COFFEE BREAK 8B — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD FRIDAY, DECEMBER 6, 2019 Lonely husband gives more than he’s getting from wife Surprising 1st results from sun-skimming spacecraft NASA DEAR ABBY: My wife and I married in tasks such as vacuum and mop the com- our early 40s. I have given my all to her, but I mon areas. I genuinely thought I was being have always felt underappreciated. considerate by going above and beyond. I always wanted to be a father, but she When they returned, they seemed shocked didn’t want to have kids. After we were togeth- and even slightly offended, and made jokes er for a few years, she changed her mind, so we about how I must think they are messy. At decided to try for a child and were surprised the time, it seemed fi ne, but I understand to discover after only a week of trying that we now it may have been misinterpreted. were pregnant. A few months Did I cross a boundary, ago, we were blessed with our and should I avoid doing this DEAR beautiful, healthy daughter. in the future? How should I ABBY My wife had diffi culty with apologize? I feel terrible for breastfeeding, so she decided offending them. to stop and solely bottle-feed. — CLEANING’S I have been supportive of her decision, but MY THING she still feels sad and guilty about it. I have DEAR C.M.T.: Stop beating yourself up done all I can to encourage and comfort her, and ASK your friend if she was offended but she just brushes me off. that you mopped and dusted while you were I love my wife with all that I am, but I housesitting. If the answer is yes, apolo- don’t feel loved in return. Since we started gize. And when you do, explain that you dating, she has always called me “Babe.” are somewhat of a “neatnik” and thought Now she calls me by my fi rst name. I tell they would be pleased to come home and her I love her every day, but she hasn’t said fi nd fewer chores needing to be done. If it back since the baby was born. She also she’s truly offended, you won’t be asked to doesn’t say good night when she goes to bed. housesit again, but I have a strong hunch We haven’t kissed in almost two months. I you will be. receive no affection from her; she never even touches me. I don’t care about not having sex, DEAR ABBY: I am a naturally thin young but she won’t even touch my arm or try to woman. Oftentimes, especially when I’m hold my hand. I feel alone and lonely in my working in offi ces with older women, my own home. What can I do to change things? co-workers comment on their dissatisfaction — HEARTSICK HUSBAND with their weight and how they wish their DEAR HUSBAND: Tell your wife what body could be more like mine. you have written. She may be feeling over- To be honest, I don’t equate thinness with whelmed and exhausted from taking care of beauty or fat with ugliness. But when I try a brand-new baby, or suffer from a common to tell these women I think they are beautiful condition called postpartum depression. (It’s as they are, it’s received with suspicion, as if sometimes referred to as the “baby blues” for they think I don’t mean what I say. How can a reason.) Urge her to discuss how she has I respond to those who are unhappy with been feeling with her OB/GYN because, with their weight without sounding insincere? I medical help, the condition is treatable. Please don’t want to hurt anybody’s feelings. don’t wait because the sooner this is dealt — THIN IN FLORIDA with, the better it will be for all three of you. DEAR THIN: When your co-workers compliment you about your fi gure, smile DEAR ABBY: I recently housesat for a and say thank you. Period. If they express friend and her family while they were on va- dissatisfaction with their appearance, do not cation because they needed someone to water allow yourself to be drawn into the conver- their plants and take out their dog. Cleaning sation. You can’t alleviate their insecurities; is a favorite pastime of mine, so while I was they haven’t believed you when you tried. there, I did some tidying up. I did not enter Because the subject makes you uncomfort- any of their bedrooms and only did small able, try changing the topic to another one. weather By Marcia Dunn The Associated Press CAPE CANAVERAL, Fla. — NASA’s sun-skimming spacecraft, the Parker Solar Probe, is surprising scien- tists with its unprecedented close views of our star. Scientists released the fi rst results from the mission Wednesday. They observed bursts of energetic particles never seen before on such a small scale as well as switchback-like reversals in the out-fl owing solar magnetic fi eld that seem to whip up the solar wind. NASA’s Nicola Fox compared this unexpected switchback phenomenon to the cracking of a whip. “They’re striking and it’s hard to not think that they’re somehow important in the whole problem,” said Stuart Bale of the Univer- sity of California, Berkeley, who was part of the team. Researchers said they also fi nally have evidence of a dust-free zone encircling the sun. Farther out, there’s so much dust from vaporizing comets and asteroids that one of 80 small viewfi nd- ers on one instrument was pierced by a grain earlier this year. “I can’t say that we don’t worry about the spacecraft. I mean, the spacecraft is going through an environ- ment that we’ve never been before,” Fox said. Launched in 2018, Parker has come within 15 million miles of the sun and will get increasingly closer — within 4 million miles — over the NASA/The Associated Press This image taken from video animation provided by NASA, shows fl ips in the direction of the magnetic fi eld embedded in the solar wind that fl ows out from the Sun, as detected by the NASA’s Parker Solar Probe’s FIELDS instrument. next six years. It’s completed three of 24 orbits of the sun, dipping well into the corona, or upper atmosphere. The goal of the mission is to shed light on some of the myster- ies surrounding the sun. Parker will sweep past Venus on Dec. 26 for the sec- ond gravity-assist of the $1.5 billion mission and make its fourth close solar encounter in January. The fi ndings in the jour- nal Nature were made dur- ing a relatively quiet phase of solar activity. “We’re just starting to scratch the surface of this fascinating physics,” said Princeton University’s David McComas, the chief scientist of one of the space- craft’s instruments. 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Over the summer, Fox shared these early results with solar astrophysicist Eugene Parker, 92, professor emeritus at the University of Chicago for whom the space- craft is named. He expressed excitement — “wow” — and was keen to be involved. It’s the fi rst NASA spacecraft to be named after a person still alive. Parker attended its launch last year from Cape Canaveral. City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla SAT. SUN. 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