the decision in my journal, guys are coming at me out of the wood- work, chatting me up, even giving unsolicited hugs. I’m bewildered. I subscribed to a dating site for a full-year membership and got not one single reply to any of my messages. Not one! I also tried a different dating site, where my friend met her spouse. It yielded crickets. No man ever messaged me to say, up at the store with coolers and ice packs in my car and delivered them to the front doors of several friends. As I was driving away, I called and told them to check their porch. They were all sur- prised and pleased to have a little pick-me-up for their day. Last night, one of these friends dropped off cinnamon rolls. She knocked and left. She wanted them to be at our house for break- fast today. Neither of these were big, expensive items, but they brought a smile when there isn’t much to smile about these days. — PAY IT FORWARD DEAR PAY IT: Comfort food comes in many forms — ice cream, baked goods of every variety, chocolate. And it’s all the more tasty when shared among friends as you have described. All of these quick fixes work, at least for a little while. I am now trying to repent from my torrid affair with pralines ‘n’ cream ice cream. News of the Weird Japanese space officials eager to analyze asteroid samples TOKYO — Japanese space officials said they are excited about the return of a capsule that landed safely in the Austra- lian Outback on Sunday, Dec. 6, while carrying soil samples from a distant asteroid, and that they are eager to begin analyzing the “treasure” inside. The capsule’s delivery by Japan’s Hayabusa2 spacecraft completes its six-year sample-re- turn mission and opens the door for research into finding clues to the origin of the solar system and life on Earth. “We were able to land the treasure box” onto the sparsely populated Australian desert of Woomera as planned, said Yuichi Tsuda, Hayabusa2 project manager at the Japan Aerospace Exploration Agency, or JAXA, adding that the capsule was in perfect shape. “I really look for- ward to opening it and looking inside.” The capsule will be packed in a container as soon as its prelim- inary treatment at an Australian lab is finished and brought back to Japan this week, Satoru Naka- zawa, a project sub-manager, said during an online news con- ference from Woomera. Hayabusa2 left the asteroid Ryugu, about 180 million miles from Earth, a year ago. After it released the capsule on Saturday, Dec. 5, it set off on a new expe- dition to another distant asteroid. Tsuda said Hayabusa2’s successful completion of its inter-planetary round trip is the world’s first and that he hoped Japan Aerospace Exploration Agency via AP, File A member of the Japan Aerospace Exploration Agency retrieves a capsule from Hayabusa2 in Woomera, southern Australia, Sunday, Dec. 6, 2020. A Japanese capsule carrying the first samples of asteroid sub- surface successfully landed in the remote Australian Outback, completing a mission to provide clues to the origin of the solar system and life on Earth. to use the expertise gained in future planetary exploration, possibly Japan’s MMX mission to Mars’ moons beginning in 2024. Scientists say they believe the samples, especially ones taken from under the asteroid’s sur- face, contain valuable data unaf- fected by space radiation and other environmental factors. They are particularly interested in organic materials in the sam- ples to find out how they are dis- tributed in the solar system and related to life on Earth. “And then the sample will start to tell its stories and reveal to us some wonderful signs about how water arrived on our Earth and how we even may weather samples will be handled in clean chambers to avoid any impact on the samples. Initial research is planned in the first six months, and the samples will be distrib- uted to NASA and other key international research groups, with about 40% stored for future technological advancement to resolve unanswered questions. More than 70 JAXA staff had been working in Woomera to pre- pare for the sample return. They set up satellite dishes at several locations in the target area inside the Australian Air Force test field to receive the signals. The pan-shaped capsule, about 40 centimeters (15 inches) in diameter, was found inside the planned landing area and have been formed, such as our organics, carbon-based animals, humans and plants,” said Megan Clark, head of the Australian Space Agency, who was also at the news conference. The return of the capsule with the world’s first asteroid subsur- face samples comes weeks after NASA’s OSIRIS-REx space- craft made a successful touch- and-go grab of surface samples from the asteroid Bennu. China, meanwhile, announced recently that its lunar lander collected underground samples and sealed them within the spacecraft for return to Earth, as space devel- oping nations compete in their missions. JAXA officials said the Ryugu AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 40/49 Kennewick 37/48 St. Helens 38/45 35/40 32/38 39/45 37/49 Condon SUN MON TUE WED A bit of late- night snow A rain or snow shower Mostly cloudy A little wintry mix Low clouds 26 37 24 38 22 37 28 40 28 Eugene 4 0 4 39/51 40 28 39 35 42 37 3 0 2 La Grande 26 38 30 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 3 0 24 37 30 Comfort Index™ 3 44 35 4 1 5 ALMANAC THURSDAY EXTREMES TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Thursday Low Thursday High: 85° Low: -5° Wettest: 0.66” 44° 14° 40° 16° 43° 20° PRECIPITATION (inches) Thursday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date 0.00 0.00 0.32 3.22 9.49 0.00 0.03 0.62 16.04 15.52 0.05 0.14 1.08 33.93 21.83 HAY INFORMATION SUNDAY 50% S at 10 to 20 mph 0.4 0.06 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Friday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 8% of capacity 32% of capacity 45% of capacity 24% of capacity 24% of capacity 43% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Thursday) Grande Ronde at Troy Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder Burnt River near Unity Umatilla River near Gibbon Minam River at Minam Powder River near Richland OREGON High: 51° Low: 6° Wettest: 0.29” Brookings Burns Florence WEATHER HISTORY AGRICULTURAL INFO. Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration Zapata, Texas Jackson, Wyo. Phoenix, Ariz. An arctic wind surged deep into the South on Dec. 12, 1962. The temperature at Greensboro, N.C., failed to get above 22 degrees, tying the record for the lowest maximum temperature there in December. SUN & MOON SAT. Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset 7:23 a.m. 4:10 p.m. 4:51 a.m. 2:51 p.m. SUN. 7:24 a.m. 4:10 p.m. 6:12 a.m. 3:30 p.m. MOON PHASES 869 cfs 2 cfs 10 cfs 78 cfs N.A. 60 cfs New Dec 14 First Dec 21 Full Dec 29 Last Jan 6 20/34 25/38 27/43 Florence 47/53 25/38 Beaver Marsh 27/37 Roseburg Powers Brothers 39/49 Coos Bay 44/49 Burns Jordan Valley 20/35 Paisley 21/39 Frenchglen 24/37 30/39 Hi/Lo/W 49/40/r 42/29/sn 38/27/c 51/42/r 35/20/sn 52/40/r 50/37/r 28/20/sf 38/32/c 51/42/r 38/30/c 40/36/sh 38/32/sn 38/27/c 33/29/sn 39/31/sn 39/27/r 41/24/c Hi/Lo/W 50/41/r 45/27/c 37/25/pc 51/42/pc 37/15/pc 54/41/pc 49/39/r 30/17/sn 41/30/sf 50/40/pc 43/31/c 44/36/c 41/28/c 38/23/c 37/25/c 43/29/c 37/24/pc 38/18/c Grand View Arock 19/39 19/38 Lakeview 24/41 McDermitt 18/35 RECREATION FORECAST SUNDAY REGIONAL CITIES City Astoria Bend Boise Brookings Burns Coos Bay Corvallis Council Elgin Eugene Hermiston Hood River Imnaha John Day Joseph Kennewick Klamath Falls Lakeview Diamond 21/36 23/37 Klamath Falls Shown is Sunday’s weather. Temperatures are Saturday night’s lows and Sunday’s highs. MON. Boise 26/38 Fields Medford SUN. 21/35 Silver Lake 29/39 38/46 47/51 Juntura 19/35 43/53 Brookings Ontario 23/37 26/39 Chiloquin Grants Pass Huntington 19/36 27/42 Oakridge 9/28 23/36 Seneca Bend Elkton Council 26/37 John Day 31/46 Sisters 45/52 Comfort Index takes into account how the weather will feel based on a combination of factors. A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. 23/38 Baker City Redmond 47/53 Halfway Granite 35/50 Newport 45/50 38 35 28/38 37/46 38/49 44/51 40 28 0 Corvallis Enterprise 24/37 26/38 Monument 29/38 Idanha Salem TONIGHT 0 Elgin 28/38 La Grande 28/37 Maupin 4 27/36 Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg Lewiston 28/40 Hood River 27/36 TIllamook Comfort Index™ Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2020 Walla Walla 30/39 Vancouver 36/45 41/50 Baker City retrieved by a helicopter team from JAXA. Hayabusa2 released the cap- sule Dec. 5 from 36,700 miles away in space, sending it toward Earth. About 12 hours after the release, the capsule reentered the atmosphere at 75 miles away from Earth, seen as a fireball cutting across the night sky. For Hayabusa2, it’s not the end of the mission. It is now heading to a small asteroid called 1998KY26 on a journey slated to take 11 years one way, for possible research into plan- etary defense, such as finding ways to prevent meteorites from hitting Earth. Since its Dec. 3, 2014, launch, the Hayabusa2 mission has been fully successful. It touched down twice on Ryugu despite the asteroid’s extremely rocky sur- face, and successfully collected data and samples during the 1½ years it spent near Ryugu after arriving there in June 2018. In its first touchdown in Feb- ruary 2019, it collected surface dust samples. In a more chal- lenging mission in July that year, it collected underground sam- ples from the asteroid for the first time in space history after landing in a crater that it created earlier by blasting the asteroid’s surface. Asteroids, which orbit the sun but are much smaller than planets, are among the oldest objects in the solar system and therefore may help explain how Earth evolved. Ryugu in Japanese means “Dragon Palace,” the name of a sea-bottom castle in a Japanese folk tale. — Associated Press City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla SUN. MON. Hi/Lo/W 40/33/sf 48/41/r 32/27/sn 46/37/r 51/43/r 47/38/r 37/26/c 38/31/sn 36/30/sn 45/41/r 53/42/r 46/30/sn 49/41/r 49/42/r 35/29/sf 38/35/sn 33/31/sn 36/32/sn Hi/Lo/W 42/32/sn 47/43/r 36/26/c 44/34/pc 49/42/r 48/40/r 38/22/pc 41/31/c 42/33/c 48/40/r 53/41/pc 44/28/c 48/42/pc 50/41/c 34/28/c 42/34/c 37/27/sn 38/31/c Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE Snow, 1-3” Snow, 3-6” 30 17 34 23 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Snow, 1-3” Snow, 1-2” 33 28 34 21 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK A bit of snow Snow, 1-2” 30 19 31 28 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Snow, 1-2” Snow and sleet 33 29 36 31 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK Cloudy Rain/snow shower 37 24 38 30