4A | WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 30, 2020 | APPEAL TRIBUNE Bruce and Juanice Cartwright pose with grandson Colton Evers in their home in Salem. Colton returned home after serving a year in Somalia with the Oregon National Guard. BRIAN HAYES / STATESMAN JOURNAL 2020 Continued from Page 3A their shoes. I can't imagine the anguish of having to give up such a loving dog. I wish I could tell them that Ruby will have a good life and will be well cared for and loved so they don't worry. Even though we now have twice the vet bills, muddy feet and dog poop to deal with, our family also has twice the uncondi- tional dog love which all dog lovers know is priceless. — Judy VanValkenberg home studio! — Christine Wilson New life Had a baby boy. — Bethany Jones Getting published My family survived a Covid infection with no lingering health issues; and I had a short story published in an an- thology which was just recommended in a Washington Post column. — Adam Gallardo A new life in the garden We moved from Phoenix to Salem in January. Despite COVID, we are beyond thrilled to be here, gardening, spending every day of the spring and summer in our gardens. We absolutely love our new life here. — Janet Miller A life together Celebrated 45th wedding anniversa- ry. — Alice Berntson A new home Due to mobility issues, it became in- creasingly difficult for my husband, Jim, and me to live in a two-story house and keep up with the work that a three-acre yard requires. In February of this year, we moved to an independent retirement unit in Bonaventure of Salem. If we had not moved when we did, we would have been all alone to quarantine, face the wildfires, smoke and poor air quality. The staff at Bonaventure work very hard to keep us virus free and take care of our needs. Moving here was the best thing that happened to us this year!!! — Jane Mehlschau Rich Galvez says he and his wife Janet (and rescue dog Lexi) are most grateful for their daughter Adrianne's pregnancy and move to Salem. COURTESY OF RICH GALVEZ Enjoying the empty nest A milestone my wife and I recognized this last fall was that we are “empty- nesters.” Even though our children are now adults, we are very grateful that we are their parents and that they are still part of our lives. It is also gratifying for my wife and me to be able to continue sharing our “nest” together for 35 years as of our wedding anniversary on Dec. 21. — Brent Mobley-Oorthuys The love of Ruby Tuesday I found a lost dog sitting alone on a gravel road far from any houses at the end of September. I posted her picture on numerous lost dog local and national websites, community FB pages, had her checked for a chip, called local vets and shelters, and drove to all the houses in the surrounding area trying to find her owners. No one ever came forward. I kept her while I was looking for her own- ers and tended to her health issues. Dur- ing that time, we fell in love and I named her Ruby Tuesday after the old Rolling Stone Song as the first two lines fit well, "She would never say where she came from." "Yesterday don't matter if it's gone." I am trying to not judge Ruby's previous owners as I have not walked in See 2020, Page 3B Brenth Mobley-Oorthuys said he and his wife are grateful in 2020 for their children, their now-empty nest and for 35 years of marriage. COURTESY OF BRENT MOBLEY-OORTHUYS