Commentary Americans must be open to listening Guest commentary America is suffering a slow and terrible illness — paralysis by polarization. It is as if our society has split into parallel realities, living side by side in different worlds, unwilling to converge. But not unable. By redis covering that the common inter ests of a nation’s people always out number and outweigh the uncommon ones, we can then be gin to reverse our worsening paral ysis before it becomes terminal. We know our uncommon inter ests: the doctrine of pre-emptive war, the rights of the unborn and the degree of separation desired be tween church and state. Of course there are others, though none so bitterly divisive. We must also recognize and cele brate our common interests: the passion for our country, the generos ity for helping others, the concern for the future of our children and the desire for peace in the world. In some ways, our bounty is our curse. In this land of plenty, we are not forced to work together out of neces sity or thrift. Our ignorance of each other misleads us into assigning easy categorizations: “liberal” or “conser vative,” “radical” or “war monger.” We paint those who disagree with us into absurdly extreme comers in our mind, and never allow them to come out and be heard. Americans are thus increasingly paying lip service to the ideals of democracy. A democracy invites and tolerates the clash of opinions and understands its obligation to search for common ground. In deed, a democracy knows its very survival depends upon it. A democ racy recognizes that there are intel ligent people supporting each side of every issue. Every truth has an answering truth. There exists no issue facing us truly as simple as a choice between two absolutes: “good” versus “evil,” “right” versus “wrong,” “for us or against us.” Finding common ground requires, first and foremost, releasing our anger; it must be let go, it is doing us no good. The clenched fist is the extension of the closed mind. Common ground is reached only through a willingness to listen with a mind that is open. By listening, one permits the possibility of being listened to. Discussions must be engaged with positive discourse, and a mutual in tention to reveal perspectives not previously seen. Perspectives must be offered in the manner that a teacher explains a new concept, not as a soldier defends a barricade. Facing an uncertain future, Americans must not confuse secu rity with peace. Authentic peace is attainable only be searching for common ground and discovering our common interests. The time available is not infinite — we must begin our journey today. Todd Huffman is a pediatrician in Eugene. Auditions On June 9 and 10, University Theatre will audition actors for two productions that will rehearse and perform during fall quarter. Call 346-4171 or visit 216 Villard for information regarding scripts and audition appointments. One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest guest director: Rob Urbinati The Dale Wasserman adaptation of the novel by Ken Kesey, to be produced as part of the Ken Kesey Symposium. Urbinati is a free-lance professional based in New York City. There are roles for four women and twelve men, including one very tall, very strong native American man. Desdemona graduate student director: Stephen Rupsch A response to Shakespeare's Othello by Pulitzer Prize-winning Paula Vogel, the author of How / Learned to Drive. There are roles for three women._ university of Oregon Univer/it;) Theatre Before you head home, load your stuff in Shurgard. And get a haircut. $379 UO Summer Special ***Offer includes: 4 months rent for the price of 3, delivery/redelivery to your dorm/off campus location, and FREE Lock. Name_ Address_ City/State/Zip_ Phone Valid with new storage rental only. One coupon per student. STORAGE Student Box Kit SI9.99 INCLUDES: 4 Small Boxes, 4 Medium Boxes, and 1 Roll of Tape. Name._ Address_ City/Slate/Zip_ Phone_ Valid with any other offers. SHURGARD^ STORAGE HP 2""*coming-And that means you II be going. But you don't have to lug everything home with you Store your stuff with Shurgard borage To Co this summer and it will be right here when you set ack next fall. What a relief, eh? And tSh°JS -n6 eXdusive col|ege special y°U more than a few bucks on your storage needs. So sign-up anytime by phone, e-mail, we'l 1 trne*' °f '-80°-Shutgard and we II take care of the rest. Shurgard Storage to Go Mark Saftich Director of Sales (800) 387-0192 marks@shurgard.com www.shurgardreps.com