Women’s center sponsors weekly meetings By Michelle Brence Of the Emerald A small room on the third floor of the EMU offers guidance and support to women. The Women’s Referral and Resource Center, directed by Leah Juniper, Laura Romano and Chris Gonzalez, is “a place for women to get together and talk. The University doesn’t provide that — it's very male oriented,” says Romano. “We’re trying to break down as many barriers as possible bet ween women, because we need to unite if we want to find our strength,” adds Gonzalez. The center sponsors a women’s support group, which will meet at the office every Wednesday from 4 p.m. to 6 p.m. The first meeting last week was met with no public response. Romano, Gonzalez, and practicum student Joanne Hurt, who were all present for the meeting, attributed the lack of participation to people not knowing the center’s location. Approximately 60 percent of Laura Romano the women who take advantage of the center are University students, while the remaining 40 percent are from the Eugene community, Romano and Gon zalez say. They agree that up to 15 women drop by and between 10 and 15 women call in to the center each day. “Most of what we do get are calls for counseling and legal aid.” Romano says. A film festival, a symposium and a series of speakers and workshops are all on the center’s agenda for the 1984-85 academic year. One of the center’s major efforts this year however, w'ill be making the campus a safer place through the Campus Rape Project, Romano says. Through this project the center will attempt to have night classes relocated to more visible areas, and have them of fered as an alternative schedul ing to the same classes offered during the day. The center also plans to organize an escort ser vice operated by women. “It seems somewhat con tradictory. calling strange men to come and protect you from other strange men,” Romano says. The directors of the center have arranged to meet with University Pres. Paul Olum in the near future, to determine what the University’s liability is in rape cases that occur on campus. Brown-bag lunches are held for women who want to visit in the Women’s Referral and Resource Center every Monday. Wednesday and Friday from 11:30 a.m. lo 1:30 p.m. For more information, call the center at 686-3327. The center is located at Room 336, EMU, and is open Monday through Friday from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Continued from Page 1 usually very frightened because they’ve either been witnesses to violent behavior or victims of abuse themselves, says Oldham. ‘'We’re higher than the national average in child abuse,” she adds. College students find themselves victims of haltering too, says Oldham. She estimates 10 percent of the women who come to the shelter are students. “In addition, a University study done a couple of years ago showed dating violence to be pretty darned high,” Oldham Since the first American women’s shelter opened in 1976, the homes have become an alternative for many women who want to make a choice between escaping or re maining in an abusive home. She will become their most deadly weapon. As long as they can make her fall in love. MANE KEATON THE LITTLE DRUMMER GIRL FREE SCREENING DATE: October 16 A GEORGE ROY HILL FILM DIANE KEATON in JOHN LE CARRE'S "THE LITTLE DRUMMER GIRL" YORGO VOYAGIS KLAUS KINSKI Music by DAVE GRUSIN TIME: 8:00 PM LOCATION: Valley River Twin Cinema 1077 Valley River Drive Eugene Executive Producer PATRICK KELLEY Screenplay by LORING MANDEL Based on the novel by JOHN LE CARRE Produced by ROBERT L. 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