A2   Wednesday, February 12, 2020 The Dalles Chronicle SENIOR NEWS Try these tricks for remembering names How many times have you felt embarrassed because you just met someone and a day later you could not remem- ber their name, no matter how hard you tried? Don’t worry, it happens to folks of all ages. The good news is there are tricks you can use to improve your ability to remember names. The first trick is the foundation of all memory: focus. You can’t remember anything if you don’t first encode it in your brain by paying attention. With names it can be par- ticularly difficult when you meet someone for the first time: you may be anxious or thinking of what to say next instead of focusing on the person’s name. Repetition. When you meet someone, use their name in the first words of your conversation. And then repeat their name several times in the conver- sation. Try “Hello Betty, it’s very nice to meet you Betty. Now, Betty, how long have you worked there?” You’ll just have to explain that you may sound like a dork, but they’re so important you really want to remember their name. Use your other sens- es. See their name by writing it out in order to utilize your visual memory. By using different senses, you can improve your ability to remember. The smell of fresh bread or a particular song can flood me with forgotten memories. Make associations. Associate their name to a physical or personal characteristic. You might also try alliteration, such as “Dollar Dave” or ‘Big Bertha” (or maybe not!) In my case I used rhyming words when I met Doreen in college. I can still remember her name by thinking of “Boring Doreen”—and she wasn’t boring at all. But it worked. Create cues. The more you work at remembering a name, the sooner you will be able to recall it. For example, try cre- ating cues. Make a list of the 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. the present location of Sawyer’s Ace Hardware and Rental (they changed from TrueValue to Ace Hardware in 2018) was previously the site for Safeway. I received Scott correct answers from John McKay Huteson, Cheri Brent, Laura Comini, Lana Tepfer, Ronda people in your book club and Spies, Ron Nelson, Jeanne review it until you have all the Pesicka, Virginia Johnson and Mary Ann Hass, this names memorized. week’s winner of a quilt By using these five tricks, you can improve your ability raffle ticket. to remember names. Then ••• you’ll be able to impress your new friends by remembering Most of you probably their names as they stammer remember the old-school trying to recall yours! desks bolted to the floor with a writing table you could ••• open so you could cram your books and papers inside. The program for the And a pencil or pen slot 2020 Original Courthouse carved along the front edge Regional History Forum on of the top, with a two-inch Saturday, Feb. 15, is “Rufus diameter hole in the front and the Army Camp that right corner. For this week’s Helped End World War II.” “Remember When” question, Cal McDermid, director of what was that hole once used Fort Dalles Museum and for? Email your answer to a Sherman County native, mcseniorcenter@gmail.com, explores the unique settle- ment in Old Wasco and later leave a message at 541-296- 4788 or drop off your answer Sherman County, and the role of Camp Rufus in devel- scratched in the top of an oping technology for bridging Antique Vintage Industrial Double School Desk—which the Rhine. will set you back only $165. ••• Well, it’s been another week trying to keep it straight Clarification from last and narrow. Until we meet week. I became aware that again, as Ernie Sillwell told in addition to conducting the 2020 Census, the Census me, “You don’t miss what you haven’t seen.” Bureau conducts over 100 surveys throughout the ••• country—some of which includes visiting households. “Forgiveness is the fra- So there is a chance you may grance of the violet that clings be visited by someone from fast to the heel that crushed the Census Bureau before it.” April 1 collecting information —George Roemish for one of the other Census from his poem “Forgiveness” Bureau surveys. Still, in this day of scams and scammers, Menu it is good to be cautious. If anything feels suspicious and Meals-on-Wheels dinner you want to verify if the work- served at 12:00 at the Center Thursday (13): Seasoned er or even a mailed survey is legitimate, call 301-763-INFO Chicken Breast (Music - Tom Graff) (4636), 800-923-8282 or the Friday (14): Chicken and regional office in California at 213-314-6500; or go online at Dumplings Monday (17): Salisbury www.ask.census.gov. Steak ••• Tuesday (18): Turkey and Gravy with Mashed Potatoes Sawyer’s TrueValue was Wednesday (19): Pork located where the St. Vincent DePaul Thrift Store is today, Chops Senior Living Wyden to hold town hall Feb. 15 • Jefferson County 10 a.m. Performing Arts Center, 412 U.S. Sen. Ron Wyden Buff St., Madras. will hold a town hall in The Friday, Feb. 21, at Madras Dalles 11 a.m. Saturday, Feb. 15, at the Fort Dalles Readiness Center, 402 E Scenic Drive. Wyden will also hold town halls this month in Tillamook, Lincoln and Jefferson counties. In fulfillment of his pledge to hold at least one town hall each year in each of the state’s 36 counties, Wyden has held 966 town halls statewide to date. “Open-to-all town halls in every nook and cranny of our state are essential to the ‘Oregon Way’ of civil discussions about import- ant issues,” Wyden said. “I look forward very much to hearing Oregonians’ ideas, concerns, questions and priorities in these upcoming town halls.” Wyden will also hold town halls in: • Tillamook County 10:30 sent to our darling Mom, a.m. Monday, Feb. 17 at Port of Tillamook Bay Officers Grandma & Great Grandma Beryle Mess Hall, 6825 Officer’s in celebration of her 106th! Row Road, Tillamook. • Lincoln County 2:30 Pip Pip, we all love you p.m. Monday, Feb. 17, at the Newport Recreation Center, so very, very much! 225 SE Avery St., Newport. 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