OUT Continued from Page i are aiming out for ltin first lima often worry aliout what their families will think "It fain lie a lot to boar," he said "Students wonder. ‘Are my parents going to write me off or stop paying my tui tion’’ It's not just a fantasy fear Sometimes that’s the re ality ” Coming out is a lifelong and even daily process, and coming out to yourself is the first step, said Jackie Bal/.er, University coordinator of educational and support ser vice’s. Bailor's Job is lo raise awareness on campus about gay, lesbian and bisexual is sues. "Il can happen ai any time." she said "Someone can be married for 15 years and wake up one duy and de cide she's a lesbian and get a divorce." B a Iz o r said ovnryone comes out in their own way and at their own time "There are some people shouting il from the rooftops and some people sharing it with three close friends," she said ET ALS mkktiaos Fhe A*»an and Pa* dU Amarst an Htwdaaat I'nioa will have a m«r*mg in lb* > ounsabng ■ wiinr lomilii at 0 for information, tall >4114142 Alpha Phi Omega will hara a mawung tonight at S in the dining itwm near the (*dar Rooms in lha KMl Students erf (oh* HutWJmg RrM^aa will have « moating In lha Johnson Mail «*>nfc*mma room today from 11 K> a m lo U VI j* m for Information All woman atr w**li <>m« KKI.H.K IN I Hr ( alhidw Sewman < .awl at will hava i natv-( Saturday* at S p m Sundays at W a m 11 a m and 7 W p m and dally at V10 p m It is located at IhWi Km«aid Strawi IK# WraUv foundation will begin lit tail uwm HihW study moetjrv^s today at 11 **» a m The Waaiay fuundaUon t* located at 12J© Kincaid $t Meetings arc led fey fjsmj.ua Paster Janet Cromwell Fof Information. rail >4#v 4W*4 mjmjkU-ANKcmjs A. admit* Advising and Student Servsra* will have a wodtht^ today at .1 JQ |j m in 1M Oregon Hail lha topic of the workshop will be ‘ Apjdytng to i-radu#u> Sshoor* and will c over ways to find lha right graduate u hool. when to taka entrain® «*mi and whara to get information on program* for information, tall »4ft 1211 The A mart* an So* aMy «f Magatme Photographers will have a aiido show today at 7 p m in KM) Willamatia The topfe of lha jmaaanuuon will Ha "The Art of Outdoor Photography " Fur mora information, t all 14« AMS'* lknt*ilin* tor tubmitung hi Alt lo (he K mat aid ftont deal, Kh4U Suit* lOO. it noon iho day before /njtet> sUon hi Alt run lha day at rha evenr un/eaa (ha avani r*4«i fU+tm ha/ora noon Auric a* at events with « lianmUon or admission t hsrj/* wiII not ha * j a/Uad »am/w» avents and iho*® uhmiulmi nearesl lha ftuhl it all an data will ha given fwiorlty The K me raid reserve* rha righr to «*f»r for grammar and sryfe W A/s run an a s/*a.a arar/ah/a ha si a Peter DeFazio Les Aucoin LGBA leads awareness days By Chester Allen Emerald Reporter Hop. Los AuCotn and Rep. Peter Do Fazio will lead a group of speakers at noon Friday dur ing a Campus Coming Out Dav rally in the LMU courtyard. Sponsored by the Lesbian, Coy and Bisexual Alliance, {'.umpus Coming Out Days will take place today and Friday “Coming Out Days will holp eradicate the invisibility of guys, lesbians and bisexuals on campus," LOB A co-director Troy Shields said "When peo ple learn how many gays and lesbians there are at the Univer sity, they will rorognize us as people und not someone to halo." Sarah Ross, LOBA co-direc tor, said Campus Coming Out Days is part of the fourth annu al Oi:! 11 National Coming Out Day "We are holding our coming out days Thursday and Friday because the national day is on a Sunday when no one is around the University," Ross suid In addition to Friday's rally, the LUBA Is sponsoring a dis cussion group on coming out to fumilv and friends Thursday at 11:30 a.ttt. in the liMU Ben Lin der Room. Sarah Ross and Troy Shields will join Jackie Balzor, coordinator of educational and support services, on the discus sion panei. Balzor said participating on the panel is very important to her "The purpose of coming out days is to celebrate the struggle and pride of being an out gay, lesbian or bisexual." Balzer said "All of the activities will show the value of diversity in our campus community.” Thursday's events will con clude with a dinner social and showing of a video in the Ben Linder Room. Ross said the dinner will give pooplc on campus a chance to meet each other. "The dinner will give stu dents an opportunity to com municate and tell us what they want the LGBA to do,” Ross said. "It's important that all the now people on campus who are away from homo for the first time make connections and know they are not alono." The video. Love Makes a Family, will explore gay and lesbian family life, Ross said. 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