"You don 't have to be sick to get better." FALL EDI I ION 1992 Time Management Equals Less Stress By Irish Herhrr As the alarm clock rang, Tracy rolled over, hardly feeling as though she had even slept In fact, lately she never felt rested and had problems eating and getting organized. In the shower, Tracy began to plan out her day in her head. She suddenly felt panicked and overwhelmed. How think the opportunity a gre.it way to meet new people. The difference in in how a person perceives Ins or her feelings and how that person deals with these feelings. According to Alan Lakicr. author of How to Get Control of Your Time and Your Life, making a list and checking it twice will really pay Stress is a matter of perception...how a per son perceives his or her feelings and how that person deals with these feelings. could she possibly accomplish all that she needed to in one day— twenty-four hours? Throughout her classes Tracy’s mind wandered and when her friends were telling her personal stories, she wouldn’t remember what they had said. Tracy felt stressed out! Have you ever felt this way? When stress takes over a person’s life he or she often feels powerless, anx ious and trapped. Ultimately, this may lead a person to feel very unhappy. Many times a person feels stressed because of inner feelings, not exter nal factors. Thus, stress is a matter of perception, so people differ in their abilities to deal with stress. I may find that having two interviews for jobs in one day to be stressful, whereas my friend may actually off. Put “To Do" at the top of your list and write down the tilings you would like to accomplish for the day or week. Next, prioritize them by assigning As, B’s and C s to focus attention on the really important things that must get done. You will feel a sense of accomplishment as you cross things off your list. More importantly, however, by writing these things down on a piece of paper it will take these worries off your mind Instead of mulling over what needs to be done, you may refer to your list when you have a few minutes before class starts or during a couple of free hours in the afternoon. How does this relate to stress? Okay—it’s a valid question. Since stress is a matter of perception, by writing down and organizing your Coping With Stress Looking for Adventure Play and Fitness thoughts, your lile may seem lew hectic, out of control or overwhelm iiij;. Even big projects can be broken down into the As, B’s and ( s and finished over a matter ol sseeks. It a big interview is coming up, research some interview tips and questions and write them down on a piece ol paper. Whenever you Icel yourself thinking about it, pull out the piece ol paper. When the piece ol paper gets put away, so do your anxieties and lears about the interview. Tension and stress can be partly accredited to a feeling of lack of con trol in one’s life It's important to cut out the things in your life that do not make you happy. A busy schedule seems much lighter when you’re doing things that you enjoy. If there’s something that American College Health Associa mm explains, "The extra burst of adrenaline that helps you finish your final paper, win at sjmuis or meet any other challenge is positive stress. It’s a short term physiological tensing that subsides when the challenge has been met, enabling you to relax and carry on normally. However, if you cant return to a relaxed state, this stress becomes neg ative I he changes in your body (increased heart rate, high blood pressure) start to take their toll on bodily systems and often lead to mental exhaustion and physical ill ness It is like a rubber band which may stretch and stretch, but at a cer tain point just snaps. If you feel "stressed out, stop by the UO Counseling Center and talk By writing down and organizing your thoughts, your life may seem less hectic, out of control or overwhelming... has to be done like writing a huge paper or dusting your apartment— put it at the top of your “To Do" list. You’re much more likely to get it done, and you’ll feel better when you can move on to the things that you like to do. Realistically, without some amount of stress, most of us wouldn't get a whole lot done. As the to a counselor about some relaxation techniques, or talk to a friend and try to get things into perspective. So the next time someone asks if you're okay or tells you that you look really stressed, take a break, relax and ask yourself if your situation is some thing to worry over. You'll be better able to view the situation more clearly. The Bottom Line Need Some Practi cal EXPERIENCE FOR THE 'REAL' WORLD? Peer Health Advising, HEP 410 and 510, offers practical experient e in public speaking, facilitat ing groups, organizing pro motion projects and writing for the Well Now. You must apply, so drop by Health Education at the j Student Health Center. For • more information call 346- : 4456. ! Stress Letting go of the ECO elevates stress and allows you to focus on the prot ess not the outcome. Seeing things as they are, without judgement and attachment, gives you per mission to proceed with clarity. Be mindful of your every ac tion and you will not be surprised by any reaction. Get Off To A Healthy Start Drop by the Health Eduction Center for ac cess to a variety of health books, or make an appointment with a Peer Health Advisor who spe cializes in health educa tion issues or have your c holestoral level checked for free. Stress Release Lit* on your bark, palms up. Breath deeply. Begin by tensing your legs for 10 seconds. Kelax the leg must les, breath deeply. Tense your trunk, arms and hands. Kelax, breath deeply. Tense your neck and fare. Kelax, breath deeply.