r (• 1 urp %m«)l onon «nd ttrnr* l *p*rr% 5/27/93) Campus V/ SUBSHOP 1225 Alder 345-2434 to HOflgY HILL PARKS SHABAZZ Continued from Page 1 do thing* — become the mayor, save a business, or whatever — then people will try to take credit for what you've done. So you have to validate yourself every step of the way until other peo ple are smart enough to aee your value." Self-validation is not only important for personal growth, but societal change as well, she said. It's the first step in a cycle of change that affects ourselves, others’ attitudes, others' behaviors and finally society as a whole. "We're inundated with classism. racism, gender bias, but at the same time, we're not preaching enough about loving our neighbor," Shabazz said. "So are we psychologically prepared to deal with diversity?" Shabazz encouraged the women to actively "speak out and speak up." rather than suffer through crises with silence and dignity as they did in the past. An audience member asked Shabazz about her husband and commented that he would surely he very proud of the work she has done. 'Ten sure my husband would in* proud of me." Shabazz said. "He used to say things to me like, Why did you do that? If I wasn't here to take care of you My God!' But really. I didn't have to do anything then I do now Times change. "A lot of people said, ’She's so strong.' But 1 cried all the time.” Shabazz said "I had friends of many ethnic groups who helped me. I honestly don't think I've recovered yet. But I ain here before you. and Pro grateful. So find the good in life, and keep it. Find the love in life and embrace it." QUINDLEN Continued from Page 1 changed the world enough to make It radically different, hut not enough to make it work.” she said. Quindlen. who writes a twice weekly column called "Public & Private.” said what most people think of as "women's issues" will become of national impor tance because they are relevant to everyone, not just women “Why do we denigrate those matters we consider female?" she asked. "Women's issues ... am the cutting-edge issues of our time, and we happen to be the experts." Quindlen devoted most of her speech to discussing c hild care as one of the women's issues the United States needs to deal vs ith. "We need to finally get seri ous about child care in this country," she said Quindlen said Hillary Rod ham Clinton should be responsi ble for making i hild care a civil right, like it is in other countries. "We havo missed child (.are as a civil right, as it is in every other civilized nation in the world." she said. Quindlen said women too often blame themselves for the lack of child care because they feel selfish for having a career and not being able to care for their children on their own. She cited the withdrawal of attorney general nominee Zoe Baird ns a perfect example of what mothers must resort to if they want good, affordable child care. Baird withdrew her nomina tion after hearing the public's discontent over her employment of illegal aliens for the care of her children. Quindlen suggested women reach out to young men so future generations will not be burdened with the current level of inequality "If the next generation doesn't educate the men. the problems we’re facing now will not change," she said. "Wo can say no more Tailhooks, but not without the men We can say no more Spurr Posse, but not with out the men." Crescent Days Are here! May 13th Mav 13th-ART1STS ATWORKI 12-5 Using Crescent Papers & Boards • JanCieloha MuftHVteda • Matt Miller Professional Mat Cutting • AJan Hafleck Architectural Models on Display • Rex McGrow Comic Book lustrating Ben Edwards from Crescent wfl be here to give Information and answer questions. *25 § *50 Crescent GIT Certificate Dfawlngl f POETS ALIVE ! CONTEST First, second & third prizes Send SASH to: 2 Coburg Rd #10 Eugene 97401 with registration fee of $5 / Tri-Annual event % Gof a Deadline? FOTO FLASH can help you! We can process your E-6 slide film in just one hour! 18th St Willanu*tte 484-6116 •tiutont discount* avail* 1 ' RIDE SHARE Traveling soon? Need a ride? Offering a ride? Rule Share brings together people needing and offering rules any where in Oregon or throughout the country For more information call 345-7600.