NEWS FEATURES By Keenan Harward ■ The Forty Nmer Times U. of North Carolina, Charlotte I’ll never forget the friend I lost whose shocking death is still unexplainable She was a star basketball player in high school, smart, blonde and beautiful She seemed to have everything going for her — a loving family and a rewarding future. On Jan 6, 19H6, Patti committed suicide Only Patti knows why As I look back, I wonder if there was anything I could have done to prevent Patti from stealing that place she made in my heart That thought still frightens me Psychiatrists say everyone has considered suicide as a solution to their problems But, instead of kill ing ourselves, we were able to solve our problems Or maybe the fear of death was larger than those problems. I’ve thought about it When things are going bad for me, I look to my friends and family for help I may not tell them I’m down, or having problems, but I try to let them know I need someone to talk to. Have your friends come to you with some friendly conversation? Did you let them down? Grades, time, peer pressure and personal problems are attacking from every side at once. If someone shows they are hurting, or lonely, talk to them A kind word or a smile may be all they need The following poem was written by a 15-year-old two weeks before he committed suicide. SUICIDE To Santa Claus And Little Sister* Once ...he wrote a poem. And called it Xhops.' Because that was the name of his dog, and that's what it was all about. And the teacher gave him an “A' And a gold star. And his mother hung it on the kitchen door, and read it to all his aunts ... Once ... he wrote another poem. And he called it ‘Question Marked Innocence. * Because that was the name of his grief and that's what it was all about. And the professor gave him an ‘A’ And a strange and steady look. And his mother never hung it on the kitchen door, because he never let her see it Once, at 3 a m. ... he tried another poem .. . And he called it absolutely nothing, because that's what it was all about And he gave himself an ‘A" And a slash on each damp wrist. And hung it on the bathroom door because he couldn't reach the kitchen. By Cathy Collins » USF Oracle U. of South Florida In the dark hours before dawn last April 5, David Harvey Dunn drove his car to U. of South Florida’s (USF) New College Library in Sarasota, walked 300 feet to the shore of Sarasota Bay, doused his clothes with a can of gasoline and set himself on fire. Those close to Dunn were left searching for answers to a real and continuing problem — suicide Suicide is second only to accidental death as the leading cause of death among college students. For every successful suicide, there are 10 unsuccessful attempts, according to a recent USF report. The report, ‘Suicide Among College Students,’ was prepared by Clinical Psychologists Dale Hicks and Marcia Hausman from the USF Counseling Center for Human Development. Suicide rates among college students reflect a combination of developmental and environmental pressures, said Toni Giffin, student director of USF Paraprofessional Counseling Services. According to the report, “Friends, counselors and supervisors need to be sensitive to shifts in mood or behavior patterns, particularly those reflecting disinterest in daily activities or events “ Identification of 'at risk' students, and counseling to assist these students in adapting to college life, seems essential if seriously troubled individuals are to find alternatives to self destructive behavior,” the report concluded. Little sister programs ‘under fire’ due to alcohol abuse, harassment tjy scon uison ■ Western Courier Western Illinois U. After years of allegations concerning sexual harassment and underage drinking, the little sister programs have finally come under fire at North ern Illinois U. The programs have linked mostly younger female students to male fraternities for years, but lately the national trend has been to disband the remaining little sister programs. “Every national fraternity chapter has resolutions and statements against the little sister programs. Most are working with their chapters to phase out these organizations," said Hill Nel son, Student Activities Adviser at West ern Illinois U. “There is evidence that problems of alcohol abuse and sexual harassment frequently are associated with the little sister programs," said Northern Illinois U Vice President .Jon Dalton List year, the National Interfraternity Council, comprised of presidents of all major national fraternities, voted to recom mend banning of little sister programs This spring, at Western Illinois U. (WIU), a task force has been formed to hand out surveys to decide if the prog rams are viewed positively or nega tively. "WIU is lucky they haven't had some of the problems that others have had. We don’t need to wait until we have a problem, we can Ik- proactive in dealing with it before there is a problem,” Nel son said. Paula Kadtke, president of NIU’s Student Government Association, said. "People are getting hurt because orga nizations aren't checking themselves. 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