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gate courtship industry o( personal ads. doling set
vito and cvhcrdating
Poatmortem
Ihis u pare of die future of dating. sas Rodney
M < He and Sails \ i.loyd. iiilhon of the book
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" Lhe initial event* of courtship may be changing
from informal introduction* h* one * friend* to for
mat *er*ue* ihai nui injurmrc the chances of com
patibility the* *a*
C ate and lloyd make several other prediction*,
among them a rise in the age at fust marriage
another **a*c of *c»ual liberalism (once AI1)S is
cured or more reliably prevented) and still more
etjuahts between the sect *
Sounds like -*»..
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were on track And, it seems. ihjliow w«itrri run
deep i >r something like that < asual dating now i-,
paving the wav lor more solid and equitable reia
tionships later, saw Ball State s Adams
People want more emotional relationships, she
saw " 1 hev want more earing on both parts but
haven t been conditioned lor it Again, Adams sees
prescribed gender roles as a harrier
Bur we tc the ones crumbling those barriers and
coming at relationships on more espial terms
I hat makes lor a deeper, more in depth, more
interesting relationship, Adams saw
And that, conveniently, concurs with ( ate and
l loyd s ultimate conclusion
Wc bailor chat the vouplr it! remain a on
nur> unit, and that love, together no*, qualify time,
good t,omniunH4tn>n and mutual I v satisfying sen*
ahtv will renutn important theme* m our vulture
through the nc*t ventufv
I’ll havii what having
Who tales it Hanncl and ( bucks have replaced
( hand and tunn1 (’ollcgr is like an allvou van cat
cafeteria Sure vou could go to a fancy restaurant
and order the spct tails hut at the valetetia. vou van
wear your boxer* and a ripped 1 shirt, and the
chon.cs are cndleu Ytu» van nm and experiment
philosophizing and philandering one semester,
vtuvlvmg and buddvmg the nett, a term ot learning
and losing, and so on You might devidr to move
on to the hire rnignon Hut hey, there s nothing
wrong with thepherd s pic. cither
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