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    Wednesday, June 13, 2018 The Nugget Newspaper, Sisters, Oregon        19
High court to consider
gun-control measure
By Andrew Selsky
Associated Press
PORTLAND  (AP)  —  A 
proposed ballot measure that 
would  restrict  ownership  of 
assault  weapons  and  large-
capacity magazines wound up 
in the Oregon Supreme Court 
after  a  gun  rights  proponent 
on Wednesday petitioned for a 
review of the ballot title, say-
ing it was politically charged 
and deceptive.
The  state’s  high  court 
received  the  review  one  day 
before  the  deadline,  said 
Phillip Lemman of the Oregon 
Judicial Department. The topic 
has  become  incendiary  amid 
a  flood  of  school  shootings, 
many of them carried out with 
AR-15 semi-automatic assault 
rifles.
Backers  of  the  statewide 
initiative told a news confer-
ence in a church in Portland, 
Oregon,  they  are  ready  to 
launch a statewide campaign 
to  gather  enough  signatures 
to  put  the  measure  on  the 
November ballot as soon as the 
court finishes its deliberations.
“We  want  to  move  for-
ward  and  give  Oregonians 
the  chance  to  vote,”  said 
Pastor  Mark  Knutson  of  the 
Augustana Lutheran Church, 
one of the three chief peti-
tioners. “We are ready. As an 
organization  we  are building 
tremendous capacity through-
out the state to get the 88,000 
signatures that are required in 
the time that we are given, by 
July 6.”
The campaigners are count-
ing on the participation of
youth,  who  protested  across 
the nation to demand stricter 
gun laws, to help gather signa-
tures, and on places of worship.
In  his  request  to  the 
Supreme  Court  for  a  review, 
gun  rights  advocate  Roger 
Beyer said the ballot language 
“uses  the  politically  charged 
and emotionally laden words, 
‘assault weapons,’ and ‘large 
capacity  magazines.’  The 
description is also misleading, 
argumentative, and deceptive 
because it implies the measure 
applies only to a limited and 
belligerent  group  of  ‘assault 
weapons’ gun owners.”
The  proposed  measure, 
known  as  Initiative  Petition 
43,  would  go  before  voters 
in  the  November  election  if 
enough verified signatures are 
collected in time. If on the bal-
lot, a “yes” vote would require 
registration  with  the  Oregon 
State Police of “assault weap-
ons,”  defined to  include  cer-
tain  semi-automatic  rifles  or 
pistols with a detachable mag-
azine;  pistol  or  rifles  with  a 
fixed magazine holding more 
than 10 rounds of ammunition 
and  certain  semi-automatic 
shotguns; and magazines with 
a  capacity  of  more  than  10 
rounds.
Background checks would 
also  have  to  be  conducted. 
Weapons  would  have  to  be 
disposed of if they’re not reg-
istered. The attorney general’s 
office  on  May  23  issued  its 
review,  edit  and  approval  of 
the ballot initiative’s caption, 
statement  and  summary.  But 
Beyer had issues with it.
“A fair read of IP43 leaves 
only  one  reasonable  impres-
sion as to its major effect and 
intended  purpose,  and  that 
is  to  criminalize  the  posses-
sion,  purchase  or  transfer  of 
most semi-automatic firearms 
and  their  magazines,”  Beyer 
wrote in his petition with the 
Supreme Court.
In the press conference in 
Knutson’s  church,  Knutson 
joined  with  a  rabbi  and  a 
Muslim imam to announce that 
from Friday, June 29 through 
Sunday,  July  1,  a  signature-
gathering  campaign  will  be 
launched  at  churches,  syna-
gogues  and  mosques  around 
the  state  —  if  the  Supreme 
Court  has  finished  assessing 
the request for review.
State  law  says  the  court’s 
review  “shall  be  conducted 
expeditiously”  so  the  signa-
tures can be collected.
The  Supreme  Court  can 
either  approve  the  certified 
ballot title as-is, rewrite it or 
order  the  attorney general to 
make changes.
Your Story
MATTERS
Audry Van Houweling, PMHNP
Columnist
A woman’s desire
for control
One  of  my  goals  in 
my  practice  is  to  heighten 
insight  and  self-awareness 
among  my  clients.  Many 
of my female clients come 
to  me  with  complaints 
of  feeling  overwhelmed, 
exhausted, and underappre-
ciated. These symptoms are 
often married to perfection-
istic tendencies and attempts 
to  control  the  external  to 
compensate  for  internal 
chaos. 
Now  for  some  con-
troversy.  When  it  comes 
to  control  and  gender,  it 
seems  that  a  double  stan-
dard  exists.  Men  are  often 
chastised  for  seeking  con-
trol in a relationship as it
seems  akin  to  emotional 
abuse  and  patriarchy.  This 
sense of disapproval is war-
ranted; however, I question 
whether women are judged 
by  the  same  standard.  It 
seems  more  acceptable  for 
a woman to voice emotional 
distress  over  a  controlling 
man,  yet  if  a  man  were  to 
voice his emotional distress 
he would need to overcome 
a societally reinforced bar-
rier  of  embarrassment  and 
defeat.
A man may feel pressure 
to acquiesce in order to not 
“rock the boat” and conse-
quently, similar to a woman 
in the same position, resent-
ment can flourish. 
When  I  ask  women  — 
many of whom laud equal-
ity as a core value — to put 
themselves  in  the  shoes  of 
their partner or children or 
inquire whether they would 
tolerate  the  same  level  of 
control from their partner, a 
good healthy pause and then 
reflection ensues. Ironically, 
these  women  often  voice 
that their partner is too pas-
sive,  yet  simultaneously 
insist on “doing it all” and 
have  difficulty  delegating 
even simple tasks.
A  woman’s  desire  for 
control  certainly  is  not 
born  in  a  vacuum.  Often, 
the origins of her control-
ling tendencies are rooted in 
trauma. Trauma is an insidi-
ous  and  almost  universal 
experience  among  women. 
Taking  control  and  main-
taining order may have been 
critical  to  emotional  and 
physical  survival  at  times, 
which can be a hard pattern 
to  shake  even  when  emo-
tional  and  physical  safety 
are secured. This can leave 
well-meaning spouses, chil-
dren, coworkers, and others 
in the path of the “control
storm.” 
Putting  aside  individual 
experiences,  our  society 
alone perpetuates the persis-
tent  unease  among  women 
that  “we  are  not  yet  good 
enough  until…”  This  by 
itself can cause a strong fear 
of disapproval and ongoing 
attempts to control partners, 
children, co-workers, food, 
appearances,  and  money, 
among other things. 
A  woman  may  have 
experienced times of chaos 
or  abuse  or  dysfunction 
that left her feeling desper-
ate  for  a  sense  of  control. 
Micromanaging,  demands, 
and  persistent  critique  are 
often  secondary  to  a  sense 
of emptiness or internal tur-
moil that fuels uncertainly, 
self-doubt, and the need for 
external  validation,  praise, 
or a sense of order. In some 
cases, a woman experienc-
ing abuse from a spouse or 
partner may seek to regain 
a sense of power or control 
by displacing her anger and 
resentment  onto  her  chil-
dren. It comes as no surprise 
that the children who have 
absorbed emotional impacts 
from their mother and father 
then  also  start  display-
ing  concerning  behaviors. 
Children may then be chas-
tised, given that they are not 
fulfilling desired outcomes 
and yet in trying to correct 
the behavior, it is only fur-
ther reinforced.
Control  is  about  being 
attached to an outcome that 
will somehow, per our per-
ception,  dissipate  fear  of 
the  unknown.  Yet  despite 
our  best  efforts  to  plan, 
manage,  and  control,  the 
unknown will always exist 
a minute from now, an hour 
from now, tomorrow, and so 
on. Letting go of outcomes 
is not giving up, but rather 
trusting yourself enough to 
navigate  the  unknown  — 
whatever  may  come  your 
way. 
Please join us for the 2nd Annual
City of Sisters BBQ
Tuesday, June 19 • 4:30 to 6:30 p.m.
Smile, Sisters!
We’re committed
to your dental
health!
Exceptional Health,
Prevention & Aesthetics
For Your Family!
Trevor Frideres d.m.d.
Ben Crockett, d.d.s.
p 541-549-9486 f 541-549-9110
410 E. Cascade Ave. • P.O. Box 1027 • Sisters
Hours: Mon., 9 a.m.-6 p.m.; Tues.-Wed., 8 a.m.-4 p.m.;
Thurs., 7 a.m.-3 p.m.
Sisters City Council l invites you to join them
h for
f a BBQ at City Hall.
l
You will have a chance to meet and talk with your City Councilors,
City Staff, and the folks from Sisters Country Horizons.
We will have hamburgers, hotdogs and all the fixins!
Bring your family and join the fun!
City Hall parking lot | 520 E. Cascade Ave.