LIFE AND ART Column Growing up with Ihavotta By Laurel Wissinger • The Breeze James Madison U. I was in fourth grade in 1978 I wore pigtails and striped knee socks, and my favorite possession was a vinyl Holly Hobby lunchbox. "Going out” meant riding my banana-seat bike up and down the street. It was the year that I, like the entire nine-year-old and above pop ulation of North America, fell in love with John Travolta. Suddenly, suburban shopping malls were sponsoring Travolta look-alike contests, retailers had a hard time keeping white polyester suits in stock, and everywhere you went someone was humming a Bee Gees tune. “Saturday Night Fever was the first R-rated movie 1 saw. My friends and I bought tickets for the Disney cartoon showing at the same complex and then walked into the theater where Tony and Stephanie made cine matic history. Never mind that some of the movie’s subtle messages went right over my pre-pubescent head — I was hooked My friends and I spent three weeks memorizing the soundtrack — and then we sang it in exagger ated falsettos everywhere we went One of my friends had to stay after school because she carved “Barry Gibb” on her desk. “Saturday Night Fever,” with its glamorization of casual sex, recre ational drug use and the sometimes seedy side of life, spawned an era. And it was over by the time 1 turned 11. Polyester became a dirty word, John TVavolta pluinmetted from the rank of hunk to wind up somewhere around cheesy, and sex ually transmitted diseases killed promiscuity. We all joke about the whole “Saturday Night Fever” era now, but a quick survey of my friends reveals practically all of them owned the album. And when the university showed the movie here last semester, hun dreds of students showed up to pay homage to — or laugh at — a part of our life we all remember MUSIC Outspoken Yes member and soloist Trevor Rabin talks about his homeland South Africa Page 10 MUSIC Opposites attract Indigo Girls Kmily Suliers and Ann Ray are great friends who achieved critical success Page 10 LIFESTYLES Elderly and students A program offers inexpensive I urns mg for students and companionship for the elderk Page 11 Language isolates international students By Cindy Stevenson ■ College Heights Herald Western Kentucky U. Tamie Nishihara confessed that she couldn't stop crying when she realized she was trapped at Western Kentucky l “I was crying morning to night, 2-1 hours a day," the exchange student from Japan said. “Especially the first week 1 was very sad because 1 was so homesick and I didn't try to understand people." "Most students are nice to me.” she said, but to make friends, the ability to speak fluent English and carry on con versations is essential “1 didn’t expect to have a good close American friend " But after her first week here she met a student who grew to be a terrific friend — although Nishihara said she thinks it’s a "really rare case.” Close friendships between interna tional students and Americans really are the exception here, said Ronald Eckard, interim international student adviser '‘The rule is international students have difficulty meeting with and open mg up with Americans," he said “It’s not all the Americans’ fault. It's a combma turn of all those cultural tilings” — espe cially language. “International students look for the same goals — friendship, understand ing communication, said Kristine Bernhard, a sophomore from Guatemala "We re not only homesick, we’re country sick. “We can understand the English," she said, "but sometimes it’s hard with Americans when they lock their ears" and don't try to understand mternation al students "It’s easier to make friends with other internationals because they’re all going MWf TECUAMOtN .HT - - hN Vi Tamie Nishihara has made a close American friend, something most foreign students don t do through the same adjustment prob lems," Eckard said Joan Lindsey, international programs and projects administrative secretary, agreed 'They’re in the same boat in the sense that they come from another coun try," she said. "Lots of students say there's no way they can translate what they're think mg. 1 think it all gears to the language more than anything." However, "there have been excep tions,” Eckard said "It depends on the individual" Nishihara and Michelle Ward are one exception. They said they notice their differences but have enjoyed learning from them at school and in Ward’s hometown most weekends. “I'm learning American culture - especially the English," Nishihara said laughing “She's always correct ing my English " Ward said, "1 learn so much about Japan How they express their feelings within the family And we talk about the boyfriend-girlfriend situation." "Me and Michelle is really close friends," Nishihara said '1 always say everything to her and she always says everything to me " Nishihara and her roommate Stephanie (layer have had fun getting to know each other, too "1 had to get used, to her accent," the Henderson junior said “Sometimes she might say a word with an accent different than we do So I’d say, 'Write it down ' Now, it's no prob lem hardly ever We’ve stayed up many nights talking." (layer said she plans to travel to Japan this summer, to visit her friend and learn a new way of life. See INTERNATIONAL, Page 10 Preacher prays for flock — and good grades By Shetron Monson ■ The Daily Helmsman Memphis State l). The new pastor of St. Paul’s Baptist Church pushed the floor waxer along a church corridor. One of the church mem bers turned and said with a chuckle. “You wouldn’t think that was our pastor, now would you?" And he’s right, especially considering the Rev Rickey Harvey is only 25-years old and is a full-time student at Memphis State U. “Times have changed,” Harvey said. “Used to be a time when 25-year-old min isters couldn't get a church You had to be 45 with a big stomach and all that." Harvey said he felt his calling to the | ministry at age 12, and he has been a I pastor since he w as 22.'it was my per j sonal goal to wait until 1 was 30 to I become a pastor, but the Lord would i have it that I'm a successful pastor at ; 25.” Harvey said Harvey said he feels proud to be pas tonngSt Paul’s because large, historical churches usually reach out to pastors from other parts of the country Harvev was elected pastor of the I-JHI--— HIKf MURRAY *Hf » ■ Rf USMAN UFMPr.S STATF , The Rev Rickey Harvey balances his church duties with school. church last fall and has found that being a student, gospel singer, pastor and father has been difficult "I go to school, 1 leave school, 1 come flying here to church." he "aid. "Many time- in m> office I'm doing school work, and at school I’m reading my Bible Being a pastor, a student at MSU and a gospel singer has taken a lot of time away from my family, but it will get better.” However, Harvey, a junior psychology and sociology major, does derive some rest and relaxation on Saturdays, not Sundays from his office television set "1 look forward to sitting here on Saturday and watching the wrestling match. 1 guess it’s my hobby.” One of the most rewarding tilings about being a pastor is ministering to people he knows, Harvey said "Its amazing. I'm pasturing my sixth grade teacher,” he said “I’m pasturing people I knew when I was a little child.” "This is my calling It's all I want to do 1 like the fact that I'm helping people Charles Simms, a church member, said. “Harvey is much older than his age He’s not your typical 25- or 26-year-old Kven though he has a baby face. (lod has given him wisdom beyond his years 1 Ie's a good (lod fearing pastor "One advantage of his age is that he attracts voting people, and young people are the future of our church But be also relates really well to the older people "