Oregon daily emerald. (Eugene, Or.) 1920-2012, August 03, 1982, Page 8, Image 8

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Law school
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feminine types as gentle and compassionate and
the masculine type as assertive and aggressive,
then the system is dominated by masculine
types."
Brought up to be a more "feminine kind of
person,” Rose says she had begun to assert
herself during her undergraduate years, but that
law school beat her back down, brought back
feelings of meekness.
Now that she’s dropped out, she's looking
forward to building back her confidence and
getting what she wants out of her marriage.
"People talk about law school as if it's some big
thing,” says Louise Klaila, 27, of her just-com
pleted first year. A month into the first semester
she discovered she was pregnant with her third
child — she has a boy Dallas, 3, and a girl Addie, 5.
Five days after her last exam of the second
semester she gave birth to another girl, Cody.
It’s a myth that law school is so difficult, Louise
says "People knock themselves out. If you’re
always worried about failure, it’s going to affect
your whole life. You become neurotic. Most
people work at it too hard.”
Last year, her school day — classes and study
time — began with classes at 8:30 a m. and lasted
until 4 p.m. She says she's not competitive,
grades don't matter to her Her undergraduate
school, Antioch College, gives evaluations, not
grades, she points out. She would rather spend
time with her kids than worry about pushing up
her grades a notch
Her husband, Peter, 28, a graduate student in
physics, shares the housework and his wife’s
outlook.
But Louise seems the more aggressive of the
two. “Since we've known each other, she’s been
more career-oriented than me," Peter says. "Of
the two of us, I’m more suited to be a housewife
type, though I still have problems of boredom and
restlessness. But I can foresee me just staying
home and taking care of the kids, whereas I can’t
foresee Louise doing that."
Louise, though, can see compromising with
Peter for the sake of his career. Wherever he finds
post-doctoral work is where she’ll have to find her
first law job, she says. "Realistically, I have to be
more adaptable," she says, adding that physics
jobs are in the big cities. You can’t just go
anywhere and "set up a private physics practice,"
she says
Law school has been rough on their relation
ship only insofar as they have less time to
socialize But, it hasn’t caused any tension, they
say
"We get too tired" taking care of the kids and
studying to feel any tension, jokes Peter
"There are practical disadvantages of a family,
but in reality, there’s something you can’t ex
plain," Peter says When the family has gone on
vacation without him, he's become bored and
unhappy
Tension, for a time, was a problem for Lloyd and
Charlene Woods, married three and one half
years
Lloyd, a journalist, couldn't find a job after the
couple moved here from Florida last summer
Unemployed for six weeks, he thought " What
lawyer is going to be married to a poor
journalist?’ Charlene was just getting into
school and didn't have time to listen to me crying
about being a bum."
Lloyd was desperate for work, he was even
willing to get out of journalism. He applied for jobs
in fields as diverse as insurance and fried chick
en.
When, finally, the Corvallis Gazette-Times hired
him as a copy editor, things began to settle down.
While Charlene is competitive — she studies hard
— that aggressive spirit doesn't cause conflict in
the marriage. "I’ve accepted the fact that she’s
smarter than me,” says Lloyd.
In fact, Lloyd was ,more the motivating force
behind the couple's decision that Charlene attend
taw school.
“What has helped us is that we were both ready
for some changes,” Lloyd says.
When a spouse makes a unilateral decision to
attend law school, that’s often where a marriage
begins to disintegrate, he says.
Before the Woods got married, they both dis
cussed earning advanced degrees. Charlene
says And because she was an undergraduate
when they were first married, they knew about the
demands made upon a student’s time So there
have been “surprises,” she says
Leisure time together has been difficult to find,
but as a law student, after the first semester you
"learn to let law school fit into your life rather than
run your life," Charlene says She has changed
somewhat in her personality — become stronger,
less timid — and has a tendency to be more
short-tempered when school is in session, Lloyd
says
Charlene says that although her personality
was “pretty much formed” before she started law
school, "meeting great people at law school has
sensitized me to political and social issues " She
says she has learned a lot from her fellow students
and as a result she’s become more well-rounded,
less self-centered
"We don’t buy the idea law school breaks up
marriages — it only exacerbates” a process that
has probably already begun, says Charlene.
Karl and Camille "Cammy” Richter, married
eight and one half years, agree. They stress
flexibility as the key to a marriage's survival of law
school.
For instance, with Cammy, 28, studying hard all
day this past year, Karl, 35, had to learn to cook.
"It was nice at the end of the day to take a
break, read and then someone has dinner ready
for you," says Cammy, who developed her inter
est in law while working for the state court system
in Alaska
In their relationship, Cammy is the more ag
gressive and career-oriented partner Karl is the
more creative of the two — he builds furniture.
"I have no hang-ups about Cammy bringing in
more salary than me I'll be disappointed if she
doesn’t," says Karl.
When he first married Cammy, she was tuned
into a traditional role, he adds But Cammy's
views obviously changed over the years. Her
mother warned him that would happen, Karl
jokes
The couple now tends to socialize with other
"non-traditional" couples "The non-law spouses
tell us to knock it off (when the law students talk
shop)," Cammy says "It's refreshing "
"I don't think I'd like to be single and going to
law school It could be lonely and miserable .”
In a marriage in law school, she says, "When
things are not going well, it's good to have
someone to boost you When things are going
well — it’s fun to share."
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