NEWSROOM: (541)346-5511 E-MAIL: ode@oregon. uoregon.edu ON-LINE EDITION: www.uoregon.edu/~ode EDITOR IN CHIEF Ryan Frank EDITORIAL EDITORS Kameron Cole Stefanie Knowlton As you hustle home for the holiday, take the time to appreciate what you have and remember those with less Opinion Amy Goldhammer Somewhere, a table is set with lace and candles. A mother waits for a child to enter through the door, home from school with bags packed sloppily and 5 pounds of laundry. A puppy is curled up in front of a fire with a 4-year-old in a new taffetta dress, a satin sash tied in a big bow in the back. Her tights are sagging around her ankles. She’s not cold, even though the door is open. Across the street, perhaps in North Dakota, or Chicago, maybe Bora Bora — depends how long the street is — a house looks sad. The snowman in the front has melted and now leans sideways toward the ground. The carrot nose has been taken, perhaps a dinner for someone else. The mother closes the door, 5 pounds of laundry in the front hall way, and the 4-year-old in the taffetta dress howls, because she wasn’t cold and wanted to give the heat she wasn’t using to the out side, because it’s cold. Ana somewnere, someone wisn es they had called that person they knew was alone, because a lover left or someone died. A line of people, huddled as if a family, waiting for a meal of warm bread on this day of thanks, given to them by someone in a hat. And, somewhere, someone sits in front of a candle or two, hugging their knees to their chest, watching raindrops slide down a window pane. The outside air is dark, and it smells like snow. Footsteps below and a person is scavaging through a bin, looking for something to warm a belly, but not a heart. The someone in the window looks away. They’re cold enough already. Thanksgiving. A time in the win try autumn season where friends and family gather around a table, enjoying each other’s company and rekindling old memories. A table fdled with food and wine, and laughter echoing through the house. However, at this time of giving thanks, people should remember that not all are as fortunate and blessed. Many find themselves alone, cold and hungry. \ At Thanksgiving time, especial- J ly, people should consider what they can do to help. Buying extra things at the grocery store to con tribute to food banks is a simple but significant step people can take, or taking time out of the vaca tion to go help at a soup kitchen or meal distribution center. Instead of throwing away extra food, donating the leftovers to shel ters or food banks could help pro vide needy families with a Thanks giving meal. Knowing that someone is actually taking the time to care could make a difference in someone’s holiday. For some, being alone at this time of year can bring on depres sion ana lonnness. reopie snouia take into consideration that, at this time particularly, just letting some one know they are cared about could warm a heart. Being in the company of family and friends may add joy and secu rity to the season. Thanksgiving is a time when people should open their hearts and outstretch a hand. People should consider what they can do to help those less fortunate, be thankful that they can help, or at least, realize that not everyone is reminiscing with friends and fami ly, or sitting by a fire in a new dress with a big bow in the back. Amy Goldhammer is a columnistfor the Emerald. Her views do not neces sarily represent those of the newspa per. Give to m /JEEDY - IJOTH $\PE$ HAVE BEEN FAB APART PUT I EXPECT TO achieve a FA'R 5ETTLFMENT BETWEEN THE TWO J|PE5. J ju$T AS Joon AS Pauia Jones amp I CAN A6REC on A FIGURE.. 1 r ...AND, OF COURSE, were in bad shaft on the G.O.P $IDE